http://www.salon.com/2013/11/14/the_sexu...e_dudebro/
Bastion of progressivism/hamster ranch salon.com on how young guys think about sex.
This article is a collection of BS and incoherent hamsterbation like I've never seen before.
FTA:
And men can be equally terrified of it. That real sex — with an actual person! — would be intimidating to young guys who may have only been exposed to it through porn seems like common sense, but men’s feelings of vulnerability or inadequacy are almost entirely absent from the popular discourse. And since the culture is mostly silent on men’s lack of sexual education, so, too, are plenty of men.
JNF: Guys scared of sex? Serious narcissism if true.
FTA:
“We just assume that pleasure is part of it for them, but in fact they are often trying so hard. One student said to me years ago that when he has sex there is a recorder playing on repeat in his mind that says, ‘Don’t cum too soon, don’t cum too soon, don’t cum too soon.’”
JNF: Define too soon. I was ready.
FTA:
Ejaculation doesn’t always mean pleasure, Herbenick was quick to add. All men may not feel this performance anxiety, but plenty do. And talking about it can act as an important counter-narrative to the idea that guys don’t have emotional needs or don’t want to give pleasure during sex — even casual sex.
‘Your feelings can be part of that physical satisfaction. It isn’t just about ejaculation.’”
JNF: It isn't about ejaculation? Tell that to Peter North. Tell it to the girls who laugh when they get a huge load shot on them.
FTA:
“In my dream scenario the definition of sex that happens during hookups would be really broad, and I would love to see a situation where people are really asking each other, ‘What gives you the most pleasure?’,” Neustifter said. I suspect a lot of folks” — yes, even the dudebro — “really fantasize about that.”
JNF: What about your fantasies, RVF Dudebros? Here's mine:
The two hookers from the movie Full Metal Jacket are arguing over who can love Jim Norton Fan longer time. I pleasure both of them but deny them my essence, saving it for the sniper at the end of the movie. At no time during the encounter does anyone ask "What gives you the most pleasure?" You know why? Because we can tell because we're good at it. I'm good at it and so are they. I tell them and they ask me politely and it happens the way it should happen with a real man and real women.
Bastion of progressivism/hamster ranch salon.com on how young guys think about sex.
This article is a collection of BS and incoherent hamsterbation like I've never seen before.
FTA:
And men can be equally terrified of it. That real sex — with an actual person! — would be intimidating to young guys who may have only been exposed to it through porn seems like common sense, but men’s feelings of vulnerability or inadequacy are almost entirely absent from the popular discourse. And since the culture is mostly silent on men’s lack of sexual education, so, too, are plenty of men.
JNF: Guys scared of sex? Serious narcissism if true.
FTA:
“We just assume that pleasure is part of it for them, but in fact they are often trying so hard. One student said to me years ago that when he has sex there is a recorder playing on repeat in his mind that says, ‘Don’t cum too soon, don’t cum too soon, don’t cum too soon.’”
JNF: Define too soon. I was ready.
FTA:
Ejaculation doesn’t always mean pleasure, Herbenick was quick to add. All men may not feel this performance anxiety, but plenty do. And talking about it can act as an important counter-narrative to the idea that guys don’t have emotional needs or don’t want to give pleasure during sex — even casual sex.
‘Your feelings can be part of that physical satisfaction. It isn’t just about ejaculation.’”
JNF: It isn't about ejaculation? Tell that to Peter North. Tell it to the girls who laugh when they get a huge load shot on them.
FTA:
“In my dream scenario the definition of sex that happens during hookups would be really broad, and I would love to see a situation where people are really asking each other, ‘What gives you the most pleasure?’,” Neustifter said. I suspect a lot of folks” — yes, even the dudebro — “really fantasize about that.”
JNF: What about your fantasies, RVF Dudebros? Here's mine:
The two hookers from the movie Full Metal Jacket are arguing over who can love Jim Norton Fan longer time. I pleasure both of them but deny them my essence, saving it for the sniper at the end of the movie. At no time during the encounter does anyone ask "What gives you the most pleasure?" You know why? Because we can tell because we're good at it. I'm good at it and so are they. I tell them and they ask me politely and it happens the way it should happen with a real man and real women.
