[TheEndTheBeginning]

Aright guys, i do the direct style(Looks like i'll need to only do it in better suited venues where girls are more open to it) but i think its costed me too many rejections to where girls in big crowded places feel they have to reject me(Prolly not interested too) to where i think to get better, i need to be more subtle with my approach and have them warm up to me. How do you guys fly under the radar in a group setting and gradually get them attracted?

[funkyzeit]

In a group, you obviously have to stand out in a positive way. Know what the male part of the group is like, then beat their style, their hobbies and interests and their experience.

Women want what men have. If the guy has status, women will want to have it too. Money, fun, fame, reputation, they'll always want to milk you. So make an example for other men in the group.

For example, you are in a typical social SWPL group. All the dudes are there trying to chat up girls with same stories, buying them drinks the same way, having exactly the same pattern of behavior. Then you come in and bring something fun. Flashy cocktail, light sticks, guitar, best sandwich in that place, anything that says "I'm not like them and I enjoy my life and it's finest parts without the need for anyone else". Girls will be drawn to your world of good things and will want to be among those finest parts.

[TheEndTheBeginning]

(01-20-2014 08:37 AM)funkyzeit Wrote:  

In a group, you obviously have to stand out in a positive way. Know what the male part of the group is like, then beat their style, their hobbies and interests and their experience.

Women want what men have. If the guy has status, women will want to have it too. Money, fun, fame, reputation, they'll always want to milk you. So make an example for other men in the group.

For example, you are in a typical social SWPL group. All the dudes are there trying to chat up girls with same stories, buying them drinks the same way, having exactly the same pattern of behavior. Then you come in and bring something fun. Flashy cocktail, light sticks, guitar, best sandwich in that place, anything that says "I'm not like them and I enjoy my life and it's finest parts without the need for anyone else". Girls will be drawn to your world of good things and will want to be among those finest parts.

Please go more indepth into the world of good things, i want to be able to absorb as much new info as possible.

[Remington]

(01-20-2014 05:23 AM)TheEndTheBeginning Wrote:  

Aright guys, i do the direct style(Looks like i'll need to only do it in better suited venues where girls are more open to it) but i think its costed me too many rejections to where girls in big crowded places feel they have to reject me(Prolly not interested too) to where i think to get better, i need to be more subtle with my approach and have them warm up to me. How do you guys fly under the radar in a group setting and gradually get them attracted?

You need the right frame, demeanor, and personality if you are going to be direct. You don't need a fancy pick up line or any of that crap. "Hey" or "How's it going" is all you need. Mix it up with direct and indirect and see how the results vary.

[TheEndTheBeginning]

(01-20-2014 03:44 PM)Remington Wrote:  

(01-20-2014 05:23 AM)TheEndTheBeginning Wrote:  

Aright guys, i do the direct style(Looks like i'll need to only do it in better suited venues where girls are more open to it) but i think its costed me too many rejections to where girls in big crowded places feel they have to reject me(Prolly not interested too) to where i think to get better, i need to be more subtle with my approach and have them warm up to me. How do you guys fly under the radar in a group setting and gradually get them attracted?

You need the right frame, demeanor, and personality if you are going to be direct. You don't need a fancy pick up line or any of that crap. "Hey" or "How's it going" is all you need. Mix it up with direct and indirect and see how the results vary.

Thanks my man, it does seem that the girls def take me more serious when im more dominant/direct after the opener when i go through the flow with things. I should do it more. I have a plan in motion, be indirect in terms of planning for pulling and stuff but be direct in terms of attraction and comfort.

[funkyzeit]

(01-20-2014 01:09 PM)TheEndTheBeginning Wrote:  

(01-20-2014 08:37 AM)funkyzeit Wrote:  

In a group, you obviously have to stand out in a positive way. Know what the male part of the group is like, then beat their style, their hobbies and interests and their experience.

Women want what men have. If the guy has status, women will want to have it too. Money, fun, fame, reputation, they'll always want to milk you. So make an example for other men in the group.

For example, you are in a typical social SWPL group. All the dudes are there trying to chat up girls with same stories, buying them drinks the same way, having exactly the same pattern of behavior. Then you come in and bring something fun. Flashy cocktail, light sticks, guitar, best sandwich in that place, anything that says "I'm not like them and I enjoy my life and it's finest parts without the need for anyone else". Girls will be drawn to your world of good things and will want to be among those finest parts.

Please go more indepth into the world of good things, i want to be able to absorb as much new info as possible.

