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Handling a Super Type-A Personality Girl
11-29-2013, 03:14 PM
So I met this 18 y/o half-Mexican, half-Black chick who grew up in a shitty neighborhood. I know you guys are all about the super feminine foreign chicks, but bare with me.
She's pretty fun to hang out with, but I find her falling out of line with my understanding of how most girls behave and how to react. She seems really open and will talk about whatever, swears a lot, etc. Seems to be putting up somewhat of a tough girl front. But at the same time, she laughs and smiles a lot and is overall lacking in typical bitchy and game-playing traits.
I started making out with her later and got pretty assertive/rough with it. Tossed her around a bit, pulled hair, etc. Afterward, her personality softened a lot and she had this like... borderline look of admiration in her eyes.
We didn't bang. I'm gonna bring her over to my place later in the week and try to seal the deal. I don't have a specific question, but how do I handle this type of girl?
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11-29-2013, 03:17 PM
" Afterward, her personality softened a lot and she had this like... borderline look of admiration in her eyes."
^The answer lies in this statement.
If it's working, keep doing it.
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11-29-2013, 03:21 PM
Quote: (11-29-2013 03:17 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:
" Afterward, her personality softened a lot and she had this like... borderline look of admiration in her eyes."
^The answer lies in this statement.
If it's working, keep doing it.
So I need to be even more dominant with her than I would with a timid suburban chick? I mean, I pretty much behave the same with everyone. I'm trying to learn to read better and behave accordingly.
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11-29-2013, 03:39 PM
Different girls = different 'flow'.
'Hood' girls I allow my harder side to shine + 'bad boy' past, jail etc.
Flipside, if I'm at a polo match and meet an Ivy League chick I tailor my game/personality slightly.
This chick is down dude. Just do what you're doing and don't think too much.
Being in your head is the death of a guy's Game. Let it flow, be chill, dominate, hold Frame like a motherfucker and Lead her.
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11-29-2013, 04:51 PM
Quote: (11-29-2013 04:06 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:
I call female troll. A few posts back, "he" was strangling a woman with a belt.
"But girls have told me I'm great in bed and a freak and all that. I just get into it and I like to get rough. Like, I'll choke her with her own belt and do weird positions and shit like that. I always thought that was pretty normal though. Maybe I've seen too much porn."
But here he says: "I mean, I pretty much behave the same with everyone. I'm trying to learn to read better and behave accordingly."
Who strangles people on a regular basis? Sounds like he's trying to get us to prove we condone violence and will advice young board members to do that. And beyond that, the tone of the "belt" comment doesn't come off believably to me.
Someone already picked up that there was something questionable about his post on gaming girls on their period (i.e. why did "he" happen to have tampons available?).
I wouldn't use the word strangle. She was into it. Had me come up with a safe word.
And I had tampons because my sister lived with me and left a bunch of shit.
I don't even see how the first two quotes would be a contradiction. You're thinking way too much into strangers' posts.
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11-29-2013, 05:35 PM
She's a 18 year old girl from the hood. She probably hasn't seen a good example of a credible male role model that handles his business. She's seen tough guys, and thugs, so you can show her something different. This is your time to shine. We called them "Bennigans Girls", because they thought Bennigan's restaurants were fine dining. Don't lie to her, and be consistent about who you are and what you're about. She respects strength. If you play you cards right (and she's not a malicious twat) you can train her like a puppy.
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