Hey guys recently ive been getting a lot of numbers from pof and tinder but im having trouble converting them into actual person meets. I always go for the meet up quite early during texting as I don't want to get into a back and forth about inane shit that traps a lot of guys.
However every one of them has got an excuse i.e. working, busy, I was just wandering how you guys get past the problem and actually get these girls out and into the real world?
Also do you think the problem is that I don't seem exciting enough even though I try to meet up with them quick/tease them early into the conversation. Or do you think that there is not enough "comfort" game involved where you let them know you're a cool guy?
Also for the second part has anyone had any experience of using "snapchat" to create comfort and to show you're a cool guy who they should meet?
Finally when they have agreed to the meet do you meet them at a bar for example or do you try and get them direct to your house as soup says in his get girls direct to your house thread?
Sorry for the long post but there's no point in making multiple threads. If this thread goes of on a tangent and you have a direct answer pm me as it'll be easier to communicate. Thanks
However every one of them has got an excuse i.e. working, busy, I was just wandering how you guys get past the problem and actually get these girls out and into the real world?
Also do you think the problem is that I don't seem exciting enough even though I try to meet up with them quick/tease them early into the conversation. Or do you think that there is not enough "comfort" game involved where you let them know you're a cool guy?
Also for the second part has anyone had any experience of using "snapchat" to create comfort and to show you're a cool guy who they should meet?
Finally when they have agreed to the meet do you meet them at a bar for example or do you try and get them direct to your house as soup says in his get girls direct to your house thread?
Sorry for the long post but there's no point in making multiple threads. If this thread goes of on a tangent and you have a direct answer pm me as it'll be easier to communicate. Thanks