Well, it depends where you are, I just noted few things that popped first in my mind and that worked for me before. A good way to own the group is to know the city block you're in. Shops for fancy and cheap stuff and liquor, hidden alleys for sex, entertainment places in near area, etc.

Group parties, whether they are home parties or you are in a bar can get stale and monotone. You must know what is there to use it for fun, because there is a chance other dudes don't. If you know a illegal shop that sells smuggled czech absynthe like I know then your chances for a bang go up like 40% because girls will always rather choose forbidden fun than same type of shit they saw a hundred times. I can't get more examples because I do it spontaneously myself, I rarely plan it. Trust me, just know the surroundings and when all of you are fueled by alcohol you'll know how to escalate and what to propose.

TL;DR If you are a guy who has unique ways of fun and does it for himself (you're not a clown for her), girls will want to try it and will fuck you just to taste new things for a night.

[TheEndTheBeginning]

(01-21-2014 02:43 AM)funkyzeit Wrote:  

(01-20-2014 01:09 PM)TheEndTheBeginning Wrote:  

(01-20-2014 08:37 AM)funkyzeit Wrote:  

In a group, you obviously have to stand out in a positive way. Know what the male part of the group is like, then beat their style, their hobbies and interests and their experience.

Women want what men have. If the guy has status, women will want to have it too. Money, fun, fame, reputation, they'll always want to milk you. So make an example for other men in the group.

For example, you are in a typical social SWPL group. All the dudes are there trying to chat up girls with same stories, buying them drinks the same way, having exactly the same pattern of behavior. Then you come in and bring something fun. Flashy cocktail, light sticks, guitar, best sandwich in that place, anything that says "I'm not like them and I enjoy my life and it's finest parts without the need for anyone else". Girls will be drawn to your world of good things and will want to be among those finest parts.

Please go more indepth into the world of good things, i want to be able to absorb as much new info as possible.

Well, it depends where you are, I just noted few things that popped first in my mind and that worked for me before. A good way to own the group is to know the city block you're in. Shops for fancy and cheap stuff and liquor, hidden alleys for sex, entertainment places in near area, etc.

Group parties, whether they are home parties or you are in a bar can get stale and monotone. You must know what is there to use it for fun, because there is a chance other dudes don't. If you know a illegal shop that sells smuggled czech absynthe like I know then your chances for a bang go up like 40% because girls will always rather choose forbidden fun than same type of shit they saw a hundred times. I can't get more examples because I do it spontaneously myself, I rarely plan it. Trust me, just know the surroundings and when all of you are fueled by alcohol you'll know how to escalate and what to propose.

TL;DR If you are a guy who has unique ways of fun and does it for himself (you're not a clown for her), girls will want to try it and will fuck you just to taste new things for a night.

But i think it can come easier for you because your in the czech republic ya know? Thats got alot more flavor than say where i'm at(DC).

But that is a good blueprint for me to follow. I remember one chick showed interest when she says she's gonna smoke some weed back at her place. I put out that i had a strong bag with a bong she can smoke it from and that she can join me(test the waters and i didn't really have any lol.)....she paused for a second as if to think about it....but then she's like "nah...i'll just smoke it with my friends". If i pushed harder and hyped it up more, i probably would've had a greater chance. But it gave me a decent idea of ways to be creative down the line.

Thank you my man

[Remington]

(01-23-2014 08:51 PM)TheEndTheBeginning Wrote:  

(01-21-2014 02:43 AM)funkyzeit Wrote:  

(01-20-2014 01:09 PM)TheEndTheBeginning Wrote:  

(01-20-2014 08:37 AM)funkyzeit Wrote:  

In a group, you obviously have to stand out in a positive way. Know what the male part of the group is like, then beat their style, their hobbies and interests and their experience.

Women want what men have. If the guy has status, women will want to have it too. Money, fun, fame, reputation, they'll always want to milk you. So make an example for other men in the group.

For example, you are in a typical social SWPL group. All the dudes are there trying to chat up girls with same stories, buying them drinks the same way, having exactly the same pattern of behavior. Then you come in and bring something fun. Flashy cocktail, light sticks, guitar, best sandwich in that place, anything that says "I'm not like them and I enjoy my life and it's finest parts without the need for anyone else". Girls will be drawn to your world of good things and will want to be among those finest parts.

Please go more indepth into the world of good things, i want to be able to absorb as much new info as possible.

Well, it depends where you are, I just noted few things that popped first in my mind and that worked for me before. A good way to own the group is to know the city block you're in. Shops for fancy and cheap stuff and liquor, hidden alleys for sex, entertainment places in near area, etc.

