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Dating black girls in America......
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Dating black girls in America......

So, say if you're a white guy from Europe and would like to get some black putang in America... Do you go to places like South Central LA, the Bronx in NYC or Atlanta?
Are black guys overly protective (read: racist) of their sistas?
From what I hear, they can be insecure and very jealous. Kind of like Brazilians,
but only 10x more... Just trying to stay safe with all the guns in America...
Then again, maybe North Brazil would work better. But I do like the way black American girls talk... If you know what I mean...

P.S. This thread refers to a particular travel destination (USA), please refrain from posting racist comments (something like what happened on the Russia threads) and/or moving this thread to "`Everything Else". Thank you!
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Dating black girls in America......

Quote: (12-19-2010 09:21 AM)digitalamish Wrote:  

So, say if you're a white guy from Europe and would like to get some black putang in America... Do you go to places like South Central LA, the Bronx in NYC or Atlanta?
Are black guys overly protective (read: racist) of their sistas?
From what I hear, they can be insecure and very jealous. Kind of like Brazilians,
but only 10x more... Just trying to stay safe with all the guns in America...
Then again, maybe North Brazil would work better. But I do like the way black American girls talk... If you know what I mean...

P.S. This thread refers to a particular travel destination (USA), please refrain from posting racist comments (something like what happened on the Russia threads) and/or moving this thread to "`Everything Else". Thank you!

the bolded part is kind of funny. but i get your perspective, being from Europe. The answer is no, you can go almost anywhere (any desirable city, anyway) and pick up black women. Any large city or any place on either coast. They are everywhere. Choose where you want to live / visit first, and make the women a second consideration. The exceptions being perhaps Honolulu, Portland and Alaska, save for military personnel. That's just a guess, though.

No, you won't get shot. Unless you choose to date a woman from a dangerous ghetto, and even then you likely would never be in that situation. I don't recommend dating ghetto women for many reasons, least of which is the chance of seeing a gun. Stay away form ghetto women. Just to be clear, I think women from extremely poor backgrounds, of any race, are generally a bit of trouble to date. Not all, but most. There are more than enough middle class black women for you to choose from.

Maybe a black man can comment on the jealousy thing. In my limited experiences dating black women, I've never run into any problems like the ones you describe.

good luck...
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Dating black girls in America......

Quote: (12-19-2010 09:21 AM)digitalamish Wrote:  

So, say if you're a white guy from Europe and would like to get some black putang in America... Do you go to places like South Central LA, the Bronx in NYC or Atlanta?
Are black guys overly protective (read: racist) of their sistas?
From what I hear, they can be insecure and very jealous. Kind of like Brazilians,
but only 10x more... Just trying to stay safe with all the guns in America...
Then again, maybe North Brazil would work better. But I do like the way black American girls talk... If you know what I mean...

P.S. This thread refers to a particular travel destination (USA), please refrain from posting racist comments (something like what happened on the Russia threads) and/or moving this thread to "`Everything Else". Thank you!

America isn't so segregated that you have to go to black neighborhoods like South Cental to find black women, you can go to the major bars and clubs in any city with a sizable black population and you will find some. You can game them like you would any American girl.

I've sarged a lot of black women, in fact right now I just got back from spending the night with a black girl at her apartment- I have never had a problem from black men from being with a black girl.

A word of advice here- if you get to the United States, don't say any type of generalization about black people or black culture. (such as black women being jealous and insecure). You'll just come across as ignorant.
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Dating black girls in America......

Quote: (12-19-2010 09:35 AM)Celtic Wrote:  

A word of advice here- if you get to the United States, don't say any type of generalization about black people or black culture. (such as black women being jealous and insecure). You'll just come across as ignorant.

Oh, I got it! Kind of like what you wouldn't do in Russia or in Germany for that matter... Or on some of the other threads on here [Image: dodgy.gif]
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Dating black girls in America......

