[Kickb]

Your second grader has become good friends with another boy at school and was invited to a sleep over. You meet the other boy's father at school and exchange contact info. Saturday rolls around and you drive to his friend's house to drop him off. You and your kid walk up to the door and knock, the man you met earlier in the week greets you and welcomes you into his home. You follow him into the kitchen and see a man sitting at the bar reading the newspaper. They are fabulously married !

   

What would you do?

With all the gay flying around, this is bound to happen to some of us at some point...

[HeyPete]

I would take my kid home and wait until I knew more about these fellas. It might make me look bad, but I wouldn't care.

Don't have kids, but I have a nephew and I would never want him in that situation.

Chances are nothing will happen. But I wouldn't want him to be a Guinea pig.

[cardguy]

I will never have kids.

But if I did - this wouldn't bother me.

I wish I wasn't such a liberal at times. Since it ruins my street cred.

[Tuthmosis]

Whip out my dick and see how everyone reacts. No homo, of course.

[Daddy]

I would have a little discussion with my boy about how his anus was made for shitting.

[Kabal]

I would grab my son immediately and flee the premises.

My son will not be spending time in a household with visible white crew-neck t-shirts.

[Vroom]

I'd be a bit shocked and uncomfortable, but not uncomfortable enough to change the plans I'd made for the night with the kid out of the house.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

Honestly, this doesn't seem that different from a regular sleepover that you are sending a daughter off to. There is an adult in the house who is attracted to her, as well as that adult's son. Is her being raped such a serious concern?

That said, I'd find the situation disturbing because this "surprise" was sprung on me like that, but I wouldn't say anything.

[xpatplayer]

I would let him play with his friend (not have a sleepover) and have a general conversation with the fathers. If they are gay men living a non-flamboyant family existence and not acting like women, I would be fine with him coming back and hanging out. But if they are effeminate or flamboyant, he would be coming back home ASAP and not going back to the gay home. I don't want to take any risks.

Why wouldn't I let him sleep over? If he is under 10, I would want to get to know the parents of the kid before letting my kid sleep over.

[speakeasy]

Unless I felt the two men were pedophiles, there's no reason to think my son would in any danger. My main concern though is that at that age, he's very impressionable and could be influenced into experimenting with homosexuality if he sees the two men embracing and kissing and such. I don't buy the notion that it's all fixed. I think a genetically straight kid can be influenced into experimenting with homosexuality.

[Hotwheels]

Not a fan of gays and no kid of mine would ever be subjected to that lifestyle.

[Quintus Curtius]

Don't ruin your son's sleepover, but take steps to gradually disengage...

And have a talk with Junior about your value system, what you stand for, and what lifestyles you do and do not accept.

[SheriffBart]

Prevent the problem. Don't have a kid in some liberal nanny state that allows gay marriage.

[Collide]

I'll just leave this here.....

[Veloce]

I'd have no problem grabbing him and leaving. If the door opened and I saw it was two dads living together, I'd respond with, "Uh, no." and get the hell out of there.

By that point I would have explained to my son what it means when two men walk down the street holding hands. He'd understand why we left.

[Hotwheels]

^^^^ Fucking freaks

[Cincinnatus]

@ Collide, that is horrifying.

[dads]

Eh. I can't say I'd care too much. If they look like men as opposed to pansy fags, I would allow it. I'd rather have my kid have a sleepover at the gay dad household as opposed to the skinny beta loser dad and mammoth wife who feeds the kids cheetos, pizza and gushers all night.

[speakeasy]

(01-18-2014 07:29 PM)Collide Wrote:  

I'll just leave this here.....

Why are gay men allowed to adopt a boy? Would they ever allow a straight man to adopt a girl? Hell no.

[kosko]

You avoid the problem by letting your son host the sleepover. If your in the west you have to vett any situation your kid is going into.Your kid from school, to the media; they will target target your boy and try to push viewpoints, mindsets and products he dosn't need.

