[Virtus]

Statsi, but if you're ok she sleeps with other guys then why do you care? If you are you are, if you ain't you ain't. The beautiful part of being a man is that you can both make up your mind and be ok with that decision.

[WestCoast]

Laughed out loud.

Once you realize that women are basically grown up kids you can't take them seriously anymore (vast majority about 99% or so).

Women want zero responsibility for any of their actions based on how they feel in the moment.

[Statsi]

(02-24-2014 11:42 AM)calihunter Wrote:  

Statsi, but if you're ok she sleeps with other guys then why do you care? If you are you are, if you ain't you ain't. The beautiful part of being a man is that you can both make up your mind and be ok with that decision.

It's not that you care, just that even in this open relationship deals it tends toward the woman being monogomous effectively anyway.

[Virtus]

Right, yet the way you phrased it it seemed "ah, shell grow out of it and will be monogamous anyways" . my point wasn't that, which is true. They go for the better deal anyhow. My point was that if you don't care if she sleeps with other guys then this thought is kinda random and would not enter your mind anyhow. if you don't care you don't care

[Agent 47]

I have been reading /r/redpill for a couple weeks now. Good Stuff. The members drop some serious knowledge bombs there.

Can't find who was the op but they said something like this "...If a women suggests a open relationship, YOU fucked up. YOU were not alpha enough for her and now she wants to see if she can upgrade. She has an idea of who she wants to fuck and will use you as emotional and material support while she rides the carousel..."
Open relationships tend to benefit women more then men..."

I can't find the thread similar to this but another bitch suggested an open relationship with her boyfriend of 5 YEARS and dude just straight fucks her up and drops that bitch like a hot potato. He "cuts his losses" and leaves her an emotional wreck.

Ride on brothers.

[RockHard]

(02-24-2014 02:40 PM)Agent 47 Wrote:  

Can't find who was the op but they said something like this "...If a women suggests a open relationship, YOU fucked up. YOU were not alpha enough for her and now she wants to see if she can upgrade. She has an idea of who she wants to fuck and will use you as emotional and material support while she rides the carousel..."
Open relationships tend to benefit women more then men..."

That's so true. Go on OKC and count the number of 40-something "available" bitches who put in their profile that they're into polyamory and want an "alpha".

That was great entertainment, thanks for posting peterthephoenix

[Bluesexplosion]

(02-23-2014 01:48 PM)peterthephoenix Wrote:  

"I have debated for days whether to send this to you and potentially ruin your vacation. But you deserve to know the truth. Daniel has been seeing another woman since you left. There is no doubt that he is seeing her, she has come over most nights and I have heard them being intimate. You deserve so much better. I'm so sorry."

[tawillionaire]

Best thing I've ever read

Sad thing is I actually believe it's true because the same shit happened with me and my ex. I didn't pull it off nearly as well as the dude in that story, but I was fucking my ex's friend a month after she said she wanted an "open relationship" (aka the day we broke up).

[tawillionaire]

(02-24-2014 02:40 PM)Agent 47 Wrote:  

Can't find who was the op but they said something like this "...If a women suggests a open relationship, YOU fucked up. YOU were not alpha enough for her and now she wants to see if she can upgrade. She has an idea of who she wants to fuck and will use you as emotional and material support while she rides the carousel..."
Open relationships tend to benefit women more then men..."

True, but IME any girl who would suggest any "open relationship" in the middle of dating you is a psycho manipulative bitch, and no matter how alpha you think you are you can never keep that type of girl in check all the time. Better to just move on once you realize it cause you can't win that game.

[Samseau]

Funnily enough, last month I had an experience that was quite similar to the OP. Girl I've been seeing tells me she doesn't want to see me anymore, wants to break up, etc. etc.

I said, "What are you talking about? We never agreed to be exclusive in the first place."

But she insists on ending it anyways. So I say, "Let's go." I bring her back to my apt and fuck her brains out. Breakup sex is really intense.

Then I see her at a dance two days later. I'm dancing with other girls, flirting and having a good time etc. We finally cross paths and I hold out my hand, which she grabs.

I said, "I didn't know you were coming to see me tonight."

"Who says I'm here to see you?"

"Feels like you are."

Brought her home after that, banged her again. Now I'm seeing her again this weekend in NYC.

In my experience, if a girl actually wants to "talk" to you about the breakup, then it's nothing more than a shit-test you can overcome. There are many kinds of breakups:

"I need space" (you're too nice to her, she needs you to stop giving her so much attention)
"We're too different" (she wants to see if you'll fall for such a weak line)
"We should have an open relationship" (she wants to see if you can fuck girls hotter than she is)

The fact of the matter is, if a girl REALLY wants to dump you, you won't even get to talk about it. She'll be out the door, and you'll get radio silence. Maybe a text saying goodbye. But if she's still next to you, while saying she wants to end things or see other guys, then she's just having moments of doubt and needs more game from you. Follow her actions, not her words.

[Sombro]

(02-24-2014 08:07 AM)Statsi Wrote:  

Daniel is a beast, game recognised. This story brings to mind an open relationship thread on this forum, where someone said that you can offer a girl a non-exclusive deal up front and still have her be exclusive to you cause girls really don't get happiness from multiple conquests. You gotta be strong enough to actually not care if she sleeps with other dudes, and she might for a little while, inevitably she'll just be with you and you can do what you want.