[Jetset]

(09-24-2017 03:03 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  

This is a deeply ingrained instinct in most of the animal kingdom. This technique even allows you to find yourself on better terms with weaker males after a first meeting, which might not seem immediately relevant yet since it's often physically weaker males that determine our employment status then this technique can be a job-saver for jacked guys that often get hostile responses from beta male bosses.

I have also learned that cats signal peace to one another by blinking their eyes at each other very slowly.

So try that.

Don't try that.

[The Stronger Sex]

Alterantively, lick your balls or scratch your back against a tree.

[Transsimian]

(09-25-2017 05:25 AM)The Stronger Sex Wrote:  

Alterantively, lick your balls or scratch your back against a tree.

I knew yoga classes would eventually pay off.

[debeguiled]

(09-25-2017 05:58 AM)Transsimian Wrote:  

(09-25-2017 05:25 AM)The Stronger Sex Wrote:  

Alterantively, lick your balls or scratch your back against a tree.

I knew yoga classes would eventually pay off.

Actually, I wonder if you could soften your intimidating look by carrying one of those gay yoga mats around.

[giama]

Dont have to be scary but in environments where weakness is prayed upon (Dating in the urban community for instance) It pays to have a commanding presence. If your dating hipsters and frequenting hipster places it probably doesnt matter as much.

eating good and Lifting weights will increase testosterone which does over time give you a more intimidating face and presence, which will make a smaller percentage of guys think they can test you, and it will make women co-operate to your demands more

I dont think its all about size, proportions and how healthy you look are important to, they will associate it with virility i guess. A lot of non gym goers in London have bad diet and it reflects in there faces.

Women have intuition and they can tell if you are fully at ease, they pay attention to detail.

For example if you walk into a bar with a 8 out of 10 and you feel uncomfortable because there is alpha guys around she will pick up on the fact that your not comfortable around alpha guys.

Being good at something gives you that confidence, knowing that you put in the work to have a good shape,knowing your top 10% in shape. will give you added confidence, when you walk around that bar guys wont smell any weakness. You are not intimidated and in control.

The black girls i date pick up quickly how you move around a room, black girls really go for an Alpha type, if your a beta black guy in a urban environment you will have poor options as black girls who are from Urban environments can be dismissive of someone who cant physically protect them.

Size isnt only factor sometimes being in shape just shows a discipline and is given respect where its due.

I will say though proportions and shoulders are important to pay attention to.
You have to wear your clothes, your clothes shouldn't wear you.

Your presence will be doubled by a good upper body programme and eating good.

Were animals at the end of the day, non verbally i am saying the following

1) To guys, I dont have a naturally menacing face, but my physique silently says you will get your ass beat.
2)To girls, i am in similar or better shape then you so yeh open those legs


Its all Leverage, Socially i play small circle/loan wolf game, which with 8s dont always work in my city as they want to see obvious social value/crew game, as they know there top of the pile and have high social/sexual value.


even in the gym guys and girls will respect you more if you have a imposing physique, when you have been off for a year or so or just start a gym girls dont really give a shit, but when your beasting there choosing. Same thing with spotting. Guys know who to ask for spots and they know who to pick fights with.

I went from 2 or 3 mediocre options in february, to 23 options in August all choosing hard all due to gym work. 6 months of gym was all it took (i have pretty good muscle memory)

[wellrockthecity]

@giama

tbh this sounds a mix of broscience and those bullshit that only people who never been in a fight would say.

While I agree that being bigger can make you more intimidating, it doesnt have anything to do with being aggressive or especially how to handle yourself in a fight.

I know quite few skinny, short, sometimes out of shape motherfuckers that can fight. Look at Marcelo Garcia or Myao Brothers (google if you dont know who I am talking about). I am sure if you see them in the street or a bar you would think they are your average hipster or beta male but they can throw you on the floor and kill you in one minute even if you have 50lbs on them.

Hell one of the toughest motherfucker I know is 1.68 cm x 65kg, pale and balding he totally looks like a gremlin. The son of a bitch used to be European kickboxing champion in his category and he is a bjj brown belt.
I witnessed him fighting twice in bars, both of the time some bigger dude started some bullshit with his (hot) girlfriend and short ly end up on the floor half dead.
I dont know you and I have no idea what you look like but I am 100% confident that the guy can drop you on the floor or at least give you a night that you'll never forget (in a negative way).
I used to know a lot of people in my city mma world and people 2 or 3 weight categories above him would say that they would not fight him as he was the devil.

We are talking about killers in sheep clothing and if you think that you can kick people asses just because you did 6 months of gym hell man you are in for a rude wake up call...

Fighting is a skill and it takes training and/or killer mentality (which is something you can hardly develop unless you live in certain environments).

[giama]

@wellrockcity

Your putting words in my mouth, i never said 6 months of gym makes me able to kick peoples asses. There are some wolves out there, who dont give a shit about size, either there trained or have killa instinct, but the vast majority of people dont have those abilities. And they use rational logic, his bigger then me, they pick there battles. The killas dont use logic they know the can fight regardless of size.

I didnt say being big means you can handle yourself in a fight, i said it conveys a message that your not a easy mark. Ofcourse there is other body language factors aside from size. ie how you carry yourself. What if the big guy can fight? that crosses most minds except the highly skilled/killas.

People that start trouble are generally cowards, who look for weakness. They dont hunt for the unluckiest deer, they hunt for the weakest one. People can falsely assume someone who is small is weak and someone who is big is strong. And someones they will bark up the wrong tree.

The majority of people are not highly skilled fighters or natural born killer mentality and they respect some type of law of nature.

Remember im talking about people starting trouble with me, not me starting trouble with people. Your kind of painting it like im assuming a small guy cant fight and i can go around beating them up. Not true at all.