Group parties, whether they are home parties or you are in a bar can get stale and monotone. You must know what is there to use it for fun, because there is a chance other dudes don't. If you know a illegal shop that sells smuggled czech absynthe like I know then your chances for a bang go up like 40% because girls will always rather choose forbidden fun than same type of shit they saw a hundred times. I can't get more examples because I do it spontaneously myself, I rarely plan it. Trust me, just know the surroundings and when all of you are fueled by alcohol you'll know how to escalate and what to propose.

TL;DR If you are a guy who has unique ways of fun and does it for himself (you're not a clown for her), girls will want to try it and will fuck you just to taste new things for a night.

But i think it can come easier for you because your in the czech republic ya know? Thats got alot more flavor than say where i'm at(DC).

But that is a good blueprint for me to follow. I remember one chick showed interest when she says she's gonna smoke some weed back at her place. I put out that i had a strong bag with a bong she can smoke it from and that she can join me(test the waters and i didn't really have any lol.)....she paused for a second as if to think about it....but then she's like "nah...i'll just smoke it with my friends". If i pushed harder and hyped it up more, i probably would've had a greater chance. But it gave me a decent idea of ways to be creative down the line.

Thank you my man

I'm moving to the DC/Arlington area in a couple weeks. Most of the time the girls out there travel in packs built circles around each other while playing with their iphones. Kind of like what Funkyzeit said, you have got to be the guy that stands out. You don't need props like a sandwich or something...just be the guy that's having the most fun. Women feed off that energy.

[TheEndTheBeginning]

(01-23-2014 09:27 PM)Remington Wrote:  

(01-23-2014 08:51 PM)TheEndTheBeginning Wrote:  

(01-21-2014 02:43 AM)funkyzeit Wrote:  

(01-20-2014 01:09 PM)TheEndTheBeginning Wrote:  

(01-20-2014 08:37 AM)funkyzeit Wrote:  

In a group, you obviously have to stand out in a positive way. Know what the male part of the group is like, then beat their style, their hobbies and interests and their experience.

Women want what men have. If the guy has status, women will want to have it too. Money, fun, fame, reputation, they'll always want to milk you. So make an example for other men in the group.

For example, you are in a typical social SWPL group. All the dudes are there trying to chat up girls with same stories, buying them drinks the same way, having exactly the same pattern of behavior. Then you come in and bring something fun. Flashy cocktail, light sticks, guitar, best sandwich in that place, anything that says "I'm not like them and I enjoy my life and it's finest parts without the need for anyone else". Girls will be drawn to your world of good things and will want to be among those finest parts.

Please go more indepth into the world of good things, i want to be able to absorb as much new info as possible.

Well, it depends where you are, I just noted few things that popped first in my mind and that worked for me before. A good way to own the group is to know the city block you're in. Shops for fancy and cheap stuff and liquor, hidden alleys for sex, entertainment places in near area, etc.

Group parties, whether they are home parties or you are in a bar can get stale and monotone. You must know what is there to use it for fun, because there is a chance other dudes don't. If you know a illegal shop that sells smuggled czech absynthe like I know then your chances for a bang go up like 40% because girls will always rather choose forbidden fun than same type of shit they saw a hundred times. I can't get more examples because I do it spontaneously myself, I rarely plan it. Trust me, just know the surroundings and when all of you are fueled by alcohol you'll know how to escalate and what to propose.

TL;DR If you are a guy who has unique ways of fun and does it for himself (you're not a clown for her), girls will want to try it and will fuck you just to taste new things for a night.

But i think it can come easier for you because your in the czech republic ya know? Thats got alot more flavor than say where i'm at(DC).

But that is a good blueprint for me to follow. I remember one chick showed interest when she says she's gonna smoke some weed back at her place. I put out that i had a strong bag with a bong she can smoke it from and that she can join me(test the waters and i didn't really have any lol.)....she paused for a second as if to think about it....but then she's like "nah...i'll just smoke it with my friends". If i pushed harder and hyped it up more, i probably would've had a greater chance. But it gave me a decent idea of ways to be creative down the line.

Thank you my man

I'm moving to the DC/Arlington area in a couple weeks. Most of the time the girls out there travel in packs built circles around each other while playing with their iphones. Kind of like what Funkyzeit said, you have got to be the guy that stands out. You don't need props like a sandwich or something...just be the guy that's having the most fun. Women feed off that energy.

In a weird way, when im full blown direct and don't focus too much on group theory rules is when i have a crap load of fun.

