Hey,
I've read a few threads here on rolling solo, and also Roosh's blog post on the subject. I learned quite a bit. One thing that I don't have down is that I feel somewhat awkward when I walk into a bar or club alone.
Roosh's article talked about the importance of finding a spot. The issue with the bars here is that they are crowded as fuck! Most of the bars are all in the same street, and on Fridays/Saturdays, they're full.
I prefer to roll solo as I don't have many red pill friends here. A few are some shades of purple, but not enough red, and they don't want to get laid as much as I do. Different mindsets as well. So, they would be more of a hindrance than help.
For e.g, tonight, I was out alone. I walked up and down the street with the bars. I opened two guys, they're reluctant to speak to me at first, and I begrudgingly go to a bar with them. They're decent guys, but I have a very limited time window. I don't have a bicycle and the last bus home is at 11 45. So, I leave.
At this point, a 2-set I approached didn't respond at all. I'm walking towards a bar. A girl stops me and asks something about drinks. I'm thinking she has a bottle and wants to share...turns out she wants me, a complete stranger, to pay for her drinks. Later on, I find out she and her friends are bridesmaids and it looks like they're throwing a bachelorette party. They're pretty snotty, and quite plain, so I don't give a fuck about them.
I walk into a bar, go up and down; I don't know what to do. I had spotted some girls smoking outside. I go back, say hello. They don't speak much English, but all 3 are receptive to me. Conveniently, it was the hotter two who showed more interest. They say they're going inside. So, I say "alright...c'mere give me a kiss...yeah both of you!" So, the slightly uglier but seemingly more fun one jumps up to kiss me on the cheek enthusiastically, and the other one turns in for a kiss as well, and I go for the lips. Both her and her friend are surprised, but smiling. A lady who was next to us lets out a surprised look. I left, and came back after a while, and things didn't really go anywhere, so I left again.
I also opened two other 2 sets and had some fun banter, but nothing else. The girls in the last set seemed quite into me, and one suggested I go to X club with them. If I had gone, I would've missed my bus.
So, I think I can definitely open without any problems. Same with hooking. But closing is a big issue. I never know how long I should be talking or how I know if she's so into me that she'll be DTF. I get the impression that if things are going fine, the usual way is spending **at least an hour** with the girl in question. But I get quite impatient after less than half an hour. It's like "I wanna get laid man! ...yesterday..."
Briefly: I feel a bit awkward when I go to clubs/bars alone and don't really know where to find a "spot". And I'm too impatient!
Anyway, thanks.
I've read a few threads here on rolling solo, and also Roosh's blog post on the subject. I learned quite a bit. One thing that I don't have down is that I feel somewhat awkward when I walk into a bar or club alone.
Roosh's article talked about the importance of finding a spot. The issue with the bars here is that they are crowded as fuck! Most of the bars are all in the same street, and on Fridays/Saturdays, they're full.
I prefer to roll solo as I don't have many red pill friends here. A few are some shades of purple, but not enough red, and they don't want to get laid as much as I do. Different mindsets as well. So, they would be more of a hindrance than help.
For e.g, tonight, I was out alone. I walked up and down the street with the bars. I opened two guys, they're reluctant to speak to me at first, and I begrudgingly go to a bar with them. They're decent guys, but I have a very limited time window. I don't have a bicycle and the last bus home is at 11 45. So, I leave.
At this point, a 2-set I approached didn't respond at all. I'm walking towards a bar. A girl stops me and asks something about drinks. I'm thinking she has a bottle and wants to share...turns out she wants me, a complete stranger, to pay for her drinks. Later on, I find out she and her friends are bridesmaids and it looks like they're throwing a bachelorette party. They're pretty snotty, and quite plain, so I don't give a fuck about them.
I walk into a bar, go up and down; I don't know what to do. I had spotted some girls smoking outside. I go back, say hello. They don't speak much English, but all 3 are receptive to me. Conveniently, it was the hotter two who showed more interest. They say they're going inside. So, I say "alright...c'mere give me a kiss...yeah both of you!" So, the slightly uglier but seemingly more fun one jumps up to kiss me on the cheek enthusiastically, and the other one turns in for a kiss as well, and I go for the lips. Both her and her friend are surprised, but smiling. A lady who was next to us lets out a surprised look. I left, and came back after a while, and things didn't really go anywhere, so I left again.
I also opened two other 2 sets and had some fun banter, but nothing else. The girls in the last set seemed quite into me, and one suggested I go to X club with them. If I had gone, I would've missed my bus.
So, I think I can definitely open without any problems. Same with hooking. But closing is a big issue. I never know how long I should be talking or how I know if she's so into me that she'll be DTF. I get the impression that if things are going fine, the usual way is spending **at least an hour** with the girl in question. But I get quite impatient after less than half an hour. It's like "I wanna get laid man! ...yesterday..."
Briefly: I feel a bit awkward when I go to clubs/bars alone and don't really know where to find a "spot". And I'm too impatient!
Anyway, thanks.
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