Posts: 3
Threads: 0
Joined: Nov 2013
Reputation:
0
Tinder + bar
01-15-2014, 05:02 PM
I have been using Tinder for about two months now and I think my texting game is OK since I have had 3 dates out of it in the last month. So basically, we agree to go to a bar but... we just talk for like half an hour and at the end of the night there's no making out or anything.
I think one of the problems is that we sit across a table so I can't really touch her to escalate. What is the best way to have a successful first bar date?
Thanks!
Posts: 2,042
Threads: 0
Joined: Nov 2011
Reputation:
113
Tinder + bar
01-15-2014, 05:04 PM
Just find and read Tuthmosis' First Date Bang Recipe. Doesn't matter if it's Tinder, OKC, daygame, nightgame, or an arranged Indian marriage. The recipe works.
Posts: 383
Threads: 0
Joined: Nov 2013
Tinder + bar
01-15-2014, 06:02 PM
Quote: (01-15-2014 05:46 PM)aznfoot Wrote:
I live with my parents.
How old are you? If you're 17-18, it's fine, just bang them at your parents place.
If you're older than that, you need to seriously start working on yourself. Get a roommate and a cheap apartment, you just need to get started somewhere.
Posts: 268
Threads: 0
Joined: May 2013
Reputation:
3
Tinder + bar
01-15-2014, 09:17 PM
Bring more excitement into a date. You need to work on your date game. Pronto. Take them to a bar to hang out and play pool; do an activity. Play pool for a bit, engage them, then sit back and talk a bit, bounce them someplace else nearby that's interesting. My standard was I'd take 'em by coffee, chill, chat for a half hour, and be spontaneous and take them over to play a few games of pool at a nearby bar.
Find a way to be spontaneous and fun. And make that your lifestyle on top of it. I would tell a girl let's go out and take a walk a bit outside the bar after we'd hung out, and then I'd make out with her ("Hey, I won those last few games, eh?... Come here, I want my winnings." - grab her, pull her in and kiss her). Escalate and take her back to the car and bang in the back of the car. Easy if you've had a few drinks.
You've gotta make it happen yourself. She's not gonna sit there and do the work for you, and she's certainly not going to lean in and kiss you herself. Make those moves.