Let me preface this by saying this might just be cognitive dissonance, but it seems like there is a sharp female preference for public versus private declarations of love that mirror the red pill / blue pill divide.
Can anyone elaborate on the motivation for the whole ":if alpha male - show you off to friends and family:" ideal? It seems like once a guy starts moving from inept socially awkward blue pill to competent player red pill, girls will get disappointed if you avoid public opportunities to let her show you off. At the same time, it seems like a tricky balancing act, aloofness with scarcity.
I guess what I'm trying to ask is, once you start being viewed as a "catch" by girls, how do you handle not just the extra attention, but also the extra expectations for how to exercise your higher value?
Can anyone elaborate on the motivation for the whole ":if alpha male - show you off to friends and family:" ideal? It seems like once a guy starts moving from inept socially awkward blue pill to competent player red pill, girls will get disappointed if you avoid public opportunities to let her show you off. At the same time, it seems like a tricky balancing act, aloofness with scarcity.
I guess what I'm trying to ask is, once you start being viewed as a "catch" by girls, how do you handle not just the extra attention, but also the extra expectations for how to exercise your higher value?