So, if anybody doesn't know. I am a Mexican-American from who the bay area who is of college age. I go to college in one of the more high end areas of the bay area (I won't say where). So, my area is mostly middle class whites, asians, and other Hispanic-Americans who are ok or well-off; maybe your other random ethnicity.
So, as I start school today, I started out my day in my German class. I started class about a week ago, so I haven't gotten to know my classmates that well. When I first got there, I wanted to chat up with my classmates who were there, before any chicks showed up or my professor. The ones who were there were all males, and all americans (born and raised). I tried asking how was their day, how they're feeling, etc. etc. Continued on for at most, 3 minutes and then the conversations died out, as my classmates just lost steam.
For those who want to know my personality and style, I am what you would think as your average middle class, social, and polite Latin guy (but of course, I speak english with a middle class Northern Californian accent ). I like to talk to anybody and get to know my environment. I would talk with anybody about anything.
So, to continue on the story, when class ended, I stayed for a few minutes to talk to two chicks. I asked them if they're foreigners, and they said yes. One was a Polish girl (she speaks very good english, and she was good looking) and the other was an South Korean girl (not my cup of tea but she was cool). We talked for a bit, but had to leave as I needed to buy books for the class.
When I was in the book store waiting in line to buy my books, I was chatting up with the people in line to burn time. In front of me was a Korean chick who was buying an economics book. I chatted up with her about economics and we were going a bit deeper until she met up with her friend (no problem there, as they were good friends and haven't seen each other in a while). After that, I tried chatting with two Americans (one was a filipina looking girl and the other was some black-american guy). I tried testing the waters with them, but they kept giving me bullshit and short answers. Basically, didn't want to talk to me and were anti-social.
Once I get out of the bookstore, I bump into the Korean and Polish chick from my German class going to the bookstore to buy books. I approach them and we started talking about the books, as we have been having problems with the books (not getting bumbled with some crap we need). We then started talking stuff in getting to know each other and all that sort of thing. We talked for almost an hour in the quad area of our college (and this hour went quickly). We talked about the most random stuff you can think of (and yes, I mean it, lol). Once in the end, we agreed to have coffee another time and I got their numbers.
Long story short, this part of the day gives you an observation into how americans are; anti-social. as I said before, I am a polite social latin (but born in the US) guy who is down to talk to anybody and about anything. I approach people and I could turn some bullshit question into a two hour discussion. However, when it comes to Americans, Americans are a whole different ball game. I approach and even lead up the conversation with an American (this mostly applies to Americans under the age of mid-40s) and yet, they can't fucking stay in a conversation for at least 5 minutes, even when the subject/topic is given to them. Now, this applies to both genders, not just chicks.
How does this connect to anything? Well, what does it take in order to land with a girl? social skills, and at least two people to tango (in a conservation, you have to give and take, there is no other way). What do the majority of Americans lack? social skills.
How does this apply to this whole site? Part of this site is about getting and laying girls. In order to do that, part of what you need is social skills. and as I said, the majority of americans lack social skills. when this applies to american men, if you get to know a lot long enough, a lot will bitch about not finding a "good girl" to date or any chick at all to get with and lay. You see this all over the internet, and especially in other manosphere sites (i.e Happier Abroad). Why the fuck American men complain about not being able to get a girl when you're too dam fucking shallow and anti-social to even talk to another fellow male..... This really irritates me because I do the work to get with girls, and I even give tips to American men who ask me, and they don't ever apply it......
Hell, I have had Mexican nationals (and who barely have a middle school education) who live here in the US and work in the shitty jobs that 99.99% of Americans won't ever work in, give me way better, philosophical, and deeper conversations than your 20 something college educated, ultra liberal, and "anti misogynist" American.
Luckily, there are loads of foreigners (especially the foreign women ^_^ ) here in the bay area who don't have this anti-social robotic chip on their shoulders and keep my sanity. Idk how you guys who live outside of the bay area, LA, and NYC keep your sanity, if you guys know the factor I refer to in this whole post. I just know that your average American male (and luckily there are always exceptions) is just one anti-social ass who bitches about not getting a chick, and doesn't put the effort. I just had to post this, as I have been getting annoyed of this recently.