I don't know what u heard about insecure and jealous but that's pretty funny. This is 2011 dude. In somewhere like NYC, brothas are dating babes from everywhere. I see sistas dating whoever they want. I don't think brothas will care cause they are too busy getting their own chics. I would be more concerned with finding a babe that wants to date you than worrying about what the guys think. One key is finding a common interest and it depends on how tight your game and looks are. I don't know enuff about you to suggest a location. All the major urban cities will have good looking singleblack women. Also I don't know the demographic u like other than ethnicity. What age range, high class or chics from the projects, weaves or natural hair, models, dancers, ladies of the night? What kind of female are you looking for besides color? For instance, in Washington dc you tend to find a different kind of female in Georgetown vs Barry Farms projects in South East.
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Dating black girls in America......

Quote: (12-19-2010 09:53 AM)JayMillz Wrote:  

What kind of female are you looking for besides color? For instance, in Washington dc you tend to find a different kind of female in Georgetown vs Barry Farms projects in South East.

Halle Berry or Alicia Keys would do...
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Dating black girls in America......

Quote: (12-19-2010 09:57 AM)digitalamish Wrote:  

Quote: (12-19-2010 09:53 AM)JayMillz Wrote:  

What kind of female are you looking for besides color? For instance, in Washington dc you tend to find a different kind of female in Georgetown vs Barry Farms projects in South East.

Halle Berry or Alicia Keys would do...

AK is probably in her twenties while HB is probably Like 45
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Quote: (12-19-2010 10:02 AM)JayMillz Wrote:  

Quote: (12-19-2010 09:57 AM)digitalamish Wrote:  

Quote: (12-19-2010 09:53 AM)JayMillz Wrote:  

What kind of female are you looking for besides color? For instance, in Washington dc you tend to find a different kind of female in Georgetown vs Barry Farms projects in South East.

Halle Berry or Alicia Keys would do...

AK is probably in her twenties while HB is probably twice her age ... Like 45

I meant look-wise... closer to a bi-racial look (and demeanor)
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Dating black girls in America......

Quote: (12-19-2010 10:06 AM)digitalamish Wrote:  

Quote: (12-19-2010 10:02 AM)JayMillz Wrote:  

Quote: (12-19-2010 09:57 AM)digitalamish Wrote:  

Quote: (12-19-2010 09:53 AM)JayMillz Wrote:  

What kind of female are you looking for besides color? For instance, in Washington dc you tend to find a different kind of female in Georgetown vs Barry Farms projects in South East.

Halle Berry or Alicia Keys would do...

AK is probably in her twenties while HB is probably twice her age ... Like 45

I meant look-wise... closer to a bi-racial look (and demeanor)

There is a Mulatto thread here somewhere.
Someone posted the best cities for light-skinned women.
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Dating black girls in America......

Quote: (12-19-2010 10:12 AM)Badstuber Wrote:  

Quote: (12-19-2010 10:06 AM)digitalamish Wrote:  

Quote: (12-19-2010 10:02 AM)JayMillz Wrote:  

Quote: (12-19-2010 09:57 AM)digitalamish Wrote:  

Quote: (12-19-2010 09:53 AM)JayMillz Wrote:  

What kind of female are you looking for besides color? For instance, in Washington dc you tend to find a different kind of female in Georgetown vs Barry Farms projects in South East.

Halle Berry or Alicia Keys would do...

AK is probably in her twenties while HB is probably twice her age ... Like 45

I meant look-wise... closer to a bi-racial look (and demeanor)

There is a Mulatto thread here somewhere.
Someone posted the best cities for light-skinned women.

Really?! That's cool. I'll look it up. Thanks!
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Dating black girls in America......

Your gonna need A LOT of luck and time to find what you are looking for. It exists, but its not that common, as far as the numbers are concerned with women that you will meet in public. True Mulatto women arent that common, and then if you need a certain demeanor to go along with it, you are getting into very niched territory.

Also, stereotypes can help you, if we're being honest. Meaning that if you notice behavior that you would find to be stereotypical, then its a safe bet that there will be some other stereotypical behavior to follow. This holds true with all races. For instance, if a white woman had some of what we call "white trash" behavior, and I wasn't into that, then I wouldn't wait around to see if she had other white trash behaviors. i would just assume that she did. In almost every case, I would be right. It can save you a lot of wasted time.
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Dating black girls in America......

Quote: (12-19-2010 09:57 AM)digitalamish Wrote:  

Quote: (12-19-2010 09:53 AM)JayMillz Wrote:  

What kind of female are you looking for besides color? For instance, in Washington dc you tend to find a different kind of female in Georgetown vs Barry Farms projects in South East.

