With a few notable exceptions, your achievements, your interests, your travels, and everything else that makes you an interesting, well rounded, confident, independent, attractive person is of little or no consequence to a woman, unless you are in the first place, capable of approaching women and engaging them in witty, entertaining conversation.
When meeting up with a woman, have a plan, the more creative the better, but any plan at all, is way better than no plan.
Nothing kills female desire quicker than her thinking she has to lead you.
Always keep conversations light when talking to a woman, tell light hearted stories, banter, tease a little, some kino, if in doubt, opinion openers can be surprisingly effective, err on the side of too bold, so long as you show that you are a confident, cool and interesting person, almost any woman will be flattered by your interest, and more often than not, will give you a window of opportunity.
Pipelining and online dating should only be used as a backup. Your main focus has to be day and/or night game. Nothing beats being able to meet up with a girl. A couple of hours of face to face contact and conversation almost always trumps several weeks of texting, whatsapping and phonecalls. I have wasted months, perhaps even years of my life, in useless contact with women which I thought would get me somewhere, but almost always got me a one way ticket to the friend zone.
Fidgeting and other perceived nervous tics get on womens' tits. Cut that shit out.
Talk slowly, breathe, use your voice, project it, speak clearly. You might not think this is important, but women notice this stuff. The high pitched fast excitable talker rarely gets the girl.
Every man should have some level of day game. Get comfortable making random friendly comments to strangers, when out and about. Not just women, men too. This will get you more comfortable with 'rambling'. Rarely will a woman blow you out for an opinion about something you're buying, or a funny comment about something she's just picked up or an inquiry about what time the shop shuts at. There's any amount of things you can say. So long as it's light hearted and open ended, she will give you a few moments of her time, to work your magic.
Ramble my friends, ramble. Ramble til thee can ramble no more. If you can ramble with complete strangers in a coffee shop, bookstore, at a bus stop, health food store, whatever, then you can also do it in a bar or club, but that said, where I live(Dublin), there's way more attractive women walking around in the daytime, then you meet out at night in the pubs and clubs, so unless your game is tight, you'll be stuck with 4's,5's and the occasional 6, if you restrict yourself to bar/club game.
When meeting up with a woman, have a plan, the more creative the better, but any plan at all, is way better than no plan.
Nothing kills female desire quicker than her thinking she has to lead you.
Always keep conversations light when talking to a woman, tell light hearted stories, banter, tease a little, some kino, if in doubt, opinion openers can be surprisingly effective, err on the side of too bold, so long as you show that you are a confident, cool and interesting person, almost any woman will be flattered by your interest, and more often than not, will give you a window of opportunity.
Pipelining and online dating should only be used as a backup. Your main focus has to be day and/or night game. Nothing beats being able to meet up with a girl. A couple of hours of face to face contact and conversation almost always trumps several weeks of texting, whatsapping and phonecalls. I have wasted months, perhaps even years of my life, in useless contact with women which I thought would get me somewhere, but almost always got me a one way ticket to the friend zone.
Fidgeting and other perceived nervous tics get on womens' tits. Cut that shit out.
Talk slowly, breathe, use your voice, project it, speak clearly. You might not think this is important, but women notice this stuff. The high pitched fast excitable talker rarely gets the girl.
Every man should have some level of day game. Get comfortable making random friendly comments to strangers, when out and about. Not just women, men too. This will get you more comfortable with 'rambling'. Rarely will a woman blow you out for an opinion about something you're buying, or a funny comment about something she's just picked up or an inquiry about what time the shop shuts at. There's any amount of things you can say. So long as it's light hearted and open ended, she will give you a few moments of her time, to work your magic.
Ramble my friends, ramble. Ramble til thee can ramble no more. If you can ramble with complete strangers in a coffee shop, bookstore, at a bus stop, health food store, whatever, then you can also do it in a bar or club, but that said, where I live(Dublin), there's way more attractive women walking around in the daytime, then you meet out at night in the pubs and clubs, so unless your game is tight, you'll be stuck with 4's,5's and the occasional 6, if you restrict yourself to bar/club game.