Anybody else in here has noticed this?
So, as I start school today, I started out my day in my German class. I started class about a week ago, so I haven't gotten to know my classmates that well. When I first got there, I wanted to chat up with my classmates who were there, before any chicks showed up or my professor. The ones who were there were all males, and all americans (born and raised). I tried asking how was their day, how they're feeling, etc. etc. Continued on for at most, 3 minutes and then the conversations died out, as my classmates just lost steam.
For those who want to know my personality and style, I am what you would think as your average middle class, social, and polite Latin guy (but of course, I speak english with a middle class Northern Californian accent ). I like to talk to anybody and get to know my environment. I would talk with anybody about anything.
So, to continue on the story, when class ended, I stayed for a few minutes to talk to two chicks. I asked them if they're foreigners, and they said yes. One was a Polish girl (she speaks very good english, and she was good looking) and the other was an South Korean girl (not my cup of tea but she was cool). We talked for a bit, but had to leave as I needed to buy books for the class.
When I was in the book store waiting in line to buy my books, I was chatting up with the people in line to burn time. In front of me was a Korean chick who was buying an economics book. I chatted up with her about economics and we were going a bit deeper until she met up with her friend (no problem there, as they were good friends and haven't seen each other in a while). After that, I tried chatting with two Americans (one was a filipina looking girl and the other was some black-american guy). I tried testing the waters with them, but they kept giving me bullshit and short answers. Basically, didn't want to talk to me and were anti-social.
Once I get out of the bookstore, I bump into the Korean and Polish chick from my German class going to the bookstore to buy books. I approach them and we started talking about the books, as we have been having problems with the books (not getting bumbled with some crap we need). We then started talking stuff in getting to know each other and all that sort of thing. We talked for almost an hour in the quad area of our college (and this hour went quickly). We talked about the most random stuff you can think of (and yes, I mean it, lol). Once in the end, we agreed to have coffee another time and I got their numbers.
Long story short, this part of the day gives you an observation into how americans are; anti-social. as I said before, I am a polite social latin (but born in the US) guy who is down to talk to anybody and about anything. I approach people and I could turn some bullshit question into a two hour discussion. However, when it comes to Americans, Americans are a whole different ball game. I approach and even lead up the conversation with an American (this mostly applies to Americans under the age of mid-40s) and yet, they can't fucking stay in a conversation for at least 5 minutes, even when the subject/topic is given to them. Now, this applies to both genders, not just chicks.
How does this connect to anything? Well, what does it take in order to land with a girl? social skills, and at least two people to tango (in a conservation, you have to give and take, there is no other way). What do the majority of Americans lack? social skills.
How does this apply to this whole site? Part of this site is about getting and laying girls. In order to do that, part of what you need is social skills. and as I said, the majority of americans lack social skills. when this applies to american men, if you get to know a lot long enough, a lot will bitch about not finding a "good girl" to date or any chick at all to get with and lay. You see this all over the internet, and especially in other manosphere sites (i.e Happier Abroad). Why the fuck American men complain about not being able to get a girl when you're too dam fucking shallow and anti-social to even talk to another fellow male..... This really irritates me because I do the work to get with girls, and I even give tips to American men who ask me, and they don't ever apply it......
Hell, I have had Mexican nationals (and who barely have a middle school education) who live here in the US and work in the shitty jobs that 99.99% of Americans won't ever work in, give me way better, philosophical, and deeper conversations than your 20 something college educated, ultra liberal, and "anti misogynist" American.
Luckily, there are loads of foreigners (especially the foreign women ^_^ ) here in the bay area who don't have this anti-social robotic chip on their shoulders and keep my sanity. Idk how you guys who live outside of the bay area, LA, and NYC keep your sanity, if you guys know the factor I refer to in this whole post. I just know that your average American male (and luckily there are always exceptions) is just one anti-social ass who bitches about not getting a chick, and doesn't put the effort. I just had to post this, as I have been getting annoyed of this recently.
Anybody else in here has noticed this?