It is early in an interaction with a girl (either cold approach or first meet up), and she suggests that 'you must get laid a lot.' Obvious shit test. One response that I've found very useful is
"I probably would more often if I wasn't so picky. If a girl isn't genuinely interesting or friendly right off the bat, I tend to leave after one drink."
Said in a nonchalant, very aloof and emotionally distant way. Then change the subject. The girl nearly always drops her bitch vibe (if it was there), stops checking her phone, or anything else that would interrupt two people having a conversation.
To be up front about my vibe: I'm suited down, work out, and have the appearance of money. I stack things in my favor with the suit and working out, but am otherwise an average middle class guy. To me, part of this shit test is the girl actually can tell you have game/a good lifestyle and wants reassurance that she won't be a pump n dump
I think we can all see why this works, but for my part these reasons are why I like it
1) Girls for some reason don't 'get' that for guys getting laid takes a bit of effort and that (most) guys can not get laid as easily as (most) girls. So when you show preselection through pre-rejection, it resonates. It's a pretty strong 'push' in the push-pull dynamic. You basically establish an abundance mentality and preselection because you can afford to walk out on girls you don't like. Even if there are no other girls in the bar, I think this statement triggers a very similar preselection reaction as her seeing you chat up other girls. And it's all said in a way that makes sense in the framework of a typical female mind.
2) It's a friendly, understated challenge for her to bring her charm front and center. You're willing to dismiss her based on a short, calculated judgement if she's not up to par. If you're gonna drop a line like this, have a pair and be willing to follow through. She will sense it.
3) Girls also aren't used to getting rejected. For anything. If you're on a first date with her, and leave after one drink...she's going to have to tell her friends *gasp* that she got walked out on. Or that I'm a douchebag. Cue hamster. We know some girls have problems facing the reality of a situation, but this one hits them front and center because they will have to admit it to their friends when asked about the date. It sends them into a panic mode of proving how cool/warm/feminine they can be, and initiates a positive feedback loop that I use to set the vibe for an upbeat interaction. I feed off her good energy, she feeds off mine, and all of a sudden there's a spark in the interaction. This is the real win here. You just passed a shit test and laid out an emotional blueprint that is conducive to getting laid. I'll even mention later in the night that I like how much positive energy she has, even though it's a mood that grew from a seed I planted. Haha I am a douche.
4) You leave after one drink for...? She will imagine all sorts of things that you're doing after you ditch these girls. Banging a booty call, business, whatever. It shows you value your time.
"I probably would more often if I wasn't so picky. If a girl isn't genuinely interesting or friendly right off the bat, I tend to leave after one drink."
Said in a nonchalant, very aloof and emotionally distant way. Then change the subject. The girl nearly always drops her bitch vibe (if it was there), stops checking her phone, or anything else that would interrupt two people having a conversation.
To be up front about my vibe: I'm suited down, work out, and have the appearance of money. I stack things in my favor with the suit and working out, but am otherwise an average middle class guy. To me, part of this shit test is the girl actually can tell you have game/a good lifestyle and wants reassurance that she won't be a pump n dump
I think we can all see why this works, but for my part these reasons are why I like it
1) Girls for some reason don't 'get' that for guys getting laid takes a bit of effort and that (most) guys can not get laid as easily as (most) girls. So when you show preselection through pre-rejection, it resonates. It's a pretty strong 'push' in the push-pull dynamic. You basically establish an abundance mentality and preselection because you can afford to walk out on girls you don't like. Even if there are no other girls in the bar, I think this statement triggers a very similar preselection reaction as her seeing you chat up other girls. And it's all said in a way that makes sense in the framework of a typical female mind.
2) It's a friendly, understated challenge for her to bring her charm front and center. You're willing to dismiss her based on a short, calculated judgement if she's not up to par. If you're gonna drop a line like this, have a pair and be willing to follow through. She will sense it.
3) Girls also aren't used to getting rejected. For anything. If you're on a first date with her, and leave after one drink...she's going to have to tell her friends *gasp* that she got walked out on. Or that I'm a douchebag. Cue hamster. We know some girls have problems facing the reality of a situation, but this one hits them front and center because they will have to admit it to their friends when asked about the date. It sends them into a panic mode of proving how cool/warm/feminine they can be, and initiates a positive feedback loop that I use to set the vibe for an upbeat interaction. I feed off her good energy, she feeds off mine, and all of a sudden there's a spark in the interaction. This is the real win here. You just passed a shit test and laid out an emotional blueprint that is conducive to getting laid. I'll even mention later in the night that I like how much positive energy she has, even though it's a mood that grew from a seed I planted. Haha I am a douche.
4) You leave after one drink for...? She will imagine all sorts of things that you're doing after you ditch these girls. Banging a booty call, business, whatever. It shows you value your time.
