[WestCoast]

The same answer.

"Who cares"

Funny story one girl i was seeing for about 3 months tried to insult me after we broke it off (she wanted exclusivity)

Her: Btw you fuckin suck in bed and I never came I was faking it!
Me: thanks for the performance.
Her: blah blah

I never contact her again and of course she starts sending naked photos haha. Note: this was during my hating women phase a few years ago, I would never do this or recommend that to anyone again.

[soup]

Does this poll count the girls who secretly masturbate to fantasies of you?

[Screwston]

Haha yeah girls always say you have a baby dick and suck in bed when the relationship ends.

Im convinced that girls dont care that much as long as youre rough and dirty as hell. Fucking her like Nacho Vidal instantly adds 3 inches in her mind on top of great sex thatv99% of guys dont do.

[Player_1337]

75% approximately. Fingering is my speciality.

[HonantheBarbarian]

I don't think fingering or cunnilingus counts.

Honestly anyone should be able to pull off an orgasm with those two, its making a girl orgasm through penetration where the real challenge lies. And that's where I find it the most difficult to be honest.

[soup]

Haha baby dick

[Icarus]

(11-17-2013 03:31 PM)soup Wrote:  

Haha baby dick

You mean 20 inches long, 8 pounds heavy?

[CaliforniaSupreme]

(11-17-2013 03:33 PM)Icarus Wrote:  

(11-17-2013 03:31 PM)soup Wrote:  

Haha baby dick

You mean 20 inches long, 8 pounds heavy?

You might as well have a jackhammer as a dick, because that'll kill a girl.

[Arg expert]

According to this video, to make them climax, have them... read semi-intellectual books!

and Asian women, too!

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

They have vibrators in their pussies under the table.

(11-17-2013 01:54 PM)AfgScarface Wrote:  

I don't think fingering or cunnilingus counts.

Honestly anyone should be able to pull off an orgasm with those two, its making a girl orgasm through penetration where the real challenge lies. And that's where I find it the most difficult to be honest.

Maybe so, but you'd be surprised at how many guys are clueless. They treat the clit as if it were a doorbell, rub their nose in the vulva like a dog, and whatever shit girls laugh about later. I think it's a question of empathy and patience. If a guy is very thirsty (i.e. doesn't get to see a pussy often) and is overconfident, it is quite likely that he will engage in one of the above-described behaviors.

Plus, some (or many?) girls might be completely incapable of orgasming just from vaginal pounding, no matter how skilled or big you are.

[Mon]

(11-13-2013 01:43 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

Every woman will orgasm when you display proper alpha dominance in the bedroom. They are hard wired to be submissive during sex. Even after being brainwashed by the feminist camp, beat the brakes off it and she'll follow you around like a puppy the next day. You won't "own" a woman until you do this. I've tamed plenty of 'independant', 'head strong' women over the years in just one night of sex.

Women who haven't achieved climax were either sexually abused or have only been with weak beta males, which I'm starting to believe accounts for 90% of the population now.

I couldn't agree more. And if/when you get her to have her first squirting orgasm, she offers herself up as your property.
Bitch'll be looking for you, in broad daylight, with a flashlight.

[aphelion]

^--- cosigned.

My current girl is blowing off multiple times in a night. I'm afraid she's going to follow me all the way to Poland.

[horn]

(11-18-2013 03:33 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

They have vibrators in their pussies under the table.

(11-17-2013 01:54 PM)AfgScarface Wrote:  

I don't think fingering or cunnilingus counts.

Honestly anyone should be able to pull off an orgasm with those two, its making a girl orgasm through penetration where the real challenge lies. And that's where I find it the most difficult to be honest.

Maybe so, but you'd be surprised at how many guys are clueless. They treat the clit as if it were a doorbell, rub their nose in the vulva like a dog, and whatever shit girls laugh about later. I think it's a question of empathy and patience. If a guy is very thirsty (i.e. doesn't get to see a pussy often) and is overconfident, it is quite likely that he will engage in one of the above-described behaviors.

Plus, some (or many?) girls might be completely incapable of orgasming just from vaginal pounding, no matter how skilled or big you are.

some girls are clit girls, others are vaginal penetration/G-spot girls for orgasm, just ask which one she is, or do both. No worries.

[Floss]

A few months ago, I was having sex with this girl for a few months. I'm fucking her and she's into it, and I start rubbing her clit with my thumb as I stroke away. And she says, "I'll rub my own clit if I want to!"

I didn't know what to make of it, so I kept going. She tried to stop me, so I held her hands down with my arm. Felt like the thing to do at the time.

