[TrueSlyr]

I met this girl from Tinder who openly admitted to me she was just using it to hookup. So we made plans to just meet and fuck.

We meet at a bar and have a drink. anyways she said she wouldn't be coming over to fuck because "she wasn't feeling it..."

How do you deal this? I was on a pretty good streak with SNL from first dates with online girls (that were more attractive than this one too) but this seems like a few steps back for me.

[Saga]

Unless you made an obvious mistake then don't worry about it, women are fickle and it's just how it is. The less you think about her the better.

[Andoran]

[WestIndianArchie]

Do a little bit of analysis for a major mistake in your short game, adjust, don't dwell.

Keep in mind, the Gucci loafer will be on the other foot, where some chick botches it with you.

What bothers me is when I missed the obvious signs, or when I didn't bang her more when we were seeing each other.

[speakeasy]

I just missed out on a Tinder bang. My mistake was too much time went by and never got a second meeting. Not entirely my fault though, she was flakey as hell even before our first date. I'll be more careful next time about keeping the momentum going after a good first date.

[TrueSlyr]

I didn't game her when we met. What's the point? We met just to fuck. It's not a game issue here I don't think since no game was needed. It was attraction I believe. But I banged hotter girls than her so I don't know why she wouldn't fuck me too after saying she would via text.

[Giovonny]

Take a moment to LEARN FROM IT and then MOVE ON.

Make it your mission to bang a girl who is equally as hot or hotter.

[Blaster]

Know that in 5-10 years (less if she fattens up) her sexual value will have plummetted and you will not care anymore. In the meantime forget her and find the next girl.

[MY DETROIT PLAYAS]

Sounds like a case of easy come, easy go...

Been there before, was a point in time I would overanalyze it too...even to the point of re-tracing my steps

Just look at it like trying to catching trout flowing downstream with your bare hands, sometimes a few are going to get away. However, your grasp is strong enough (ie Your Game) you should be well feed for years to come.

I've learned even with scenario's like the one you described, NOT to count my chickens before they hatch. Chicks too fickle.

EDIT: She MIGHT be back

[WestIndianArchie]

(02-07-2014 02:37 PM)TrueSlyr Wrote:  

I didn't game her when we met. What's the point?

Judges of the game, can I get a ruling here?

WIA

[AneroidOcean]

(02-07-2014 02:37 PM)TrueSlyr Wrote:  

I didn't game her when we met. What's the point? We met just to fuck. It's not a game issue here I don't think since no game was needed. It was attraction I believe. But I banged hotter girls than her so I don't know why she wouldn't fuck me too after saying she would via text.

I bolded the problem. You're making an assumption that I don't think was true. While minutely possible that there's some physical characteristic about you that precluded her from fucking you, I think the belief that once she says she wants to fuck that you can stop gaming her once you meet in person is wrong. The most effective game is in person, why would you drop it once you meet?

You shouldn't let missed bangs hang over your head, but there's no reason you shouldn't learn something from possible mistakes so that you make less in the future. I've done way too much of the former and not enough of the latter in the past.

[Giovonny]

(02-07-2014 03:43 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

(02-07-2014 02:37 PM)TrueSlyr Wrote:  

I didn't game her when we met. What's the point?

Judges of the game, can I get a ruling here?

WIA

Guilty!

For failing to game until the end result was achieved!

Game is necessary until penis is inserted into vagina!

And, Game is STILL NECESSARY during sex.

And, Game is also necessary after sex, if you want to keep her as a fuck buddy.

If you are not playing the game, be careful, the game might be playing you.

(02-07-2014 02:37 PM)TrueSlyr Wrote:  

I didn't game her when we met. What's the point?

The point is this..

Girl often get "last minute resistance".

Their body wants to fuck but their mind tries to come up with reasons to avoid doing it.

This is why we must continue gaming until her legs are spread and her pussy is wet.

The ability to close is one of the most important sub-categories of game.

[AneroidOcean]

(02-07-2014 04:08 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(02-07-2014 03:43 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

(02-07-2014 02:37 PM)TrueSlyr Wrote:  

I didn't game her when we met. What's the point?

