[Cruatha]

This sounds like a lot of fun, I am in.

I am going to track my stats as well I think.

[FretDancer]

Man reading all these replies got me motivated. I'm definitely in! Hopefully this makes 2011 a complete success

[Kickb]

Lol tried talking to these two chicks today when they were in their car. It felt awkward but they seemed into it. Might have them over on Tuesday...the chances are low tho

[FretDancer]

(12-26-2010 09:15 PM)kickboxer Wrote:  

Lol tried talking to these two chicks today when they were in their car. It felt awkward but they seemed into it. Might have them over on Tuesday...the chances are low tho

Share us the complete story would be nice.

[docsedated]

(12-25-2010 06:39 PM)Urban Renaissance Man Wrote:  

(12-25-2010 07:27 AM)Sirob Wrote:  

All this talk is getting me super motivated to get my ass out there in 2011 and start approaching 2 women per day (I did this for around 3 months, aug sep and oct, until hard winter set in).

Count me in as the overseas trooper in switzerland (the red neck land of europa). All systems set for launch on Jan 9, when I return.

Well, that's what this is all about! o motivate guys into action!

If the players on this board don't mind, I'm give to give a weekly report on my progress in a new thread in January. I will try to be as descriptive as possible while still protecting the innocent. lol. Hopefully others will join with their experiences.

Keep in mind that this is also a learning process. Learning what to say and to not say, how to open properly, how to handle rejection, best place to go to meet girls, etc. We should all be better Macks and more successful in June than we are in January!

I second the motion by Urban Renaissance man, I was thinking of Hijacking the Idea of Stats for 2011 but I think I will let Urban Renaissance start it or better....

have an Idea for Rooshto start a place where young gamers can post there stats and get critiqued...

Another good reason to put the statistics on a piece of paper is that ithelps you see where the problem is, Approach to numbers ratio, Numbers to Date ratio, Dates to Close etc...... , Also Mixx has pointed out in the past to keep track of where are U most successful, what time of the day, Age range, ethnicity etc............ , In my case If I travel about 20 min to a small town I am having much better success, go figure I live in Uni town but have to go out to be successful with Chicas ?......

I will start by posting my December stats, I have approached 45 girls(still 5 more days to go and my goal is to get to 60) and gotten 13 numbers , out of which 2 turned into dates, Out of that One turned into BJ, one date is scheduled for this week.

Starting April 2010 my rate of getting numbers was only 10% but I can see it has increased to about 30 %, now my sticky is getting the numbers to dates only (10 %) and converting to close which is terrible.

Lots of days I just couldn't go out to approach,There were days that even 7 approaches didn't yield a number number and then there were days when I have approached 3 girls and all three gave me there numbers, I am making sure to get a good connection before ejecting but still have a high percentage that do not meet again, I know WTF...... Numbers to Dates ? I am at my wits end on how to Increase it.... and would appreciate any Critique and please do, I will learn from that......

[MiXX]

(12-27-2010 09:14 AM)docsedated Wrote:  

I have approached 45 girls(still 5 more days to go and my goal is to get to 60) and gotten 13 numbers , out of which 2 turned into dates, Out of that One turned into BJ, one date is scheduled for this week.

OOhhh woooow!! I am sooo proud of you right now, watching you from the first 5 minutes I saw you fidgeting around women, looking down at the floor in fear of rejection as you spoke to them. Now, you are BJ closing girls...


I promised myself that when you master the game, no matter what happened, I was not going to cry!!!

Mixx

[docsedated]

(12-27-2010 09:19 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

(12-27-2010 09:14 AM)docsedated Wrote:  

I have approached 45 girls(still 5 more days to go and my goal is to get to 60) and gotten 13 numbers , out of which 2 turned into dates, Out of that One turned into BJ, one date is scheduled for this week.

OOhhh woooow!! I am sooo proud of you right now, watching you from the first 5 minutes I saw you fidgeting around women, looking down at the floor in fear of rejection as you spoke to them. Now, you are BJ closing girls...


I promised myself that when you master the game, no matter what happened, I was not going to cry!!!

Mixx

Mixx to make you more proud and may be you will cry.......

