On one hand marriage is almost universally seen as one of the biggest possible mistakes you can make. Yet, I can't tell you how many guys (including on this forum), particularly American ones, who say they want to "eventually" get married. Like the institution has some sort of cult-like pull over men.
The fact is, you don't *have* to be married to have kids with a woman, and it does'nt make you somehow less morally virtuous. So long as you have the will and (financial) capacity to support children, you can have them within a non-married long term relationship just fine.
A piece of paper saying your married and giving your "wife" the legal right to take half of your assets and a portion of your income is not morally superior to simply co-habitating with the woman you'd like to have children with. Neither does it protect you from her desires, whims or liking other men.
So the question is, why?
The fact is, you don't *have* to be married to have kids with a woman, and it does'nt make you somehow less morally virtuous. So long as you have the will and (financial) capacity to support children, you can have them within a non-married long term relationship just fine.
A piece of paper saying your married and giving your "wife" the legal right to take half of your assets and a portion of your income is not morally superior to simply co-habitating with the woman you'd like to have children with. Neither does it protect you from her desires, whims or liking other men.
So the question is, why?