Hello brothers:
Nothing has improved my game so much as living here in Cordoba Argentina. The girls are flakey (histerica) and definitely push your buttons.
I have two quick questions for you. First one is a how I picked up a girl during day/late evening game? And a subsequent question about her telling me "you have to behave yourself, and we are not having sex when we meet next time; i'm not like all the other girls blah blah blah". The second is a Brazilian girl and a text message exchange where she tries to set the frame and I maintain mine. Would love your feedback on both.
Fair Pickup with an attractive 32 year old Cordobaisa:
PROTIP: This is the best place to run daygame here in Cordoba. Every Sat/Sun 7-10PM. I've met and made out with two girls here (same day I met them).
First one is about a girl I met last night at the Ferria de las Artesenias (three or four streets south of San Juan & La Canada) here in Cordoba Capital. She was 32 shopping alone wearing a grey skimpy tank top and some short shorts. Great body and cute face... I made my 5th approach of the night haha; made some silly comment about what she was buying. Then offered to show her my motorcycle, we later went to grab a beer at the kiosko. Took her back to the moto since it was getting a little late. We were getting along and so even though she kept telling me to back up and give her space she was doing it playfully. I leaned in and kissed her and we kissed and talked there for about 30 minutes. Later un negro (an asshole) and his friends were starting to bother us about my bike that was parked next to us; so she said let's go. We went to her house; where I tried to escalate and she told me "portate bien" "behave yourself" whenever I tried to move my hands from PG locations. She invited me to dance bachata and salsa a Plaza Intendencia (every Sat/Sun evening they have music there.. and some smoking hot girls). Later had a beer with said friends and dropped her at her house. We made plans for me to cook for her Wednesday and come over... then she said, "we are *not* having sex". I tried to play it off as "you have a dirty mind to be thinking about that; who said anything about having sex". She said, "but you like to touch me a lot; on my arms and hips is ok but other places not. will you behave yourself?" I said, "I'm a man and I can't make promises because I'm attracted to you. I want you to be comfortable; and did you have a good time tonight?" "yes I did", "then we should hang out; if you didn't, we shouldn't. You know what it's like to be with me. If I do something that makes you feel uncomfortable, tell me and I'll stop. Sound good?"
I see the frame here as, "you will behave yourself and do what I want you to", where as I don't want to agree to that. Did I do OK on defeating this frame? In addition, I still get tripped up on the "we're not having sex comment" I think the best response to that is "of course not" or "I'm not that kind of guy" or do what I did... but I am sure my face was a little disappointed, I have to work on not being so reactive.
Finally, a cute brazilian girl I met at Maria Maria .. I've had the most success here (on the canada & san juan). Here's the most relevant Whatsapp messages.
Her: Motoman so can you go to my hostel tonight? Después salimos y vos cocinas
Pero no hoy
Hoy solamente en hostel y salimos por allá
When do you go to Buenos Aires?
Will you go*
Need to know if u will be here tonight
Me:
I can come but i wanna cook my pizzas for dinner at my place.
I leave BA for uruguay
Youre invited to come over and help and eat :p.
Her:
Jeje ah motoman
I would like you to hang out near here
Me:
Ok maybe another day we can meet
Her:
Ok then..
Will you eat alone?
Me:
yup. or maybe with my roommate
Her:
Good...
Do youb live near here?
Me:
10 minutes by moto. barrio santa fe
Her:
Tan cerca...
Me:
Yeah its not far from your hostel at all
Bueno
Anyways let me know if you change your mind. i could pick you up and dop you off
Her:
Ok I'll. If I'll be able I will let you know
Time?
Me:
8 or 9
Her:
Good
I won't go... I'll be here, you're invited.
Me:
k. another time then.
Her:
Ok
[later after i posted this post; she says:]
My friend wants to meet you. Come here
The frame control is, "I want to hang out my hostel or nearby it. I don't want to come over to your place because I don't want anything to happen". I made out with this girl for 3 hours and I'm not anxious to burn a night of more making out with the girl at a location not conducive to the cause. Did I handle this right?
