[Lex S.]

Never invest more in a woman than she's willing to invest in you. I've never bought a drink for a stranger in my entire life, and will only spend money (Sparingly) on a girl if we click and see each other more than a few times. Sometimes on the first date the girl will make no effort to reach for her purse. I'll eat the cost of the drink, but since I go for hipster girls I can always get away with taking them to a dive bar where drinks are dirt cheap.

It's a slippery slope when it comes to dating girls. If you take her to an NBA game and you get amazing seats she'll be disappointed when you just want to go out for drinks the next date. If she digs you then she won't care about your money (Although a man's resources are an aphrodisiac for women). I don't have as high a notch count as most guys, but in one year I managed to fuck 5 girls (Previous record was 2 girls over 24 years) and I never spent a dime on any of them when I got their numbers, saw IOI's, or brought them back to fuck. You can be broke and living on a friend's couch but if your game is good enough that won't be an issue.

[thegmanifesto]

(11-18-2013 10:12 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(11-18-2013 01:06 AM)cpark Wrote:  

I asked them why she was leaving suddenly. She said she needed to return to her hotel, which was bullshit. I could tell they didnt want me to be with them. Then in her broken English she said, "Ok, you go to train." I'm like, WTF? Then I got angry. I asked for her iphone and let it fall. I said, "Sorry." As I handed it back, I let it fall again all on purpose. I then flicked my finger at her face painfully. As I left, I saw her having a hard time turning her phone back on.

This part cracks me up, I had to re-read it.

What does "I then flicked my finger at her face painfully" mean?

Did you flick her in the eye or something?

Did you make contact?

Or hurt your self flicking the air?

Were you "Throwing shit on girl"?

What's the "painfully" part refer to?

Please advise.

Am I the only one who doesn't understand what "I then flicked my finger at her face painfully" means?

Is this a hipster thing?

Something Drake does?

[cpark]

(11-18-2013 10:12 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

What does "I then flicked my finger at her face painfully" mean?

Did you flick her in the eye or something?

Did you make contact?

I flicked at her upper lip which from the look on her face, looked painful. My finger felt hurt so it was painful. Seriously, I didn't want to do this but I just had to justify myself because of her rudeness.

(11-18-2013 10:16 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Korean food ain't cheap. I don't see why though. It's mostly pork and cabbage. There's nothing special about it. I've never been hungry and thought "mmmmm some Korean food would hit the spot".

I'm glad you learned your lesson.

Hey, Parlay, I did learn my lesson. It was a stupid move that won't be repeated again because next time I'll lead and not be led. But honestly, Korean food can be good.

(11-19-2013 05:43 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

You seem to want to play the victim. If you didn't want to pay for her dinner, you could've just paid for your part and she has to figure out her part. What you did is pay for it EVEN THOUGH YOU DIDN'T WANT TO and then try to continue hanging out with her. She could probably tell you didn't want to pay for her or that you were being negative and then she didn't want to hang out with you.

You were not honest with yourself and you were not honest with her. Who was being rude in this situation? Probably you. It is not what you want to hear, but once you accept the truth and accept your own mistakes, you can move forward and be a lot happier.

Ok, I don't want to argue but you made assumptions that aren't true. I'll explain. First off, no one is playing the victim. And it's got nothing to do with personal responsibility. It has to do with respect. You just don't brush someone off after that person did something nice for you.

Second, I never said I didn't want to pay for dinner. If that were true, then why did I take her out to eat? You're saying that. My gripe is with the unexpectedly high bill. After the restaurant, she was happy and grabbed my hand. So I don't think she saw that I didn't want to pay.

But the moral to the story is to not make this mistake again. I learned my lesson the hard way, which is the best way to learn from a mistake.

(11-19-2013 07:30 PM)Lex S. Wrote:  

Never invest more in a woman than she's willing to invest in you. I've never bought a drink for a stranger in my entire life, and will only spend money (Sparingly) on a girl if we click and see each other more than a few times. Sometimes on the first date the girl will make no effort to reach for her purse. I'll eat the cost of the drink, but since I go for hipster girls I can always get away with taking them to a dive bar where drinks are dirt cheap.

It's a slippery slope when it comes to dating girls. If you take her to an NBA game and you get amazing seats she'll be disappointed when you just want to go out for drinks the next date. If she digs you then she won't care about your money (Although a man's resources are an aphrodisiac for women). I don't have as high a notch count as most guys, but in one year I managed to fuck 5 girls (Previous record was 2 girls over 24 years) and I never spent a dime on any of them when I got their numbers, saw IOI's, or brought them back to fuck. You can be broke and living on a friend's couch but if your game is good enough that won't be an issue.

Hi, Lex S. You make a great point. I do however have the tendency of taking girls to a good bar on day 2 and paying for drinks which come to $25 - 30 total. But I plan on changing this by taking her out to a place where I don't have to pay for anything, just by reading everyone's replies. The thing is, its cold in NYC. And the best places to take a girl out are to these bars. If I don't buy her a drink there she'll think I'm cheap. So, maybe this is something you guys can help me with? I'd appreciate good suggestions.

