[Checkmat]

Share how you got your first notch!

Mine is a 2-part story. I was 15 and was dating a tall blonde 16-year old Wiccan girl in my high school. Her dad was a religious Christian nut.

One night we were making out at her house on the couch downstairs, and she whispered in my ear "if you had a condom I would so do you right now". Enthralled, I swore to myself to buy a box of condoms the next day.

I didn't know if I was going to see her that next day, so around noon I whacked off to some internet porn. Mind you, this is still me as a virgin so I'm watching porn and literally have no idea what a pussy feels like. It's all imagination.

She invites herself over an hour after I ejaculated and I thought "oh sweet, I can lose my virginity today." So she came over and my dad was out of the house. We go to my room and mess around on my futon. As the clothes come off and I retrieve a freshly-purchased condom, I was appalled to find my member would not operate! Despite being 15, apparently the anxiety/excitement and recent ejaculation was too much for me. I couldn't get hard!

I was so ashamed. She left that day reassuring me it was OK but I knew better. I needed to fuck her.

Fast forward a week later. It was a hot summer day during a heat wave and she invited me over because her dad was out for a while. I walked about 2 miles down the road to her house and we start making out downstairs in her kitchen. She's wearing a halter top and we're both sweaty from the unbearable humidity.

We go upstairs to a guest bedroom and continue to make out as we get our clothes off. I have a condom with me of course and amazingly with much concentration, I am able to get hard so I hurriedly slip the rubber on and try to find her vagina. She wasn't a virgin but I was so inexperienced I had trouble finding the entrance. Eventually I felt something give way and I was "in". I thrust away for a couple of minutes until I came and rolled off of her on the small twin bed.

We took a bath together for some reason (it was hot as fuck, I don't know why we took a bath) and she jerked me off in the bath tub. I ejaculated all over her (and into the bath tub we continued to lie in). All of a sudden we hear the front door slam and her dad's voice call out her name. Her eyes got huge with fear and she jumped out of the tub. I pulled the drain and grabbed a towel.

"I'm in the bathroom dad!" She shouted through the door. I heard his lumbering steps come up the old wooden stairs. I looked at the bath tub as it drained and what remained was a bunch of my jizz in clumps with pubic hair stuck to the basin. I started wiping it off in a hurry. She left the bathroom and told me to stay there. I got my clothes on and listened through the door. She eventually got him to go to the basement or something so I made my escape and bolted through her front door and down the street.

[soup]

This is a great thread for the newbie forum.

[AntiTrace]

Cmon soup, its fun to relive old memories.

Pulled a chick from the mall on valentines day, she blew her boyfriend off to hang with me. She was a cute hippy type chick, her dad was the lead singer in a very popular local reggae band.

SHe invited me to a house party a few days later. I paid some mexican dude 20 bucks to buy me two six packs. Buddy and I bounced her and a friend from the party to a secluded field away from the house.

Ended up fucking her in the field while my buddy failed with the other chick.

I was 14 I think...maybe 13.

[soup]

My first notch was when I was sixteen and I spent the summer in a mountain town in Switzerland.

I was determined to lose my virginity outside of the US.

I actually did something super ballsy at the time. I went to a restaurant and told the hot little waitress with a bob that I wanted to meet her after she got out of work for drinks.

I remember going to pick her up. She lived in an apartment on top of the restaurant. She went up there and came down with lipstick and make-up on.

She brought her friend along.

So, here's 16 old soup and these two swiss girls at a bar in a podunk town. We are all talking and having drinks. Eventually, one of the girls asks me how old I am.

I tell them I'm a junior.

They say ok. Then they talk for a bit in French.

Then say:

"You are a junior in ... ?"

I told them "highschool"



Should have just said "university" and my first bang would have been a threesome.

They start laughing and talking to each other in French.

I just assumed it was over. We go outside, and I had the bartender take a picture of me with these two girls. It's still in my parent's house somewhere. I was dressed like a maniac.

Then one of the girls asks me what I was up to or where I lived.

I told her I was going to go home.

ARGH! I can't believe I did this. Supreme rookie mistake.

So, I didn't bang those girls.


But, I soon after met a little blond Swiss girl and banged her in her house. She was my age, and we had to hide me under her sheets because her dad would come in and check on her while she was sleeping every morning.

She didn't believe I was virgin! And she told me she loved me. I just layed there and was stone cold with silence.

I would hang at their house for dinner and have fondue. I shit you not that her dad actually worked at a watch factory and she would bring me chocolate for lunch. Lindt Chocolate.

I totally got oneitis and was even thinking about ditching my passport because I didn't want to go back to NYC.

This was back in the mid-1990s before I knew what game was. I was the first of my high school friends to lose my virginity. I guess I've had the killer instinct all along.

Since then I've banged somewhere over 100 girls, almost all of them after I joined this forum a couple years ago.