I didn't put my stats for the whole year (2010), I have roughly approached 500 Girls and got 3 Unique bangs with a new German Flag and 2 BJ's, Now that's less then 1 % .... (Pathetic i think) still better then 2009 with Zero Unique bang but 2 BJ, HJ , Multiple K loses etc

I have gotten better but 3 unique bangs in a year is not enough to satisfy me ........, I need more and more.... and need suggestions to Improve.

[Urban Renaissance Man]

(12-27-2010 09:14 AM)docsedated Wrote:  

(12-25-2010 06:39 PM)Urban Renaissance Man Wrote:  

(12-25-2010 07:27 AM)Sirob Wrote:  

All this talk is getting me super motivated to get my ass out there in 2011 and start approaching 2 women per day (I did this for around 3 months, aug sep and oct, until hard winter set in).

Count me in as the overseas trooper in switzerland (the red neck land of europa). All systems set for launch on Jan 9, when I return.

Well, that's what this is all about! o motivate guys into action!

If the players on this board don't mind, I'm give to give a weekly report on my progress in a new thread in January. I will try to be as descriptive as possible while still protecting the innocent. lol. Hopefully others will join with their experiences.

Keep in mind that this is also a learning process. Learning what to say and to not say, how to open properly, how to handle rejection, best place to go to meet girls, etc. We should all be better Macks and more successful in June than we are in January!

I second the motion by Urban Renaissance man, I was thinking of Hijacking the Idea of Stats for 2011 but I think I will let Urban Renaissance start it or better....

have an Idea for Rooshto start a place where young gamers can post there stats and get critiqued...

Another good reason to put the statistics on a piece of paper is that ithelps you see where the problem is, Approach to numbers ratio, Numbers to Date ratio, Dates to Close etc...... , Also Mixx has pointed out in the past to keep track of where are U most successful, what time of the day, Age range, ethnicity etc............ , In my case If I travel about 20 min to a small town I am having much better success, go figure I live in Uni town but have to go out to be successful with Chicas ?......

I will start by posting my December stats, I have approached 45 girls(still 5 more days to go and my goal is to get to 60) and gotten 13 numbers , out of which 2 turned into dates, Out of that One turned into BJ, one date is scheduled for this week.

Starting April 2010 my rate of getting numbers was only 10% but I can see it has increased to about 30 %, now my sticky is getting the numbers to dates only (10 %) and converting to close which is terrible.

Lots of days I just couldn't go out to approach,There were days that even 7 approaches didn't yield a number number and then there were days when I have approached 3 girls and all three gave me there numbers, I am making sure to get a good connection before ejecting but still have a high percentage that do not meet again, I know WTF...... Numbers to Dates ? I am at my wits end on how to Increase it.... and would appreciate any Critique and please do, I will learn from that......

Well, from what I'm seeing you've gotten a 28% phone number ratio. I'm not sure where you were meeting these girls at but that's actually not too bad. In fact, based on what most of us have agreed on, you're actually right on target. If you continue the fine fight thru years end, you should end up with about 24 new 'team members' for the year. Assuming that the date this week will turn out good, you'll could very well end up with two 'encounters' for this month, even before January begins! Now, that might not sound like an awful lot but hopefully you've followed the rules and only approached 7's and better! If so, that's not bad at all. Those 2 girls will be added to the team you've already had, or you'll start your team building with two 7's!

[docsedated]

OK the date that was scheduled called me to CANCEL , WTF....... This is where I am getting frustrated , 30 % Number close but only 10 % or less will actually go to DAY 2......and believe me those numbers were after developing a connection and Girls asking me when will we meet again ?

I am asking for advice on how to play this current one, she left a message

" Something has come up & Unfortunately I can't come but definitely like to schedule again , so give a call and tell me a time that you are available and we will meet "

I called her a day later (Didn't want to seem needy) she didn't pick and left a message to call me back, haven't herad from her in 24 hrs,.........

what should I do now ? My Instint tells me to let it be and see what happens in 2 more ays and may be call her and if no contact , delete her number ......or .........Is there a better play ?

Did she got pissed that I didn't return her right after she left a message or am I thinking too much ?

Please chime in with advice ......

[wolf]

You're playing a numbers game so don't get hung up on the action of one chick, that will slow you down.

The reason why Mixx is so successful is even if he was desperate he would have a hard time showing it because he's talking to a lot of women. His attention is too divided. It's a vicious circle, you'll notice that you'll get better if you approach more women because of the experience factor and the fact that you give them less attention, which automatically draws them in.