[Christian McQueen]

"after the restaurant she felt sleepy and wanted to go back to her hotel which was a block away."

^Holy fuck bro, Pippin tossed it up for Jordan to dunk it. (I grew up in Chitown in the 90's)

Learn to read signals and by signals I mean "I'm sleepy and want to go to the hotel", which in Womanese = PLEASE FUCK ME NOW.

I can't get over the flicking her face either.

Can we get a video of you demonstrating this on a paper plate hanging by a string in a doorway? Just use a magic marker and draw a mouth, nose and eyes so I can get a feel for this 'move'.

[AneroidOcean]

(11-19-2013 09:13 PM)cpark Wrote:  

Ok, I don't want to argue but you made assumptions that aren't true. I'll explain. First off, no one is playing the victim. And it's got nothing to do with personal responsibility. It has to do with respect. You just don't brush someone off after that person did something nice for you.

Second, I never said I didn't want to pay for dinner. If that were true, then why did I take her out to eat? You're saying that. My gripe is with the unexpectedly high bill. After the restaurant, she was happy and grabbed my hand. So I don't think she saw that I didn't want to pay.

But the moral to the story is to not make this mistake again. I learned my lesson the hard way, which is the best way to learn from a mistake.

You're arguing pure semantics. The fact is that you didn't want to pay for dinner (at that high of a price). YOU stated "The bill came out high and I had no choice but to pay it." which is wrong. You had every choice to not pay all of it OR to take some personal responsibility for your own budget and find out what things cost before ordering there or eating there. It's a normal thing for someone to look at a menu to determine if there's food they want to eat at an establishment and that the prices are within their budget.

There is no "unexpectedly high" bill. There is lack of planning/choice and then bitterness like you somehow got screwed over. You are not learning the lesson if you're not admitting that you made multiple mistakes along the way and that stating "I had no choice" is a crock of shit and a cop out. That is straight up female hamsterbation type reasoning and you have to nip it in the bud if you want to improve.

[cpark]

(11-19-2013 10:51 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  

Learn to read signals and by signals I mean "I'm sleepy and want to go to the hotel", which in Womanese = PLEASE FUCK ME NOW.

Hey, McQueen'sPlayboyRules. Thanks for the advice. It's possible that she meant sex. But then again, I seriously don't know for sure. But being the dumb nice guy that I was unfortunately, I didn't push myself to go to her suite. Even if she had said no, it would've been balsy and that may have made her think twice about me.

(11-20-2013 01:50 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

You're arguing pure semantics. The fact is that you didn't want to pay for dinner (at that high of a price). YOU stated "The bill came out high and I had no choice but to pay it." which is wrong. You had every choice to not pay all of it OR to take some personal responsibility for your own budget and find out what things cost before ordering there or eating there. It's a normal thing for someone to look at a menu to determine if there's food they want to eat at an establishment and that the prices are within their budget.

You're being disruptive again after I told you I didn't want to fight. I come to this forum to learn, not to argue. The moderators here won't be kind to your behavior if you continue along this path.

[Lex S.]

(11-19-2013 09:13 PM)cpark Wrote:  

(11-19-2013 07:30 PM)Lex S. Wrote:  

Never invest more in a woman than she's willing to invest in you. I've never bought a drink for a stranger in my entire life, and will only spend money (Sparingly) on a girl if we click and see each other more than a few times. Sometimes on the first date the girl will make no effort to reach for her purse. I'll eat the cost of the drink, but since I go for hipster girls I can always get away with taking them to a dive bar where drinks are dirt cheap.

It's a slippery slope when it comes to dating girls. If you take her to an NBA game and you get amazing seats she'll be disappointed when you just want to go out for drinks the next date. If she digs you then she won't care about your money (Although a man's resources are an aphrodisiac for women). I don't have as high a notch count as most guys, but in one year I managed to fuck 5 girls (Previous record was 2 girls over 24 years) and I never spent a dime on any of them when I got their numbers, saw IOI's, or brought them back to fuck. You can be broke and living on a friend's couch but if your game is good enough that won't be an issue.

Hi, Lex S. You make a great point. I do however have the tendency of taking girls to a good bar on day 2 and paying for drinks which come to $25 - 30 total. But I plan on changing this by taking her out to a place where I don't have to pay for anything, just by reading everyone's replies. The thing is, its cold in NYC. And the best places to take a girl out are to these bars. If I don't buy her a drink there she'll think I'm cheap. So, maybe this is something you guys can help me with? I'd appreciate good suggestions.

I live in NYC, too, and I do agree about there not being much fun stuff to do that's free in the winter (The summer is better for this kind of thing). In situations like this I prefer the Tom Leykis rule of thumb - Spend no more than $40 on a date. Ask her when she's having dinner on such-and-such a night. When she responds say "Awesome, so let's get drinks afterwards, meet me at XXXXX at X-o-clock." And since there are tons of good areas to party in NYC chances are there's one close to you - Pick some place close, so that way if you seal the deal you can get home without any hassle.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

(11-19-2013 09:06 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(11-18-2013 10:12 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(11-18-2013 01:06 AM)cpark Wrote:  

I asked them why she was leaving suddenly. She said she needed to return to her hotel, which was bullshit. I could tell they didnt want me to be with them. Then in her broken English she said, "Ok, you go to train." I'm like, WTF? Then I got angry. I asked for her iphone and let it fall. I said, "Sorry." As I handed it back, I let it fall again all on purpose. I then flicked my finger at her face painfully. As I left, I saw her having a hard time turning her phone back on.