Halle Berry or Alicia Keys would do...

yeah i like that look too! like the singer christina milian as well - schwing

don't know how common that is in the US - i think brazil and other parts of latin america would be a safer bet

i'm planning on hitting up cuba in a couple of months - i wouldn't be surprised to find that type there as well

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Quote: (12-19-2010 09:53 AM)JayMillz Wrote:  

I don't know what u heard about insecure and jealous but that's pretty funny. This is 2011 dude. In somewhere like NYC, brothas are dating babes from everywhere. I see sistas dating whoever they want. I don't think brothas will care cause they are too busy getting their own chics. I would be more concerned with finding a babe that wants to date you than worrying about what the guys think. One key is finding a common interest and it depends on how tight your game and looks are. I don't know enuff about you to suggest a location. All the major urban cities will have good looking singleblack women. Also I don't know the demographic u like other than ethnicity. What age range, high class or chics from the projects, weaves or natural hair, models, dancers, ladies of the night? What kind of female are you looking for besides color? For instance, in Washington dc you tend to find a different kind of female in Georgetown vs Barry Farms projects in South East.

Standing ovation.
As a black man I could not give a rat's ass. I am too busy figuring how I can live in Europe making good money and having the time of my life banging euro chicks.
You could check out BlackPlanet.com where there are loads of black women, but the quality is not to my liking. Mulatto's would be a hard ask b/c they tend to be able to attract black men and white men easily.

I also find that black american women tend to like black american men first and foremost. I am Canadian and they view me as "different". lol

So not sure how "over" a white european man would be, I will leave it at that b/c I don't want this turning into another Russia thread.

I think you are much better off going to Brazil, Cuba or Dominican Republic if you are looking just to play.

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Quote: (12-19-2010 09:40 AM)digitalamish Wrote:  

Quote: (12-19-2010 09:35 AM)Celtic Wrote:  

A word of advice here- if you get to the United States, don't say any type of generalization about black people or black culture. (such as black women being jealous and insecure). You'll just come across as ignorant.

Oh, I got it! Kind of like what you wouldn't do in Russia or in Germany for that matter... Or on some of the other threads on here [Image: dodgy.gif]

Yes, like in Russia. Except they wouldn't ellicit that type of behaviour in the US. Now, you should get it.

btw...ATL is where I would go. Sexy black girls plus the city has very, very good nightlife. Very underrated city.

in general, I ve never found brothas to be possessive of their black women.
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I also find that black american women tend to like black american men first and foremost. I am Canadian and they view me as "different". lol

So not sure how "over" a white european man would be, I will leave it at that b/c I don't want this turning into another Russia thread.

I think you are much better off going to Brazil, Cuba or Dominican Republic if you are looking just to play.

You are being way too broad my Brother, Blacks in America are hardly a monolith like people think we are. It really depends which city in the US we are talking about, there's a huge difference between in terms of Gaming between West coast, East coast, Southern Black chicks. And even within a city there's subtle differences Game wise between Black chicks of different ethnicity(American, 1st Generation American, African, Latin or Caribbean, biracial) and social status(Rich, bourgie, middle class, working poor, hood rat) and whether or not she grew up with her father or at least she's cool with him. Just like any other chick, you have to game her according to what her background is. This is shit that I learned through trial and error being that almost all Black PUA's almost exclusively only fuck White Women.

Fortunately for the OP, from personal experience and what I have seen in NYC, Black women are way more friendly to White men cold approaching them than they are to Black dudes. It doesn't mean she's going to fuck but it means you are allowed more mistakes that would otherwise cost Black men a bang. Also, don't underestimate the power of "going in where you can fit in."

If you are heading to NYC, I recommend hitting up online sites like Match.com, POF and Okcupid Black chicks online are very open to meeting up with European Playas.

Try to hit up the correct music venues. Stay away from hip hop clubs in the hood or outerboros (Bronx, Queens and some parts of Brooklyn). If you insist on going to Hip Hop club go to one in the suburbs with a lot White people and hit on the Black chicks there because Black dudes at this venues totally ignore the Black chicks in there and go for the Thick White chick. Also hit up Jazz lounges, Rock/indie concerts, "conscious Hip hop" shows and comedy shows that have bars attached. You see White playas with the Baddest black chicks all the time in those Venues.

