[Closer68]

In college, reputation definitely matters. I wouldn't recommend "going for numbers" and being too direct with these chicks. Instead, I'd join activities, clubs, and other normal shit during the day and just being friendly (you'll pick up numbers this way automatically). Then you have a large circle of friends and social proof when you go out at night, which is where you'll do your damage. College chicks who act one way sober turn into slut zombies at night with a little alcohol in them. You'll be a safe to bang since they know you and you aren't some "creeper" they met at the bar.

[Remington]

betterthanyou, if you go to a school that is >5000 students, then you shouldn't care about reputation. Opinions will amount to shit in that larger school environment. With smaller schools, you need to be more cognizant of your surroundings. I went to a school with <1200 students so people would know if I fucked up one night. Just the nature of the game. Be smart with your approaches, and like the other members have said...do not reflect on past rejection. It will make you over think situations.

[Sargon of Akkad]

Just for the record, my longest cold streak was something like 150 between my last two bangs. No, I'm not exaggerating.

[Neo]

Assuming this is a non-troll thread...

You need to practice the art of selective memory. You need to remember the rejections just enough to do two things.

1) Learn from your mistakes.
2) Motivate you. ('It doesn't matter if this girl said no, I'm going to figure game out no matter what and become great with women, period.')

After you've done that, they have to disappear from your mind. Logging them like this doesn't produce any value for you, it just makes you dwell on the rejections.

I know it's easier said than done, when you're on a hot streak you feel you can't lose and when cold, you feel like every girl is rejecting you. It doesn't matter. Treat every approach as a new event, the only thing you should carry with you is your experience. After a while remembering the successes and forgetting the failures becomes natural and you'll do it automatically.

[The Beast1]

(01-17-2014 05:12 AM)Felix88 Wrote:  

After gaming for a while I stopped giving a shit about things like reputations and other people's opinion about me, people think what people think. Even if they label you creepy, so what?

Truth is, when people see you talking to a girl, people will just assume you're know each others. I approach girls in the same bookstore and train everyday with shitload people around listen to my game and people still don't know who I am and don't care, it's all in your head.

Bad advice and I'll tell you why:

Don't be an approach machine at a college under 10,000 people. Your reputation matters a ton because you're still in a semi insular environment like high school.

You need anonymity to be able to cold approach people without it ruining the well. Wait until you're out of school for this.

College is a stupid easy time for social circle bangs. Make friends, throw parties, and hang out with people. This is the easiest time to get laid.

[WestIndianArchie]

@Neo

I don't notice any kind of analysis or thoughtfulness on OP's part.

He doesn't actually tell us what he says.

So if he's just rolling up on chicks and expecting pussy after ten minutes, and does so repeatedly without thinking about what he might be doing wrong, I don't think we can help him.

It's just like the dude from good looking loser, lots of approaches but no reflection, no analysis.

[eradicator]

(01-18-2014 11:16 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

It's just like the dude from good looking loser, lots of approaches but no reflection, no analysis.

you mean the guy with the rape Hyundai? he was funnny in a 'troll that refuses to take advice' sort of funny.