Hey guys,
I just wrote a brief hall-article on Entitlement and the realization I had about it recently,
Read it and let me know what you think, I hope it helps you as it's helped me.
""Hey hey,
The other day I had a realisation I thought I would mention.
I have one friend in particular who always seems ‘high value’ as he seems to feel entitled to being treated a certain way and all that….and it’s kinda hard to suss out how he does it.
But now I think i’ve got it.
Most people walk around comparing themselves to others to try and see if they are ‘higher value’ or try to rationalize that some people are higher or lower value than them…..
I haven’t found this to be a very useful method or paradigm.
So what I figured out the other day, is that we are all exactly the same value…
Now I don't mean we have all the same social value to everyone else....but to ourselves - we should...and I think the quicker you realize this, the easier it is to become entitled and value yourself more.
Trying to become more entitled by banging hotter girls or making more cash is kinda fucked up because it's identifying externally....which I think doesn't work.
If you don’t judge others or put them down or rationalise up reasons why you’re better than them…then you’re basically all the same, so then there is no reason you shouldn’t be entitled to being treated well or just being ‘entitled’ in general….the thing is that most people are not entitled, they have ‘anti entitlement’ and seem to just make themselves seem/feel like losers.
Now back to this friend of mine…he treats everyone really well…so not only does he comes across as entitled and high value but also extremely polite, well mannered, cultured and refined…..
So I think it’s a very important lesson""
Kane Vast
P.S It comes from my tumblr: http://www.kanevast.tumblr.com (if mods don't like this address being here, pls delete it as I'm not sure if it's ok to post.)
I just wrote a brief hall-article on Entitlement and the realization I had about it recently,
Read it and let me know what you think, I hope it helps you as it's helped me.
""Hey hey,
The other day I had a realisation I thought I would mention.
I have one friend in particular who always seems ‘high value’ as he seems to feel entitled to being treated a certain way and all that….and it’s kinda hard to suss out how he does it.
But now I think i’ve got it.
Most people walk around comparing themselves to others to try and see if they are ‘higher value’ or try to rationalize that some people are higher or lower value than them…..
I haven’t found this to be a very useful method or paradigm.
So what I figured out the other day, is that we are all exactly the same value…
Now I don't mean we have all the same social value to everyone else....but to ourselves - we should...and I think the quicker you realize this, the easier it is to become entitled and value yourself more.
Trying to become more entitled by banging hotter girls or making more cash is kinda fucked up because it's identifying externally....which I think doesn't work.
If you don’t judge others or put them down or rationalise up reasons why you’re better than them…then you’re basically all the same, so then there is no reason you shouldn’t be entitled to being treated well or just being ‘entitled’ in general….the thing is that most people are not entitled, they have ‘anti entitlement’ and seem to just make themselves seem/feel like losers.
Now back to this friend of mine…he treats everyone really well…so not only does he comes across as entitled and high value but also extremely polite, well mannered, cultured and refined…..
So I think it’s a very important lesson""
Kane Vast
P.S It comes from my tumblr: http://www.kanevast.tumblr.com (if mods don't like this address being here, pls delete it as I'm not sure if it's ok to post.)