[imjustasimpleman]

I am fairly new to the game but for some reason every time I tell a girl I miss her shit goes south. I don't get it.

For example right now ive been seeing this girl for a month and now its been couple weeks since ive seen her. She never initiates texts but when I text her she is really responsive. I now kind of want to tell her that I miss her and that we should hang out soon.

can anyone explain to me why this is such a bad thing to tell a girl?

I don't get why it kind of pushes girls away.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

It shows that you're attached to her and care about her, which in her mind means that you must not have other options (other women), which in her mind means you're not Alpha, which in her mind means that her pussy will dry up.

It's fucked up, but what can you do other than adapt and A) not tell her that you miss her and B) find girls (outside the Western world) who will appreciate being told that? Feel your pain. I've always wanted to tell women that I missed them before I learned game, and the transition period when I still wanted to say that but had to restrain myself was bad. Now I don't feel that urge anymore and all is good. I'd still tell a girl I missed her if she said it first ("me too"), though.

Conclusion: if you miss her and want to see her again, just invite her out again. Just tell her "we should hang out (on day XYZ)" and arrange something, without any pathetic shit about missing her. I don't think it's worth it to agonize about why she is like that. Just accept that she is unable to form healthy emotional attachments and treat her accordingly.

[vinman]

   

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

Oh come on! Why do I always waste my advice on people who get banned?

[Brosemite]

(11-12-2013 04:22 PM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

Oh come on! Why do I always waste my advice on people who get banned?

It was good advice...but it was an obvious troll based on his username and previous thread, lol.

[Amigoish]

(11-12-2013 07:26 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

It shows that you're attached to her and care about her, which in her mind means that you must not have other options (other women), which in her mind means you're not Alpha, which in her mind means that her pussy will dry up.

It's fucked up, but what can you do other than adapt and A) not tell her that you miss her and B) find girls (outside the Western world) who will appreciate being told that? Feel your pain. I've always wanted to tell women that I missed them before I learned game, and the transition period when I still wanted to say that but had to restrain myself was bad. Now I don't feel that urge anymore and all is good. I'd still tell a girl I missed her if she said it first ("me too"), though.

Conclusion: if you miss her and want to see her again, just invite her out again. Just tell her "we should hang out (on day XYZ)" and arrange something, without any pathetic shit about missing her. I don't think it's worth it to agonize about why she is like that. Just accept that she is unable to form healthy emotional attachments and treat her accordingly.

Good advice, bro. I've always wanted to be affectionate when I like the girl, but when I do they all start losing interest. I am still in that transition period, it's just hard for me to appear indifferent even though I like being around with one particular girl. I'm getting better at this by dating multiple women. I am starting to miss them much less.

[kinjutsu]

A tip:
If a girl ask if you miss her reply with "I miss your mouth"
Usually gets them going and thinking about sex with you