[DanteRizad]

Hey Guys, I am a 20 year old kid from the midwest. All my life I have had weird problems not with only women but relationships in general. I had a very awkward time as a youth because I didn't know how to talk to people. Through much work and a dedicated conscious effort, I am growing my circle of friends.

I had a drug problem with oxycontin but thats not the main point, I became crazy skinny(5'11 165). I been off pills for 1 year and I blimped the fuck out to 215. Since November I have been working out 6 days a week and it shows. I have confidence. I have more a fuck you come do somethin about it attitude. Not starting shit but ready to handle my own (not for a fight necessarily but socially-but a fight too More muscle definition. I'm 200 right now if you were wondering.

Now, its time to add game to my arsenal. My problem wasn't the approach in high school. I was out of school so I am quite rusty but I think I can regain the approach. It was the close that was the biggest problem for me. Looking back I should have read that shit like a fucking book but I'm not here to feel sorry for myself. I am here to move forward. I start school in in 6 days but my concerns are not in the short term at the moment.

I have come to realize my time in America is coming to an end. I am an Eastern Indian mixed with Sicilian. Thats awesome for other places, but in the midwest it sucks ass. I'm talking about racism by the way lol. Also, I have been unemployed since 08 (not for lack of trying, believe me). Which leads to financial securities but I'm not bitchin. I am doing generals now, hoping to learn Portuguese and move to Brazil. I start university Portuguese classes in the summer but I am starting research now.

Chicks in my area are generally speaking beat as hell. But its good to start getting laid and practice. So I'll be lurking and doing research and ordering Bang. The preview resonated with me very much so I think it will help me alot. I just wanted to say hey and give a background. If you have advice, I am all ears.

2011 is going to be my fucking year!

[FretDancer]

Hey man welcome on board. You're still young and it's good you decided to get yout shit together, also its good that you got alot of motivation in you. Good luck mate, and make 2011 worth it

[rudebwoy]

Good luck man, sounds like you are on the right course.

[bigbootyluvr]

get on livemocha.com and sign up for the brazilian portugese course. It is $20 a month and it is the best 20 bux you will ever spend, I can guarantee you. Stay away from friends that do oxy's or any other drugs, even if that means having NO friends. Focus on bettering yourself every day- hitting the gym, studying your language, and reading. Maybe even find an online niche that would fund your living in brazil. (HINT: don't try to be another tim ferris knockoff like half the dudes on this board, the internet is full of them now)....you'll figure it out. we've got your back! keep us updated.

[Vesuvius]

Drugs and Alchohol can really hurt your game and your life in general. They nearly destroyed me. Yeah RIC is kind of beat up too. I've considered going up to DC or Northern VA. But if I can't run good game here, then my problems will just follow me. Congratulations on getting off the Oxy. I heard it's really a bitch. I think the best advice to being more outgoing in general came from Mystery. Just start random conversations with people in general. It doesn't have to be a chick. For me I just ask people about the random shit that goes through my mind. If you could be a dog what breed would you be?