This part cracks me up, I had to re-read it.

What does "I then flicked my finger at her face painfully" mean?

Did you flick her in the eye or something?

Did you make contact?

Or hurt your self flicking the air?

Were you "Throwing shit on girl"?

What's the "painfully" part refer to?

Please advise.

Am I the only one who doesn't understand what "I then flicked my finger at her face painfully" means?

Is this a hipster thing?

Something Drake does?

Stop, you're killing me

I was also wondering what the fuck that meant. I had the impression of a fingernail leaving the OP's finger like on a railgun. Now that we have the description, it really seems like something one would only do to a girl because a guy would counter with a punch.

Oh well, lessons were learned, all is good. Best of luck to cpark with future endeavours.

[eradicator]

I am guessing he got banned for punching her in the face and smashing her iphone?

[thegmanifesto]

(11-21-2013 06:38 PM)master_thespian Wrote:  

I am guessing he got banned for punching her in the face and smashing her iphone?

He didn't punch her.

I think it was a "painful flick".

I hate when these guys get banned.

For the rest of my life I will be wondering what a "painful flick" is.

[Brodiaga]

(11-16-2013 03:35 PM)Brodiaga Wrote:  

I also made a stupid mistake this week. Picked up an Asian chick at a bar - a few years older than me, but good body. Wanted to bounce her to a bar near my place or go straight to my place. The bar was a short taxi ride to my place or abt 20 min walk. She had her car parked near the bar and decided to drive and park near my place. I didn't insist on taking a taxi. On the way she stopped at a gas station, and I was drunk/stupid enough to chip in for gas - just gave her $20. She's unemployed, so I though what the hell (I know, it was stupid). Anyway, we're looking for a parking spot and driving around in circles around my block. No fucking spot anywhere near, nothing on the next block either.

After a few minutes the chick pulls over and says, it was nice to meet you. You've got my number, so call me and let's meet again. I just got out of the car - not much else I could do in that situation. Lack of parking cockblocked me. Next morning woke up sober and thought - fuck you bitch, I'm not calling you. Too old, too money hungry, so fuck off.

Here's the end of this story.

I didn't call her that time because I was kind of pissed off, then lost her number which she had given me me on a piece of paper, then found it yesterday by accident and texted her. She said she remembers me, that I'm the cute Russian guy. I'm like wow, it's on, and arrange to meet up with her on Saturday.

Today, she texts me again and asks to send my pic, so I do that and ask her to send hers. When I get the pick, I'm like WTF! What's been seen can't be unseen. She is not skinny, she seems to have no fucking fat or muscles at all. It's clearly some kind of disease - muscular dystrophy or something. All the body builders out there trying to reduce their body fat % to low single digits, it's like top that motherfuckers!

Of course I text her back and tell her that I'm not interested in meeting and cancel the date. The bigger question is this: how the fuck did I find her bangable a few months back? Why the fuck did it occur to me to bounce out of the bar with her and invite her to another bar with the intention of bringing her to my place after that?

Well, first of all, it was almost winter and we were wearing coats. She never took off hers as far as I remember. But her neck and even face look odd in the picture too because of the low body fat! How the fuck didn't I notice that when I saw her in person? Well, that must have been the vodka. 5 stiff drinks by the time I saw her at the bar if I remember correctly.

So, the moral of the story is: not all that cockblocks you is your enemy. Sometimes it's for your own good. Another one is that drinking too much is bad, but that one I already know, easier said than done.

[Engineer]

(09-05-2014 11:23 PM)Brodiaga Wrote:  

(11-16-2013 03:35 PM)Brodiaga Wrote:  

I also made a stupid mistake this week. Picked up an Asian chick at a bar - a few years older than me, but good body.

(snip)

Here's the end of this story.

I didn't call her that time because I was kind of pissed off, then lost her number which she had given me me on a piece of paper, then found it yesterday by accident and texted her. She said she remembers me, that I'm the cute Russian guy. I'm like wow, it's on, and arrange to meet up with her on Saturday.

Today, she texts me again and asks to send my pic, so I do that and ask her to send hers. When I get the pick, I'm like WTF! What's been seen can't be unseen. She is not skinny, she seems to have no fucking fat or muscles at all. It's clearly some kind of disease - muscular dystrophy or something. All the body builders out there trying to reduce their body fat % to low single digits, it's like top that motherfuckers!

Of course I text her back and tell her that I'm not interested in meeting and cancel the date.

(snip)

Funny!

Brodiaga, this is a golden opportunity you must not waste! Take one for the team and get a DNA sample from her. Do whatever it takes, because you may have the cure for land whale-itis in hand. Get her sample to a lab, we'll tone it down to the right intensity, and then add it to the chemtrails mix. Mwahahaha!