What do I make of this?

[BigDave]

(11-30-2013 07:16 PM)Floss Wrote:  

What do I make of this?

Focus on your own pleasure and not hers. For most women that's what they want anyways. I even straight up had a Russian girl tell me this once, as in their culture I think they find it kind of odd for a man to ask a woman during sex what feels good, what doesn't. I stopped doing that after dating her.

I mean particularly during penetrative sex just do whatever keeps you hard and brings you to busting inside her. Try to get to that point if you find you have to masturbate or have her blow you to a finish. Just manhandle her into whatever position gets you off the best. I also advocate going down a woman to open them up and get them in the mood. Personally I don't like any words exchanged from beginning to end of coitus, if I want something I just move her into that position, grab her arms, etc. If a girl asked me not to rub her clit but I wanted to continue doing it, I would. That said I wouldn't be doing that in the first place, but if it somehow got me off to think about rubbing her clit, I would just ignore whatever she said.

But during sex most women just want to lose all ability to control the situation. It's one reason I've only ever done doggy-style or missionary on a first lay. Having her on top might work if you've been fucking for a long time, but for a new lay don't let her have any control.

Obviously long-term or marriage is different, but if I'm not married to a chick or seriously about to marry her, then my pleasure is all I focus on.

[eradicator]

(11-12-2013 07:02 PM)kickboxer Wrote:  

Not sure how to tell

For some women, they get extremely wet when they orgasm, like the pussy juice just starts flowing like crazy. They often tighten up, which I always notice.

For the OP, I can offer a few suggestions: find her g spot(most women have 2, on the clitoris, and at least one vaginal g spot) and concentrate on it with your tongue and fingers. When she starts to get really wet, stick your dick in her and start hammering away.

You can find the vaginal g spot pretty easily usually: stick your middle finger in her pussy so that your hand is palm up and feel around for the area that is spongy(feels a bit like a wet sponge). That is it.

A lot of the time, after having sex for the first time, a woman will ask "how do you know how to do all that?" Basically, I am just reacting to which areas on her clitoris and pussy that she responds to most and then concentrate on those areas. My question back to them is "how can most men *not* know how to do all of this?"

For the guys saying they don't care, I don't get it, I generally have my best sex when we are both really feeling it and climax at the same time. It's fucking amazing, really fucking awesome, literally.

[horn]

Dual climaxes really are amazing. The tightening, the wetness, the moaning/clawing all at the same time - it's unbeatable.

[Screwston]

So does a creamy pussy mean orgasm?

[aphelion]

(11-13-2013 06:24 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

Sometimes I like to get dragged into the bedroom and raped.

trigger warning you insensitive bastard

[Distant Light]

I hope some of the comments in here was "sarcasm" or else then, damn you guys suck as a human...

IMO, if you bang only chicks your highly attracted to then all of them will have an orgasm because you'll be so immersed and so passionate about everything your doing that she can't help herself to orgasm for you. (and will eventually start masturbating to you) When I say "attraction" I'm talking about the lust you have while walking down the street with her and urgently needing to find a room because you want to fuck ONCE AGAIN.

Honestly after the past 1.5 years, some of the sex you guys are talking about is the type of shit that I'd simply prefer staying a virgin and spending my time doing more enjoyable things in life.

[Flavius Aetius]

I have never had a one night stand--usually multi-month relationships. First time sex is a crap shoot when it comes to giving her an orgasm--all girls are different. But after 2-3 times you should know what position gets her off, etc. Current gf is pretty easy--20 mins of penetration, oral, and then slow hard thrusts missionary style while I grab her hair and kiss her.

Most difficult girl was after 3 times she still had not had an orgasm. I asked how she got off when she masturbated--she never masturbated. How can you get someone off when she does not even know herself?

One technique that usually works is oral(sucking on clit) with two fingers into her vagina rubbing her G-spot for a while, one finger in the ass--when she starts to get close--give her the dick for some hard thrusts. IF that does not work I give up.

Despite what some people tell you--orgasms matter. Once you can give it to her good you own her and she will naturally become submissive. I sometimes think of sex as more of a primitive ritual to establish and maintain male dominance, rather than just for reproduction and pleasure.

[Rotisserie]

(11-12-2013 07:02 PM)kickboxer Wrote:  

Not sure how to tell

Girls vary. The easiest I could tell was an ex whose pussy would literally contract and close around my dick/fingers.

Of course, not every girl's orgasm will be this easy to identify. But it's a simple test… during oral, have some fingers in there. If she contracts, at a rate similar to you shooting off your load in ropes, well, that orgasm was real.

