I think a lot of men would do a lot better in the game as it pertains to women if they just stuck to playing their game and only their game.
Forums like this are full of questions regarding reactionary tactics to female bullshit. When you find yourself on the side of reacting, as opposed to leading, you are losing.
Whether you realize it or not, when you don't play your game, and instead try to figure out how to play her game, you are internalizing that you are a weaker opponent than she is.
You have to understand that you are a man. Society is not constructed for men to wander around aimlessly with the safety net of knowing that one day they'll find someone or something to take care of even their most basic needs.
Thus, it is in your nature to figure things out for yourself.
On the contrary, women need guidance.
I don't say this to pose the thought process that women are inferior to men, because I don't believe that. There have always been and always will be women who are more accomplished, and have more of an impact on the world than a particular man has. Furthermore, we live in a universe that couldn't function without interdependence, so for me to believe that men are better than women and/or don't need them, would be completely illogical.
However, I will say, because of our nature, and understanding their nature, women not only need guidance, but it is in their nature to desire it and look out for it -- said desire stems from the interaction they have with their fathers, and explains why you can tell a lot about a girl based off of the relationship she has with her dad.
Moving on, chances are that going into every interaction you have with a woman, there's likely something that you can provide to her, greater than what she can provide to you. If going into interactions with women, you know that all you can offer them is dick, well sir, unfortunately, you are a loser.
However, if your game is higher than that and you're a better man than that, then you should know that going into any interaction with a woman, you're going to play your game, and it is her job to recognize your game and conform to the rules of your game. When a woman's game is tight, that's what she does, she recognizes the game, and she conforms to it so she can benefit from what it has to offer her.
Most women don't have tight game, and as a result, you, whether you realize it or not, are constantly dealing with boring, lackluster, gameless women regardless of their level of physical attractiveness -- one of the good things about living in a city like Miami is that you are damn near forced to recognize and accept the concept of a "fake dime".
Think of how many women force themselves to "reject" better men as defense mechanisms because they know they aren't shit and couldn't keep those men. Think of how many women settle for men they no longer respect as soon as they say "I do". Think of how many women allow losers to impregnate them and then when those losers run off, they're stuck taking care of said loser's child which ultimately detrimentally affects every facet of their life going forward. Think of how many women allow themselves to get banged on because for whatever unrational reason, they rather be someone's fuck buddy than belong to someone and something that makes their life better.
If you are actually a higher level man, some of you take your "losses" with these women as if it's you, when it's often them, and you should feel fortunate that at least you were spared having to expend any real resources and/or energy on someone who wasn't worth it, and you'll find that you'll often do that when you just play your game.
In other words, playing your game allows you to quickly put female losers in your rearview.
Try to remember that the next time you're dealing with a chick who flakes on you on very short notice, without a legitimate explanation, and without a plan to make it up to you, or has you wrapped up in some ongoing back and forth bullshit text conversation, or anything that you feel like is outside of the game you play and far from the goals you want to reach, otherwise stay frustrated, and don't complain, because you choose your own frustration.
Forums like this are full of questions regarding reactionary tactics to female bullshit. When you find yourself on the side of reacting, as opposed to leading, you are losing.
Whether you realize it or not, when you don't play your game, and instead try to figure out how to play her game, you are internalizing that you are a weaker opponent than she is.
You have to understand that you are a man. Society is not constructed for men to wander around aimlessly with the safety net of knowing that one day they'll find someone or something to take care of even their most basic needs.
Thus, it is in your nature to figure things out for yourself.
On the contrary, women need guidance.
I don't say this to pose the thought process that women are inferior to men, because I don't believe that. There have always been and always will be women who are more accomplished, and have more of an impact on the world than a particular man has. Furthermore, we live in a universe that couldn't function without interdependence, so for me to believe that men are better than women and/or don't need them, would be completely illogical.
However, I will say, because of our nature, and understanding their nature, women not only need guidance, but it is in their nature to desire it and look out for it -- said desire stems from the interaction they have with their fathers, and explains why you can tell a lot about a girl based off of the relationship she has with her dad.
Moving on, chances are that going into every interaction you have with a woman, there's likely something that you can provide to her, greater than what she can provide to you. If going into interactions with women, you know that all you can offer them is dick, well sir, unfortunately, you are a loser.
However, if your game is higher than that and you're a better man than that, then you should know that going into any interaction with a woman, you're going to play your game, and it is her job to recognize your game and conform to the rules of your game. When a woman's game is tight, that's what she does, she recognizes the game, and she conforms to it so she can benefit from what it has to offer her.
Most women don't have tight game, and as a result, you, whether you realize it or not, are constantly dealing with boring, lackluster, gameless women regardless of their level of physical attractiveness -- one of the good things about living in a city like Miami is that you are damn near forced to recognize and accept the concept of a "fake dime".
Think of how many women force themselves to "reject" better men as defense mechanisms because they know they aren't shit and couldn't keep those men. Think of how many women settle for men they no longer respect as soon as they say "I do". Think of how many women allow losers to impregnate them and then when those losers run off, they're stuck taking care of said loser's child which ultimately detrimentally affects every facet of their life going forward. Think of how many women allow themselves to get banged on because for whatever unrational reason, they rather be someone's fuck buddy than belong to someone and something that makes their life better.
If you are actually a higher level man, some of you take your "losses" with these women as if it's you, when it's often them, and you should feel fortunate that at least you were spared having to expend any real resources and/or energy on someone who wasn't worth it, and you'll find that you'll often do that when you just play your game.
In other words, playing your game allows you to quickly put female losers in your rearview.
Try to remember that the next time you're dealing with a chick who flakes on you on very short notice, without a legitimate explanation, and without a plan to make it up to you, or has you wrapped up in some ongoing back and forth bullshit text conversation, or anything that you feel like is outside of the game you play and far from the goals you want to reach, otherwise stay frustrated, and don't complain, because you choose your own frustration.