[MiXX]

Wolf took the words right from my mouth. Dead on Wolf!

[wolf]

(12-28-2010 12:09 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

Wolf took the words right from my mouth. Dead on Wolf!

I know, I surprised myself on that one. I was sitting there stunned at what I wrote.

I remember when I had 12 numbers in my hand I was multitasking like a motherfucker, who this girl is, what the other girl sent me, when I should contact the other two girls, and etc. This even led to the moment when I looked in my phone book 3 weeks later and saw a name I was unfamiliar with. I realized that I forgot to get in contact with one of the girls, my attention was divided too such a point that I totally forgot about her. I texted her with some excuse that I lost my phone. When she gave me some resistance on meeting me to hang out I laughed and ignored her texts after that, I had dates set up with girls already.

I find it that it's good to have an excel spreadsheet when dealing with a lot of girls because I will tend to forget where I met the girl, what we talked about, or where we will meet up, and etc.

It's either none or many girls. If you try to go after one you're putting too much effort into her and your desperation will seep in. But with many girls your desperation will be divided by the number of girls. This is exactly what I got to do, I'm always running after one girl at a time, time to let out the wolf.

[Moma]

(12-28-2010 12:53 PM)wolf Wrote:  

(12-28-2010 12:09 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

Wolf took the words right from my mouth. Dead on Wolf!

I know, I surprised myself on that one. I was sitting there stunned at what I wrote.

I remember when I had 12 numbers in my hand I was multitasking like a motherfucker, who this girl is, what the other girl sent me, when I should contact the other two girls, and etc. This even led to the moment when I looked in my phone book 3 weeks later and saw a name I was unfamiliar with. I realized that I forgot to get in contact with one of the girls, my attention was divided too such a point that I totally forgot about her. I texted her with some excuse that I lost my phone. When she gave me some resistance on meeting me to hang out I laughed and ignored her texts after that, I had dates set up with girls already.

I find it that it's good to have an excel spreadsheet when dealing with a lot of girls because I will tend to forget where I met the girl, what we talked about, or where we will meet up, and etc.

It's either none or many girls. If you try to go after one you're putting too much effort into her and your desperation will seep in. But with many girls your desperation will be divided by the number of girls. This is exactly what I got to do, I'm always running after one girl at a time, time to let out the wolf.

I second dat. Right now, I am juggling four lizards, with a 5th one sitting in the wings. I have one who loves the sweet stick who generally comes over when I text her so I usually can get my physical let off but I am tired of being lazy.
I don't want to dampen my hunger. NYE is coming up and I am looking to open up on at least 10 reptiles.

I haven't engaged in much road game so far but I saw this lizard glance at me for an extended period of time in the gym a few days ago. The forum's advice ran through my head but I didn't react quickly. I gotta work on my knee jerk reaction.

I want to open up on some iguanas in my building but the thing is, I bring a lot of reptiles home to my joint to the point where my super grinned nastily at me one day and made some subtle comments to the noise one of my talents were making in my cribola.

There was a nice one Indian Guyanese or trini one in my building that engaged in convo and made pleasing eye contact with me but she has been distant since she saw me lead some prey into my domain.
I wouldn't mind mashing dat out since she has benefited from the multicultural DNA pool of the carribean and inherited some lovely Afro Carribean bum cheeks!

Keep on trucking, lads. I will relay data as I go along with failures and successes of my openings..still trying to pimp out my crib with maybe some blue lights and surround system for the soft jams to wetten the punnis.

[Urban Renaissance Man]

(12-28-2010 12:53 PM)wolf Wrote:  

(12-28-2010 12:09 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

Wolf took the words right from my mouth. Dead on Wolf!

I know, I surprised myself on that one. I was sitting there stunned at what I wrote.

I remember when I had 12 numbers in my hand I was multitasking like a motherfucker, who this girl is, what the other girl sent me, when I should contact the other two girls, and etc. This even led to the moment when I looked in my phone book 3 weeks later and saw a name I was unfamiliar with. I realized that I forgot to get in contact with one of the girls, my attention was divided too such a point that I totally forgot about her. I texted her with some excuse that I lost my phone. When she gave me some resistance on meeting me to hang out I laughed and ignored her texts after that, I had dates set up with girls already.