Judges of the game, can I get a ruling here?

WIA

Guilty!

Can I get a ruling here on my theory?

Theory: The sluttier/more attractive/more options a girl is/has, the FASTER the lack of game/bad game will dry up her vagina like the Sahara and vice versa.

[Giovonny]

(02-07-2014 04:14 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

Can I get a ruling here on my theory?

Theory: The sluttier/more attractive/more options a girl is/has, the FASTER the lack of game/bad game will dry up her vagina like the Sahara and vice versa.

Generally speaking...

Yes! Your theory is correct.

The more a girl gets gamed, the more aware she is of game, the less tolerance she has for bad game.

Of course, there are exceptions to every rule but in most cases, your theory will hold true.

[AneroidOcean]

(02-07-2014 04:18 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

Generally speaking...

Yes! Your theory is correct.

The more a girl gets gamed, the more aware she is of game, the less tolerance she has for bad game.

Of course, there are exceptions to every rule but in most cases, your theory will hold true.

Giovonny, judge, jury, and sexecutioner. Okay, I'm done derailing.

[Chewbacon]

what prompted her to meet up with you was attraction + horniness.

Horniness is a whim for women, and attraction, as we know from game, is not enough.

Likely what happened was by the time she met up with you she wasn't "feeling" the horniness anymore. She probably felt a bit slutty afterwards. Hence no bang.

[Statsi]

Your immediate reaction should be to next, you aren't going to make huge immediate improvements to your game following a rejection, even a last minute from from what appeared a sure thing. In the short term just ignore it, it's her loss, next girl.

In the longer term you should be occasionally pausing and reflecting. Roosh recommends a game journal to help with this, though I think you should be keeping a general journal as game should be an integral part of your life. Try new things suggested here on the forum, consider rejections and things you could do differently.

[Travesty]

(02-07-2014 04:18 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

Generally speaking...

Yes! Your theory is correct.

The more a girl gets gamed, the more aware she is of game, the less tolerance she has for bad game.

Of course, there are exceptions to every rule but in most cases, your theory will hold true.

This is why virgin girls that get married are much much less likely to divorce.

No

Doubt

About It

[travolta]

(02-07-2014 02:21 PM)TrueSlyr Wrote:  

I met this girl from Tinder who openly admitted to me she was just using it to hookup. So we made plans to just meet and fuck.

We meet at a bar and have a drink. anyways she said she wouldn't be coming over to fuck because "she wasn't feeling it..."

How do you deal this? I was on a pretty good streak with SNL from first dates with online girls (that were more attractive than this one too) but this seems like a few steps back for me.

She just wasn't into you that much. Pretty simple.. You weren't her type. It's not going to work with every girl you meet. There is no "game" for this. Just move on and find girls who like you.

[spalex]

Go home and masturbate

Rinse

Repeat

[The Beast1]

Write 'em off. Had a ginger friend at my place this past weekend that I screwed around with. Big whore, traveled the world riding foreign strange.

Figured it was in the bag, got the, "We're not going to go past make out." Got some heady resistance.

I backed off and went to bed. She crashed on the couch. Next day she asked for a ride to someplace, I laughed and said YoYo. She left, I took her number out of my phone, and moved on.

You can't win 'em all. Next the bisch and move on.

[j r]

(02-07-2014 02:21 PM)TrueSlyr Wrote:  

I met this girl from Tinder who openly admitted to me she was just using it to hookup. So we made plans to just meet and fuck.

We meet at a bar and have a drink. anyways she said she wouldn't be coming over to fuck because "she wasn't feeling it..."

How do you deal this? I was on a pretty good streak with SNL from first dates with online girls (that were more attractive than this one too) but this seems like a few steps back for me.

It helps when you realize that this situation is an illusion. You thought it was a sure thing, but it was never a sure thing.

This girl was just being open about what most girls conceal. Most girls are down to fuck if they are feeling it, they just don't come out and say it. In fact, they pretend the opposite. So, when you meet a girl like this, you start thinking that it's going to be an open layup. Really though, there's a 7 ft defender that you can't see and at the last minute he's going to come out of nowhere and try to pin your shot to the glass.