[Jogo]

So this evenining I was finally in bed with this sibirian chick. Up to this point everything went just as I wanted but one thing is freaking me out right now.

Although she already had my dick in her hand even playing with it, she kept me away from opening her pants. It really grinds my gears as I felt that I lost kind of control of the direction where we were going. Long story short – I wasn’t able to seal the deal because of that.

Is this just a girl gaming me or was this a mistake of mine here?

[kinjutsu]

In this situation you should have done your pants up and walked away from her into another room.
Then go start making out with her again but tease her then go away and do something else.
Rinse repeat till her body is begging for you

If she still doesn't want to then ask her to leave. Tell her you have an early start the next day.
If you're at her place then tell her you gotta go.

It's a power game at this point. You have to take the power because you see what happens when you girl your power to a girl.

[Floss]

Not enough force was used in the removal of the pantaloons.

Kidding, also curious.

[Jogo]

Well, this totally makes sense to me. The tricky thing is, how do I get the scepter back in my hand?
I was thinking about bringing another girl to the same party where she will be today to play the independent card, but I think that might be risky as we are talking about a "good" girl who showes sincere interest.

Are there any alternative strategies that could be used in such a "loose of control situation"?

Thanks a lot so far!!

[AneroidOcean]

(11-28-2013 07:23 PM)Jogo Wrote:  

So this evenining I was finally in bed with this sibirian chick. Up to this point everything went just as I wanted but one thing is freaking me out right now.

Although she already had my dick in her hand even playing with it, she kept me away from opening her pants. It really grinds my gears as I felt that I lost kind of control of the direction where we were going. Long story short – I wasn’t able to seal the deal because of that.

Is this just a girl gaming me or was this a mistake of mine here?

She wasn't ready for you to get naked for you. Confusingly, if you'd just told her to put it in her mouth she probably would've blown you and then you could've tried again or just enjoyed the BJ. She'd probably be ready next time.

[Texas_Tryhard]

Did she repeatedly tell you "no" or did she just sit in an odd position that physically blocked you? I would have caveman'd it, assuming she was just teasing you and not actively stopping you. Just flip her over and start viciously making out with her neck, then try to remove her clothes and proceed as usual. Unfortunately there's a few details lacking. Did she just stuff it back in your pants or did you get (visibly) upset with her about this?

[funkyzeit]

Two solutions:

1. Caveman. Initial resistance is normal, she probably likes it rough and wants you to go that way.

2. Do what Kinjutsu wrote above. I read this at CH once, used it a couple of weeks later and it's gold.

[Flavius Aetius]

She had your cock in her hand on your bed.

[Jogo]

Well, I am a bit late concerning my update about the situation here, but I am happy to announce that I was able to seal the deal on the party that followed just one day later. I have to mention that the comment of AneroidOcean and his estimation of the situation was extremely accurate.

It worked out really well and easy because the logistics were perfect and the short time window between then and the first real escalation was really short. I just offered her after one or two our into the party, that we could go up into her flat ( she is living in a students accommotation) and from then up the game was on, and actually really quick!

@ Texas_Tryhard:

In terms of the night before, I could have reached my goal faster, as she was already naked at the top, but this way, it seemed much more natural. ( I hope I dont sound to beta here right now ).

That night before, she was actually actively stopping me with her hands, which was in the and, as I assume, really a sighn of not beeing ready. At that point I also didn’t want to push to much forward, as this could have gone into the wrong direction and could have send a wrong message.
As far as I have experienced my home country, the three date routine always was a save harbor. This was just number two.

Although I totally agree what kinjutsu is saying, it wasn’t really easy to implement that technique into this situation for the follwowing reasons:

1. She was dependent on a bus that set a limited time window. And I believe this technique needs some more time that we had.

2. I think in this specific situation, it would have been a bit odd and probably have killed the situation, as she already „invested“ a bit in pleasing me.

I just overreacted after that happening, because the last time that happend, the contact slowly broke down. And as I didn’t want a simple hook up anyway, but merely a mini-relationship, also to improve my russian, I dediced to ask the forum the first time since i found this site.

[Texas_Tryhard]

(12-05-2013 05:26 PM)Jogo Wrote:  

Well, I am a bit late concerning my update about the situation here, but I am happy to announce that I was able to seal the deal on the party that followed just one day later.