[Lex S.]

When we get a girl's number it's because we want to fuck her. Even if you have nothing in common, good looks or physical energy between the two of you trump everything.

So I'm terrible with initiating texts with girls after getting their numbers. Actually, scratch that. If we had a good rapport, something in common, had mutual friends, etc., it's easier to talk to them. But most of the time I just want a girl for nothing but her vagina and I have nothing else to say to her. Sometimes girls can be really fucking boring with no conversational skills, either, and it just throws off my vibe. And let's face it, hot girls don't need to have good personalities, so that also throws a wrench in the works.

So what do you suggest saying to a girl who you want to fuck but have nothing to say to? Just flirt outright? Make it sexual ASAP?

[WestIndianArchie]

Depends on the v situation

Night club, spring break, go direct

Day game, coffee shop, dig into who she is, and get the convo to be about her

[Lex S.]

(01-08-2014 10:28 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

Depends on the v situation

Night club, spring break, go direct

Day game, coffee shop, dig into who she is, and get the convo to be about her

Definitely. I usually meet girls at night at bars, sometimes with lots of alcohol flowing. Sometimes I just approach them with pure animal instinct and very few words exchanged so we know nothing about one another. So when it's finally time to text I realize that I know nothing about her, and sometimes she doesn't even know my name. I figure I could try and talk to these girls more, but if things are going good and no words need to be exchanged then I don't want to fuck up a good thing.

[Truth Teller]

(01-08-2014 10:06 PM)Lex S. Wrote:  

When we get a girl's number it's because we want to fuck her. Even if you have nothing in common, good looks or physical energy between the two of you trump everything.

So I'm terrible with initiating texts with girls after getting their numbers. Actually, scratch that. If we had a good rapport, something in common, had mutual friends, etc., it's easier to talk to them. But most of the time I just want a girl for nothing but her vagina and I have nothing else to say to her. Sometimes girls can be really fucking boring with no conversational skills, either, and it just throws off my vibe. And let's face it, hot girls don't need to have good personalities, so that also throws a wrench in the works.

So what do you suggest saying to a girl who you want to fuck but have nothing to say to? Just flirt outright? Make it sexual ASAP?

Personally, I see text as a tool to get her out again and nothing more.

[Bacchus]

(01-09-2014 12:10 AM)Truth Teller Wrote:  

(01-08-2014 10:06 PM)Lex S. Wrote:  

When we get a girl's number it's because we want to fuck her. Even if you have nothing in common, good looks or physical energy between the two of you trump everything.

So I'm terrible with initiating texts with girls after getting their numbers. Actually, scratch that. If we had a good rapport, something in common, had mutual friends, etc., it's easier to talk to them. But most of the time I just want a girl for nothing but her vagina and I have nothing else to say to her. Sometimes girls can be really fucking boring with no conversational skills, either, and it just throws off my vibe. And let's face it, hot girls don't need to have good personalities, so that also throws a wrench in the works.

So what do you suggest saying to a girl who you want to fuck but have nothing to say to? Just flirt outright? Make it sexual ASAP?

Personally, I see text as a tool to get her out again and nothing more.

Exactly. Don't expect to get consistent dates from numbers that drunk girls give you at the bar. Gather your numbers during the day. The night was made for getting strange tang.

In person, the actual topic of conversation doesn't even matter. It just occupies her attention, while you take the lead. Just keep it devoid of substance and you'll do fine.

The one tip about talking to girls is that, in the conversation, you should focus only on each moment. Don't loop back to earlier topics out of the blue or stick to one when she's already transitioned to another. That disturbs the emotion you've established and brings her back into the real world. String together enough pleasant moments and she'll follow your lead into the bedroom.

[Travesty]

I personally think if the alcohol is flowing when you meet these girls you better at least get a hard make out and a hand on your cock if you expect a call back.

If you escalated that far you may as well try to take it to the bedroom.

Even if I have taken a girl home and banged ONS, if lots of alcohol was involved it can be still hard to build any real steam in conversation once you are sober and want following dates/bangs.