Nothing has improved my game so much as living here in Cordoba Argentina. The girls are flakey (histerica) and definitely push your buttons.
I have two quick questions for you. First one is a how I picked up a girl during day/late evening game? And a subsequent question about her telling me "you have to behave yourself, and we are not having sex when we meet next time; i'm not like all the other girls blah blah blah". The second is a Brazilian girl and a text message exchange where she tries to set the frame and I maintain mine. Would love your feedback on both.
Fair Pickup with an attractive 32 year old Cordobaisa:
PROTIP: This is the best place to run daygame here in Cordoba. Every Sat/Sun 7-10PM. I've met and made out with two girls here (same day I met them).
First one is about a girl I met last night at the Ferria de las Artesenias (three or four streets south of San Juan & La Canada) here in Cordoba Capital. She was 32 shopping alone wearing a grey skimpy tank top and some short shorts. Great body and cute face... I made my 5th approach of the night haha; made some silly comment about what she was buying. Then offered to show her my motorcycle, we later went to grab a beer at the kiosko. Took her back to the moto since it was getting a little late. We were getting along and so even though she kept telling me to back up and give her space she was doing it playfully. I leaned in and kissed her and we kissed and talked there for about 30 minutes. Later un negro (an asshole) and his friends were starting to bother us about my bike that was parked next to us; so she said let's go. We went to her house; where I tried to escalate and she told me "portate bien" "behave yourself" whenever I tried to move my hands from PG locations. She invited me to dance bachata and salsa a Plaza Intendencia (every Sat/Sun evening they have music there.. and some smoking hot girls). Later had a beer with said friends and dropped her at her house. We made plans for me to cook for her Wednesday and come over... then she said, "we are *not* having sex". I tried to play it off as "you have a dirty mind to be thinking about that; who said anything about having sex". She said, "but you like to touch me a lot; on my arms and hips is ok but other places not. will you behave yourself?" I said, "I'm a man and I can't make promises because I'm attracted to you. I want you to be comfortable; and did you have a good time tonight?" "yes I did", "then we should hang out; if you didn't, we shouldn't. You know what it's like to be with me. If I do something that makes you feel uncomfortable, tell me and I'll stop. Sound good?"
I see the frame here as, "you will behave yourself and do what I want you to", where as I don't want to agree to that. Did I do OK on defeating this frame? In addition, I still get tripped up on the "we're not having sex comment" I think the best response to that is "of course not" or "I'm not that kind of guy" or do what I did... but I am sure my face was a little disappointed, I have to work on not being so reactive.
Finally, a cute brazilian girl I met at Maria Maria .. I've had the most success here (on the canada & san juan). Here's the most relevant Whatsapp messages.
Her: Motoman so can you go to my hostel tonight? Después salimos y vos cocinas
Pero no hoy
Hoy solamente en hostel y salimos por allá
When do you go to Buenos Aires?
Will you go*
Need to know if u will be here tonight
Me:
I can come but i wanna cook my pizzas for dinner at my place.
I leave BA for uruguay
Youre invited to come over and help and eat :p.
Her:
Jeje ah motoman
I would like you to hang out near here
Me:
Ok maybe another day we can meet
Her:
Ok then..
Will you eat alone?
Me:
yup. or maybe with my roommate
Her:
Good...
Do youb live near here?
Me:
10 minutes by moto. barrio santa fe
Her:
Tan cerca...
Me:
Yeah its not far from your hostel at all
Bueno
Anyways let me know if you change your mind. i could pick you up and dop you off
Her:
Ok I'll. If I'll be able I will let you know
Time?
Me:
8 or 9
Her:
Good
I won't go... I'll be here, you're invited.
Me:
k. another time then.
Her:
Ok
[later after i posted this post; she says:]
My friend wants to meet you. Come here
The frame control is, "I want to hang out my hostel or nearby it. I don't want to come over to your place because I don't want anything to happen". I made out with this girl for 3 hours and I'm not anxious to burn a night of more making out with the girl at a location not conducive to the cause. Did I handle this right?