You let your son host and you can screen the other friend yourself. By grade 2 I was swearing, pretending to workout by doing crappy push-ups and pull-ups on the jungle gym, and having crushes on girls. The weirdos and losers kids were already established. I remember in those days kids were really experimenting at that age. Like I would routinely would whip out my dick to my babysitters, and my homie got suspended for doing that at school to a broad lol. It was our version of nuclear game of shit testing the system. I learned that stuff like that freaked the lower structures around me but not everything was equal (fighting for instance, would get me in a ton of shit at school but my parents didn't care as long as I won the fight and I had a reason to do it). Knowing that I'm not worried my boy is going to try and do dumb shit with some kid, by grade two it's already established that he gets warm and shit by women, not boys.

Back to hosting.... You invite them to your home and just let them do shit like play outside, drive them to laser tag, archery, or let them order a UFC or WWE paper-view. You can control the situation and then see how his friend reacts. All that stuff was fun to me growing up so if his friend is complaining or comes in with a bloody nose from just sniffing some fall air then be skeptical that he's just a weakling with some loser parents.

When he gets picked up in the AM you can then meet the parent(s) invite them in for a coffee and screen accordingly. Ask the right questions about the parents career and family situation and watch the body language and mannerisms. If you get major read flags, and in this situation you get the bomb drop that this kids dad has another husband at home too.. Then you act accordingly and cut that kid off from being your sons friend.

In the end you as a parent has a better chance of molding your sons social circle by whom YOU interact with and keep in your circles. If you have a good crew of like minded parents whom are "red pill" then it should your kids whom are interacting with each other and re-enforcing those positive values. If the dude you play golf with is chill and he's got a son around the same age arrange something like a evening out to watch baseball or some shit together. It's not hard finding kids friends when they are young, if anything of it should be done by the parents IMO to make things easier for the kids.

[EisenBarde]

I'd invite the kid over to my place next time and drive them to the gun range.

If I'm not allowed to judge their lifestyle, they shouldn't be able to judge mine.

[Sebastian]

Some guys are Bit honest here but i know people will act differently in real situation.

Class discussion: you picked up the wallet with full of cash. Nobody saw and there is no camera.
What would you do?

Most will say 'oh yeah i will def give it to the police. Im an honest person blah blah.
whats the stats for returned wallet??

For me, I dont want my son hanging out with gay couples son.
One of the reason people try to live in a good area is that they want their kids to hangout with the same league or upper league. They dont want their kids hangingout with kids below their standard.

I say gay parents have Definitely have Different lifestyle. I simply dont want that.

[Suits]

(01-18-2014 11:10 PM)EisenBarde Wrote:  

I'd invite the kid over to my place next time and drive them to the gun range.

If I'm not allowed to judge their lifestyle, they shouldn't be able to judge mine.

This is a great approach. If it turns out that they're cool, great. If they end up pushing you away because they don't want their son affected but your redneck sensibilities.

[HeyPete]

(01-18-2014 11:12 PM)Sebastian Wrote:  

Some guys are Bit honest here but i know people will act differently in real situation.

Class discussion: you picked up the wallet with full of cash. Nobody saw and there is no camera.
What would you do?

Most will say 'oh yeah i will def give it to the police. Im an honest person blah blah.
whats the stats for returned wallet??

For me, I dont want my son hanging out with gay couples son.
One of the reason people try to live in a good area is that they want their kids to hangout with the same league or upper league. They dont want their kids hangingout with kids below their standard.

I say gay parents have Definitely have Different lifestyle. I simply dont want that.

No way. I've found several wallets in my life time. None in a while, but when I did -- After the first two finds, I always took the cash. And either, depending on where it was found, popped the wallet into the mailbox, took it to security or tried to contact the person myself.

The first two I found. I returned and the people always said, "I don't care about the cash. It's everything else I was worried about."

So, from then on. If I ever found one. Boom. Money is mine. And then try to find the owner. The most I found was $400 in a wallet underneath my seat at a bakery. Next most, $318 on a shuttle bus to the Rose Bowl.

[CaliforniaSupreme]

Wow, interesting concept.
I'm not a big fan of gays, but it depends how the situation feels at the moment. If my "sixth/soldier" sense tells me something's wrong, I'd politely find a way for us to leave. If I feel the guys are OK, I may let him stay, but I'd lay down ground rules beforehand. If my son felt uncomfortable, I'd come get him. If I let my kid stay and they molested him or something, they better hope there's a God watching over them. People would find bits and pieces of them lying around lol. #TotallyNotSeriousJustInCaseTheFedsAreWatching