I find it that it's good to have an excel spreadsheet when dealing with a lot of girls because I will tend to forget where I met the girl, what we talked about, or where we will meet up, and etc.

It's either none or many girls. If you try to go after one you're putting too much effort into her and your desperation will seep in. But with many girls your desperation will be divided by the number of girls. This is exactly what I got to do, I'm always running after one girl at a time, time to let out the wolf.

The last thing anyone wants to do in this exercise is get hung up on one uncooperative girl! One of the main reasons for this procedure is to alleviate desperation by creating choices for yourself! In all actuality, the message that girl left him wasn't too bad and actually sounds as if she'll probably get back in touch with him, so long as he doesn't scare her a way with bug a boo-ing! After several days I might hit heer with a text just asking how she's doing. Nothing wrong with a follow up call, but nothing more than that.

As far as creating a spread sheet to track girls, don't most up to date smart phones have various logs and calendars that you can keep track of people, as well as taking pictures of the girl with your phone and attaching them to the girl's name.

I'm curious to get guys opinion on how much they feel clothing will play a part in bringing numbers up for this experiment. Will clothes really help to make the man?

[Moma]

(12-28-2010 04:03 PM)Urban Renaissance Man Wrote:  

I'm curious to get guys opinion on how much they feel clothing will play a part in bringing numbers up for this experiment. Will clothes really help to make the man?

Yes they will. Everything helps but nothing is guaranteed. Being good looking helps. Smelling clean helps. Having fresh breath helps. Having a sexy fcukable body helps.

All these components compiled together aids towards ease of closure.

If you eliminate all of these, you will just have to increase your volume of approaches to compensate for these missing pieces.

The whole point of this movement is to decrease sensitivity and reduce the value bestowed upon getting no's so being dressed well doesn't help but I think some positive responses help which is why even seasoned predators like Mixx won't go and swoop in areas where he is at a distinct advantage i.e. countries or cities where they are not very friendly towards good looking males of the hispanic persuasion.

[Urban Renaissance Man]

(12-28-2010 04:15 PM)Moma Wrote:  

(12-28-2010 04:03 PM)Urban Renaissance Man Wrote:  

I'm curious to get guys opinion on how much they feel clothing will play a part in bringing numbers up for this experiment. Will clothes really help to make the man?

Yes they will. Everything helps but nothing is guaranteed. Being good looking helps. Smelling clean helps. Having fresh breath helps. Having a sexy fcukable body helps.

All these components compiled together aids towards ease of closure.

If you eliminate all of these, you will just have to increase your volume of approaches to compensate for these missing pieces.

The whole point of this movement is to decrease sensitivity and reduce the value bestowed upon getting no's so being dressed well doesn't help but I think some positive responses help which is why even seasoned predators like Mixx won't go and swoop in areas where he is at a distinct advantage i.e. countries or cities where they are not very friendly towards good looking males of the hispanic persuasion.

I definitely agree that desensitizing oneself, along with improving game are the main goals. However, an effort still should be made to actually succeed in your approaches, and taking reasonable steps to improve your physical self is a part of a successful plan, I would think.

Also, there's a difference between being a brave warrior, undeterred by the perils of battle and a suicide bomber! I mean, the goal isn't actually to get told "no'! lol. Granted, we all know were going to hear "no" most of the time. I even calculated it at 90%! However, I'm going to try to do what I reasonably can to increase my percentages, and that includes dressing as well as I can possibly afford, trying to look at least decent pretty much everytime I leave the house, of course being clean and smelling clean, and keeping my ride clean and in good repair.

[MiXX]

I got my 2 approaches for today. One was a direct hit, coming over to my house for dinner in 1 hour =)

The first girl I approached was waiting for a bus....no dice, she freaked out, and felt very uncomfortable by my approach.

The second girl,was shy at first, but warmed up quickly when I told her my son is a toy poodle name Dino, and showed her pictures on my Iphone. She was sitting alone on the beach after her jog. So I invited her over for dinner and to "play with Dino"... * ehem * she hesitated, and left me her number.

2hrs later sends me a text: "So, what time is dinner?"

2010 is not over yet, I can still sqqqquuuueeeze one more bang in before the clock strikes midnight!

Mixx

[Urban Renaissance Man]

(12-28-2010 06:28 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

I got my 2 approaches for today. One was a direct hit, coming over to my house for dinner in 1 hour =)

The first girl I approached was waiting for a bus....no dice, she freaked out, and felt very uncomfortable by my approach.

