OK, so I go out to random bar the other night with live music.
Girl #1 situation:
Sit down at bar, drinking watching band. Cougar comes up and I notice I sat in the seat she had been in next to her old hag of a friend. So I say "oh here you can have it back" and move over one chair. Anyway, I start chatting w/her and get a lot of positive feedback. Bumping me with her leg, light touching on the arm as she makes a point. At some point she says, "you know, I know this great singles group that a lot of my friends are in. They're more your age and they're all really hot and would like to meet a hot guy like you." At this point I was trying to number close her, so I was a little annoyed. Then she says, "I'm not rejecting you or anything, I just think you would like these girls." I told her I want her number and she says "how about I get yours and I'll tell you when the next singles night is?". Long story short (or long) I go away without a number. I closed saying, "You won't call me anyway, have a good night." Trying to maintain some dignity.
Anything I could have done differently here? I thought I was clearly expressing interest and she didn't have a wedding ring, don't know what went wrong.
Girl #2:
Younger chick sitting by herself drinking at the bar. We chat for a while, she's a little less talkative but constantly playing with her hair while we talk. I number close and she says, "I only give my number to guys after I've seen them out twice. I get too many creepy guys texting me a lot." This was clearly a blowoff line, but I had no reponse other than, "well have a great night then, you won't see me again."
Any suggestions on this one?
Thanks!
Girl #1 situation:
Sit down at bar, drinking watching band. Cougar comes up and I notice I sat in the seat she had been in next to her old hag of a friend. So I say "oh here you can have it back" and move over one chair. Anyway, I start chatting w/her and get a lot of positive feedback. Bumping me with her leg, light touching on the arm as she makes a point. At some point she says, "you know, I know this great singles group that a lot of my friends are in. They're more your age and they're all really hot and would like to meet a hot guy like you." At this point I was trying to number close her, so I was a little annoyed. Then she says, "I'm not rejecting you or anything, I just think you would like these girls." I told her I want her number and she says "how about I get yours and I'll tell you when the next singles night is?". Long story short (or long) I go away without a number. I closed saying, "You won't call me anyway, have a good night." Trying to maintain some dignity.
Anything I could have done differently here? I thought I was clearly expressing interest and she didn't have a wedding ring, don't know what went wrong.
Girl #2:
Younger chick sitting by herself drinking at the bar. We chat for a while, she's a little less talkative but constantly playing with her hair while we talk. I number close and she says, "I only give my number to guys after I've seen them out twice. I get too many creepy guys texting me a lot." This was clearly a blowoff line, but I had no reponse other than, "well have a great night then, you won't see me again."
Any suggestions on this one?
Thanks!