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01-25-2014, 07:14 PM
Couple of questions from apps:
I have a few matches on Tinder. Any good ways to start off conversations?
On another app, I've been talking to a girl for a bit. We've done the getting to know you stuff. Any tips on how to get it offline?
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01-26-2014, 01:12 AM
Can't help you with the tinder. But on getting offline: tell her the discussion has been fascinating (or some other superlative; you want it to sound like you are hamming it up a bit) and why don't you guys exchange numbers?
Give her your number first; when she gives you yours, text her a la the text recipe in the second edition of Bang: "hey it's <name<m how are you doing?" "<blah blah>" "cool, do you want to hang out this week?"
In an in-person pickup, the point that separates a nice conversation from a real sexual exchange is when you start touching her. Online, that point is asking for a phone # or asking to meet up. If she demurs, you're not really a candidate.
Chicks will chat/text with anybody for a few minutes of attention and distraction; if she won't make plans with you you know she's not really into it, if she will, you're gold.