The second girl,was shy at first, but warmed up quickly when I told her my son is a toy poodle name Dino, and showed her pictures on my Iphone. She was sitting alone on the beach after her jog. So I invited her over for dinner and to "play with Dino"... * ehem * she hesitated, and left me her number.

2hrs later sends me a text: "So, what time is dinner?"

2010 is not over yet, I can still sqqqquuuueeeze one more bang in before the clock strikes midnight!

Mixx

The girl waiting on the bus that freaked out, how did you approach her?

[wolf]

(12-28-2010 06:28 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

I got my 2 approaches for today. One was a direct hit, coming over to my house for dinner in 1 hour =)

The first girl I approached was waiting for a bus....no dice, she freaked out, and felt very uncomfortable by my approach.

The second girl,was shy at first, but warmed up quickly when I told her my son is a toy poodle name Dino, and showed her pictures on my Iphone. She was sitting alone on the beach after her jog. So I invited her over for dinner and to "play with Dino"... * ehem * she hesitated, and left me her number.

2hrs later sends me a text: "So, what time is dinner?"

2010 is not over yet, I can still sqqqquuuueeeze one more bang in before the clock strikes midnight!

Mixx

How do you exchange numbers, what do you say when you do that?
Can you give us an example?

It seems to me that you get her phone number and give yours so if she changes her mind she can let you know.

[Moma]

Mixx, how was that iguana you brought over for dinner under the pretext of playing with your dinosaur? Did you close the deal?

[MiXX]

(12-30-2010 01:39 PM)Moma Wrote:  

Mixx, how was that iguana you brought over for dinner under the pretext of playing with your dinosaur? Did you close the deal?

LOL - Dino is my dog's name. He's still a pup, and is a toy poodle (aka Beech-poo). Dino is probably the best wingman I can ever have by my side for beach game. He rakes girls in like a movie star, and I knock 'em down. We make a great team. He knows that for every girl he gest to come over and pet him, he gets 2 treats...and he LOVES treats.

Well, I could of f-closed, but of course, I had to settle for a blow job as she had her period - fuuucckk. I should be able to f-close this Saturday, no doubt. But, it sucks she will not count on my 2010 notch list. I was hoping I could make 120 Unique bangs before the clock strikes midnight, she would have been #118. Fuck I'm pissed!

Mixx

[DonovanVC]

so is it 2 a day or 3 a day?

[MiXX]

(12-30-2010 02:59 PM)DonovanVC Wrote:  

so is it 2 a day or 3 a day?

I always go for 2 a day. The latter 3 a day = 30 more girls per month, which is exhausting - trust me. Now, there will be times when opportunity appears, and you have a girl you must approach, hell somedays I approach 7 girls, but go back to 2 the next day to not wear myself out.

If you can swing it, do it...but the point is that you will not stop doing this for 365 consecutive days of 2011. 3 a day has a high risk of you getting tired of being blown out by women quicker and you will likely quit/fall behind by March/April, and go back to your old ways.


Mixx

[FretDancer]

Nice job Mixx. I started this approach thing yesterday, I don't think I'll be able to make it 2 every day though, at least not now but I'll try to do it as frequent as possible.

By the way, how did you approach the girl at the bus?

[DonovanVC]

(12-30-2010 03:07 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

(12-30-2010 02:59 PM)DonovanVC Wrote:  

so is it 2 a day or 3 a day?

I always go for 2 a day. The latter 3 a day = 30 more girls per month, which is exhausting - trust me. Now, there will be times when opportunity appears, and you have a girl you must approach, hell somedays I approach 7 girls, but go back to 2 the next day to not wear myself out.

If you can swing it, do it...but the point is that you will not stop doing this for 365 consecutive days of 2011. 3 a day has a high risk of you getting tired of being blown out by women quicker and you will likely quit/fall behind by March/April, and go back to your old ways.


Mixx

Sounds good. I will be in Tokyo from January to May, so I'll see like a million hot girls a day, b/c its such a crowded city with a ton of foot traffic. No excuse not to approach.

Plus the last few months my daygame got pretty good, training in Chicago. I would approach maybe only 5 girls a week, and got a date every 2 weeks. So I hope I can have big success w/ this.