But the guy that is 5'7 thats a natural born killa with his girl in a bar is probably most likely to get messed with, then me, thats simply because 95% of trouble makers thing bigger equals easier target. But yes they will get a ass whooping quicker from that guy then me. In my experience of being built and being skinny, being built cuts out all shit tests from guys. It does not equate better fighting skills, it just plays on the average guys mind, and most guys are average with there hands. Thats all im saying.

I box casually, im honest enough to say i dont have a natural killer instinct , Im 6'4, 240 pounds and muscular in the heavy weight category, there are plenty of guys that will kick my ass, but a vast majority of guys would never test me in London. Maybe in another city it would be a different story.
MMA guys would destroy me in a street fight, they dont care about size. And guys that use knives/guns wont care about size either, but the SANE population do. which is the vast majority of the population. Everyone can get touched and everyone can get there ass whooped. They see me and they see the physique of a slightly smaller Anthony Joshua. The would be trouble maker dont know what i can or cant do with my hands

[Cane Toad]

The real skill is being able to avoid the fight in the first place.

It's basic risk management. The most effective way to manage a risk is to eliminate it so that you don't need a plan to respond to it.

Being a good fighter will only get you so far. Even having to respond to a physical threat is going to make a girl uneasy, let alone whether you win the fight or get beaten up.

The point is that you should plan to take your girl to places that won't put you in a position that will require you to deal with aggressive dudes - eliminate the risk.

[TigerMandingo]

(09-25-2017 11:51 AM)debeguiled Wrote:  

Actually, I wonder if you could soften your intimidating look by carrying one of those gay yoga mats around.

That's some next-level thinking right there. Thanks, dude.

[Ringo]

Some guys here are confusing size, looks and dangerousness.

Those are all components to being intimidating. If anything, dangerousness is the most important aspect of being intimidating - are you more scared of being around a 250lb nice guy bodybuilder, or a wiry 150lbs short tempered crackhead?

Being intimidating is like having charisma. While there are observable elements to it, part of it is intangible. Either you have it or not. Look at people like Rihanna or Conor McGregor. You find your eyes following them and unable to look away. That magnetism is charisma.

When you see a guy that is a war vet or a fighter or whatever, you just get a gut reaction not to fuck with them. You feel their presence.

As with most things, looking intimidating helps up until a certain point. Beyond that, most people want distance because you're straight up scary to them. It's like bodybuilding. Pretty much 100% of girls will be attracted to an offseason men's physique type of look; much fewer will be to a 300lb Mr. Olympia.

Few of us will ever be in the top tier of looking and being intimidating - most of which were already born like that. We don't need to, really. Just don't be a pussy and you'll be fine.

[General Stalin]

Women like a man who makes them feel safe and secure but also brings out a slight sense of primal danger. If you look like the kind of guy that could fuck other dudes up girls will like it. they also subconsciously will like it if you look like the kind of guy that would slap them around and tug their hair in the bedroom.

[DonnyGately]

Girls like guys that are dominant/intimidating at work and look like they'd be dominant in bed. Suit game helps tremendously with this.

[Chris Brown]

Do you mean intimidating like Navegante from Narcos?

[duedue]

You should be overwhelming, not intimidating. Read this: thread-36824.html
Although I don't understand what the author means by "To attain the killer instinct, you must completely own your darkest thoughts and feelings as a man."

[Baronxrus]

(09-23-2017 10:39 PM)Remington Wrote:  

(09-23-2017 09:48 PM)Moma Wrote:  

How did you gain weight?

I lift 4x a week. My diet consisted of the following:

Breakfast:1 cup plain greek yogurt, 1/2 cup dry traditional quaker oatmeal, teaspoon of honey, 1 cup greek yogurt to mix together. Delicious.

Lunch: 3 peanut butter sandwiches, snack bag full of carrots, banana.

Hour after workout and before dnner: Protein Shake and supplements. Magnesium Citrate, Optizinc, L-Arginine, and Fish Oil

Dinner: 1 Chicken breast, half bag green beans (bought at grocery store, metrics undetermined)

I felt like I didn't eat as much as I should, but I gained weight. Gained 15lbs in 3 months just from the diet.

test deca dbol

lol

[Easy_C]

(09-23-2017 09:29 PM)mensch Wrote:  

I reckon it would depend very much on what kind of 'intimidation' it is. You do not want to lose potential gravitas by acting like an aggressive fool. The best combination is to be intimidating, look intimidating, but then tone it down, bring some sugar into it when talking to women. Super-charged authority and gravitas.

Being an "aggressive fool" isn't particularly intimidating.

Let's just say that, a few years back before my equipment broke, I was riding around on a large V-twin engine bike and had friends who did as well...which involves going to events populated by some of the most intimidating people on the planet.

The thing that stands out about them is the complete lack of any overt aggression. However, every single body movement and twitch exudes purpose and their mood is characterized by a kind of chilling calm. You realize pretty quickly that there's no need to feel intimidated because they aren't going to beat on you for no reason, and also that you can't visibly show any tension or you will be perceived as weak and intimidated.

I've been able to use that principle of looking completely calm and in control during tense situations to get much larger groups of people to back down successfully, and it is good to have that in the back pocket.

But here's the thing to remember: if you try to act aggressive or "AMOG" people then you will almost immediately be perceived as an insecure, weak idiot by anyone in the room who actually is a battle-scarred alpha. Don't do it. It's much more intimidating and dominant to stay calm, cool, and collected at all times. You shouldn't be telling to people, let's say....to respect your personal space. Your body language should send the message that anyone who violates it is going to get fucked up without you having to say a damn word.

And no, you don't have to be huge or bulked to do that although it certainly helps. Some of the guys I'm talking about were skinny, wiry little dudes who an extremely bad vibe about them.