(12-01-2013 03:59 PM)horn Wrote:  

Dual climaxes really are amazing.

I agree with this. It's my goal to do this at least once in a while. My recipe for this, so far confirmed with just 4 girls (as I only like doing this with LTRs), has been as follows:

I start pumping missionary, since this is my favorite position and is easy for me to cum. I get close to nutting, but stop. Then I let her go on top. I let her go until I'm close again, about 10 pumps away from shooting. Then I grab her by the ass forcefully and slam her deep, and I grind her clit on me by moving her ass. The grinding is not as pleasurable to me, so it delays my orgasm just enough. This can go on a few seconds to a minute. But often times, I'd say 75% of the time, the girl reaches the O this way… while I'm shooting inside.*

The other way, which is like a 10% success rate for me, is finding the right angle to slam deep and grind at the same time during missionary. I like this one better because I 'claim ownership,' but it's so much more difficult because I have to both time myself and find just the right spot/motion.

Never had a girl O during doggy.

*This system was developed with an LTR who claimed never to have had an orgasm with anyone else in her life (she'd been w/ 6 other dudes according to her, and I believe it). She had in fact warned me of it before we got serious, without my asking, and said that it was a source of frustration to her, and more, her previous dudes. True to her word, she never came through oral… she only came this way, grinding on me while she was on top, and only a handful of times by precisely engineered missionary smashing.

[TonySandos]

orgasm signs:
-strong sex flush on her face, neck, chest that appears after the session rather than during
-rhythmic pussy contractions on your Johnson when you're way-lay'ing + her legs closing on you + her losing ability to make noises momentarily
-quick jerky motions in succession then she relaxes and lets out an exhale/or you're not done so she act in a way that would remind you of someone being stabbed in the chest: same thing followed by some big gasps then holds onto you like she's anchoring herself
-sounds kind of hemmed up like an asthma attack then makes pain noises and/or whimpers

harder to tell from faking signs:
face dramatically shifts from strained/crosseyed/crazy to relaxed/crosseyed/crazy then "shit eating grin"
porn star style "ah... ah... aahhhhhhh's"

shame story now. I dated this really in shape, thick, gorgeous cop chick who was at least 7 years older than me so I assumed she would be a veteran in bed and know herself. the first few times she didn't cum and it was obvious. I asked her about how she enjoyed the sex and she goes into never being able to cum and thinking about seeing a therapist about it. she's fine and juicy so I keep seeing her because she made me look good and had a really warm pussy. after a few months she still doesn't ever get off and im becoming more distraught because I've never seen this before. all throughout our grudge-bangship I get to know her as a hypocritical church girl, cat-lady tendencies(the only woman I ever met that fit the criteria in real life), bitter for being cheated on and other hang ups. after getting tired of a relationship full of power plays and "woe is me" attitude I broke up with her. ironically she disrespectfully asks me in the same phonecall that I resign from the bullshit, she asks me if we can start a regular sex arrangement. for the love of everything i was left flabbergasted at the request and just hung up. either that was one lonely pretty bitch or she was too insane to openly admit that i gave her o's

[MidWest]

Sorry for bumping this thread, but I didn't really want to create a new thread on a simple question I can ask on this thread.

What does it mean when a woman says "Hurry up and come already" during sex?

Do people have this same experience with women or is it just me?

Every now and then when I'm fucking, especially with Latina girls, its not even a minute or 2 when they already want me to finish. They usually tell me "ya vente porfavor" or literally translated as "Please! cum already" as they moan with pleasure.

At first I took it as if I was hurting them or they were scared but now I'm not so sure. Any ideas? Or is it just me?

Thanks in advanced.

[void]

(06-12-2014 03:44 AM)MidWest Wrote:  

Sorry for bumping this thread, but I didn't really want to create a new thread on a simple question I can ask on this thread.

What does it mean when a woman says "Hurry up and come already" during sex?

Do people have this same experience with women or is it just me?

Every now and then when I'm fucking, especially with Latina girls, its not even a minute or 2 when they already want me to finish. They usually tell me "ya vente porfavor" or literally translated as "Please! cum already" as they moan with pleasure.

At first I took it as if I was hurting them or they were scared but now I'm not so sure. Any ideas? Or is it just me?

Thanks in advanced.

a) They want to get pregnant?
b) Ignore her talk and bang on. I don't get their bullshit talking either, usually I just continue and assert more dominance and try to get inside her head/mind while fucking, they get riled up and start to really enjoy it / orgasm / whatever.