This is a second observation between the pro guys and the guys that are learning and it is also my main weakness and greatest regret:
Not being aggressive enough
If I have regrets about anything this is it. My weakness is that I get off on reactions from the girl but in many instances you won't get much initially and you just have to keep pushing forward. How do you know when you have pushed far enough? When the girl backs off, move away, or says something - when she becomes a little uncomfortable. Then you back off too but as long as she is still there with you and not hiding under the table in the corner of the room then you have to continue.
I think it's ironic that a lot of guys think I am aggressive but the truth is, I am not nearly as aggressive as I should be. The pros know this and are almost extremely aggressive and that's one of the reasons they get the results. Probably more than anything else, this will get your further than being simply skilled at the Game. If you can develop just one trait, this would be it. Another way of putting it, if you are going to make an error, error on the side of being too aggressive rather than not being aggressive enough. I know the American culture has literally beaten it out of you but that's only makes it something you have to work on even harder.
Not being aggressive enough
If I have regrets about anything this is it. My weakness is that I get off on reactions from the girl but in many instances you won't get much initially and you just have to keep pushing forward. How do you know when you have pushed far enough? When the girl backs off, move away, or says something - when she becomes a little uncomfortable. Then you back off too but as long as she is still there with you and not hiding under the table in the corner of the room then you have to continue.
I think it's ironic that a lot of guys think I am aggressive but the truth is, I am not nearly as aggressive as I should be. The pros know this and are almost extremely aggressive and that's one of the reasons they get the results. Probably more than anything else, this will get your further than being simply skilled at the Game. If you can develop just one trait, this would be it. Another way of putting it, if you are going to make an error, error on the side of being too aggressive rather than not being aggressive enough. I know the American culture has literally beaten it out of you but that's only makes it something you have to work on even harder.