Finally, this might sound counter intuitive but always put your bid in with Black chicks who appear over the top "Afro Centric." If she has a big fucking afro or dreads longer than Medusa and she hasn't blow you off within the first 30 seconds you are in there like swim wear. Just talk how much you enjoy traveling to Africa, Dont worry if you have never actually been there, Neither has she.
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I'm a white guy who dated a mulatto american chick. Her mother was white. She said she preferred white guys. If a black girl goes to a bar/club that is mostly white, maybe she wants to meet a white guy. That's how I met mine. I think as a euro white dude, you will do fine with american bi-racial black/white girls, if that's your thang.
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Hang on a second, you're coming to visit the "USA" to find an Alicia keys or Halle Berry lookalike? Could you come back with some more precise plans first? Only Borat would make those kinds of generalizations about the heavily black parts of cities and he'd be doing it on purpose....
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If you're looking only for mulattas, you'd probably be better off going to Brazil, Colombia or the Dominican Republic. Not only because there are more of them, but because men with European features have pussy thrown at them in Latin America. If you are going to come to the the U.S., I'd suggest a site like okcupid before you get here. That site has a reputation for having a lot of women of color who are into white men. You could probably have your pick of black chics on there then hit the ground running when you get here.

PS - bitch shields with black women are the highest of all esp the hot ones, be prepared.
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Quote: (12-19-2010 03:15 PM)Fisto Wrote:  

Hang on a second, you're coming to visit the "USA" to find an Alicia keys or Halle Berry lookalike? Could you come back with some more precise plans first? Only Borat would make those kinds of generalizations about the heavily black parts of cities and he'd be doing it on purpose....

Oh, he'll find 'em alright. especially in cities like Atlanta. Damn, ATL has some of the FINEST black girls I have ever seen! Not only are they beautiful, but most are very educated too!

Many times, I am so in the mood for a Kerry Washington type black girls, usually black girls are VERY funny, and are incredible cool girls to go chill at comedy clubs or just hanging out. ATL is usually the city I hit for these types.

So, the trick is not finding 'em, that's easy. But DHV, and getting them to bang you without paying her inflated prices for her Georgia Peach as PWP said, most have incredibly high bitch shields, but if you are not black, you are forgiven for a lot of beta mistakes, and will not be as bitchy to you.

One thing I notice is tell a black girl I am half white/half latino, instead of full blooded 100% latino. Somehow, being half white/half latino is DHV, whereas saying full 100% Spanish, is not.

BTW, I go fucking crazy for girls that look like Kerry Washington - that's my type of black girl right there.



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As an east coast cat, I can say that I've noticed a much higher percentage of sistas dating white guys on the west coast then anywhere else. I think a white european guy would do pretty well in L.A. or San Francisco, and no the brothas will not be trippin when they see you guys together unless your hanging out in the hood, which i doubt you would be anyway.

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Thank you all for responding! Don't you just love it when we all get along?! [Image: smile.gif]
Any feedback on Trinidad?
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I don't think you'll have a problem with jealously because a lot of black in america don't even want black american girls.
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Quote: (12-19-2010 07:43 PM)zoom Wrote:  

I don't think you'll have a problem with jealously because a lot of black in america don't even want black american girls.

Trinidad would be a better choice in my opinion. They have alot of my fave mix of girl, black and indian. Carnival is crazy and a must, still have not got there yet. But these chicks know how to party, plus alot of Trinidadians go back home from Carnival.

So many places and so much time.

Yes it is great when we can ALL get along and talk about the subject matter at hand, although you may notice Black men don't get so defensive or protective of "there" women.

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Quote: (12-19-2010 07:43 PM)zoom Wrote:  

I don't think you'll have a problem with jealously because a lot of black in america don't even want black american girls.

Lmaoo... I politely say that's untrue...bm like bwmn...it's just that I like lw, aw, and ww too....think first come first serve.. but make no mistake about it all these women getting ass implants, breast implants, lip injections, and tans are copying one group that gets it all natural...
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original poster is trolling. goodbye
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