[Remington]

Use what you have to your advantage.

[funkyzeit]

(01-23-2014 08:51 PM)TheEndTheBeginning Wrote:  

(01-21-2014 02:43 AM)funkyzeit Wrote:  

(01-20-2014 01:09 PM)TheEndTheBeginning Wrote:  

(01-20-2014 08:37 AM)funkyzeit Wrote:  

In a group, you obviously have to stand out in a positive way. Know what the male part of the group is like, then beat their style, their hobbies and interests and their experience.

Women want what men have. If the guy has status, women will want to have it too. Money, fun, fame, reputation, they'll always want to milk you. So make an example for other men in the group.

For example, you are in a typical social SWPL group. All the dudes are there trying to chat up girls with same stories, buying them drinks the same way, having exactly the same pattern of behavior. Then you come in and bring something fun. Flashy cocktail, light sticks, guitar, best sandwich in that place, anything that says "I'm not like them and I enjoy my life and it's finest parts without the need for anyone else". Girls will be drawn to your world of good things and will want to be among those finest parts.

Please go more indepth into the world of good things, i want to be able to absorb as much new info as possible.

Well, it depends where you are, I just noted few things that popped first in my mind and that worked for me before. A good way to own the group is to know the city block you're in. Shops for fancy and cheap stuff and liquor, hidden alleys for sex, entertainment places in near area, etc.

Group parties, whether they are home parties or you are in a bar can get stale and monotone. You must know what is there to use it for fun, because there is a chance other dudes don't. If you know a illegal shop that sells smuggled czech absynthe like I know then your chances for a bang go up like 40% because girls will always rather choose forbidden fun than same type of shit they saw a hundred times. I can't get more examples because I do it spontaneously myself, I rarely plan it. Trust me, just know the surroundings and when all of you are fueled by alcohol you'll know how to escalate and what to propose.

TL;DR If you are a guy who has unique ways of fun and does it for himself (you're not a clown for her), girls will want to try it and will fuck you just to taste new things for a night.

But i think it can come easier for you because your in the czech republic ya know? Thats got alot more flavor than say where i'm at(DC).

But that is a good blueprint for me to follow. I remember one chick showed interest when she says she's gonna smoke some weed back at her place. I put out that i had a strong bag with a bong she can smoke it from and that she can join me(test the waters and i didn't really have any lol.)....she paused for a second as if to think about it....but then she's like "nah...i'll just smoke it with my friends". If i pushed harder and hyped it up more, i probably would've had a greater chance. But it gave me a decent idea of ways to be creative down the line.

Thank you my man

Bosnia is like a thousand miles away from czech republic, haha. The real absynthe is highly illegal here so you have to know the smugglers, but that is the dangerous part and it is fun for girls. You're welcome, good luck man.

[TheEndTheBeginning]

Bosnia eh?! You lucky son of a gun!!! Absinthe is illegal?!

[lowside]

(01-24-2014 04:21 AM)funkyzeit Wrote:  

Bosnia is like a thousand miles away from czech republic, haha. The real absynthe is highly illegal here so you have to know the smugglers, but that is the dangerous part and it is fun for girls. You're welcome, good luck man.

(01-24-2014 05:01 PM)TheEndTheBeginning Wrote:  

Bosnia eh?! You lucky son of a gun!!! Absinthe is illegal?!

i have never, in my whole life, seen a problem with getting absint in bosnia. or anything else for that matter....

don't know why one would want to get it though..
.

[funkyzeit]

(01-28-2014 03:08 AM)lowside Wrote:  

(01-24-2014 04:21 AM)funkyzeit Wrote:  

Bosnia is like a thousand miles away from czech republic, haha. The real absynthe is highly illegal here so you have to know the smugglers, but that is the dangerous part and it is fun for girls. You're welcome, good luck man.

(01-24-2014 05:01 PM)TheEndTheBeginning Wrote:  

Bosnia eh?! You lucky son of a gun!!! Absinthe is illegal?!

i have never, in my whole life, seen a problem with getting absint in bosnia. or anything else for that matter....

don't know why one would want to get it though..
.

There is a 55% "absinthe" on the shelves of most Bosnian supermarkets, I'm guessing that's the one you don't have problems getting. It's just a poorly done version of real absinthe. The real absinthe is like 74-84% of alcohol and it isn't available legally so you have to know some people to get it. One $20 1 liter bottle is enough to get a room of people (i.e. 4 girls, 4 guys) completely shitfaced in any drinking game. And it produces mild blue flame when set on fire so you can do some fancy dare shots.