[MustardTiger]

I joined a band and our female singer had a friend that came to my first show. Her friend stood in front of me the whole show, and afterwards blew me in her car. We banged after our next show about a week later. She was kind of big, but had a cute face and was pretty good in bed. Sadly I was 23 or 24 and had absolutely NO game whatsoever. She was also the first girl I ever made out with, which is pretty pathetic. Once she realized my lack of game and uber-betaness, we "broke up" about 2 weeks later.

In the 10 years since then, my game has gotten a little better, but I still haven't harnessed the power of band-game. I did have a girl last year come up to me after a show and tell me I made her pussy wet, but that's it as far as nailing chicks after shows. Looking back, I had some pretty good opportunities of girls approaching after shows but I had no game at the time, and unless she's in total slut mode (like the girl last year) you still need some game to get the bang after a show. I think if I had read something like "Bang" back in 2003 I could have killed it for the 2 years we were around. I'm still in a band now but sadly most of the audience are the other bands and their girlfriends.

[horn]

I was 16 and one of the neighborhood girls - 18, tall, pretty & very sultry, was somewhat well-known for taking the V-cards of all her brothers' friends. We were all sitting around getting drunk that summer, and she grabbed me and took me into the laundry room to start. Heavy makeout and petting inside, then upstairs to her bedroom. I had no idea what I was doing, but she sure did.

And ever since then, 'her look' has been 'my type' like 80% of the time. Doubt it is a coincidence.

[YaManBT]

I had recently turned 18, and was soon to graduate high school.

I went to an all-boys prep school, so I had to meet bitches in other ways. One of the main tools I used was blackplanet.com. This was before myspace, so blackplanet was the shit. I talked to a lot of girls in high school, but I was such a beta simp that I got in my own way of getting laid.

Anyway, I had this chick from bp who agreed to meet up and let me smash. Now, this scenario had been set up several times before with other broads, and they always flaked. This time was different. The plan was to pick her up after school, and bring her to my crib. I forget what the circumstances were, but my mom must have either had to work late that day or go to church for something. Anyway, the plan was in place. I went to school that day, and had an awesome day. It was a beautiful May day outside. I told one of the homies, I was about to get some pussy after school, but in my mind I was still uncertain.

My school day was over, and it was time to set the plan in motion. IIRC, I picked her up from her school. Now, I know logistics are terrible for any high school kid, but my logistics were atrocious. Not only did I go to an all-boys school, but my school was in a different town than where I lived, and many of the girls I met were in different towns all together. Also, my mom was super overprotective. Anyway, now the bp chick was in my car on the way back to my house. Phase 1: complete.

I don't even remember the drive, or what we talked about, but I know it must have seemed like forever. Next, we are at my crib. When I was in high school, I had turned my mom's guestroom into somewhat of a music studio. This room was also a perfect place to bring a chick, because it was downstairs in the basement, so in case of emergency, I could hide the bitch and then sneak her out at the first opportunity. Anyway, the chick is there in my studio room. I went upstairs to my bedroom to grab a condom. I came downstairs, and showed it to her. She was still down. I think I went to the bathroom to take a piss first. Around this time I am thinking, "wow, this is really about to happen." I get back into the studio room, and I sat down next to her on the bed and grabbed the condom. I asked her to strip for me, and she did. Yessir.

There was minimal to no foreplay. She just bent over, and I took my pants off, rolled on the condom, and entered her. I busted in no time, but I was still vigorously thrusting, trying to sustain my boner. This effort was ultimately futile. It was an extremely clumsy performance, but hey, that's how most of us get initiated. From what I can remember, we both got dressed pretty soon thereafter. Threw the condom in the toilet, and I took her home to the housing projects where she lived. IIRC, there was an awkward meeting with her mom.

Anyway, I was elated. I was able to get laid before getting out of high school, and I could (and did) tell my homie at school that I fucked this girl. That night I jacked off thinking about the sex session I had just had. Good times.

[pitt]

I was 15.

Me and my best friend used to go to central london every weekend and approach girls. I literally used to kiss 3 to 5 new girls every weekend while we were hanging around there but i never banged none of these girls. One time, my friend pulled one chick and we took her to this hotel where we sneaked in by the back door..i was trying to fuck my friends girl while he was about to fuck her..she was like ''nah man, I am not a hoe,I am not fucking both of you, but i can call my friend and she will probably fuck you''...i was like ok kool, call her...her friend comes to the hotel..I take her to the next room..put my dick in and came..i didnt even last more than 2 seconds..she was like, lets go for the second round...started the second round and i lasted like 15 seconds..she was really annoyed. My first time was nothing special.

[Plutoman]

Mine was horrid... overall. Ugliest girl I've ever done. 17 at the time.

Girl I know has had a crush on me for a long, long time - always knew it. She was a good 40 pounds overweight, lived in a trailer home with her family, and was a single mom at 17. Gothic, emo look, etc. Me being the nice guy I was, I always tried to help her out. I wasn't interested in her (I had standards higher than that even as a total beta male). I'd hang out with her every few weeks and give her some company. She always was depressing, though, dragged on about how life sucks.

So at the time this happened I had a long distance girlfriend, who was moving to me in 3 months.. I was still a virgin but extraordinarily thirsty. Missed out on several chances, my girlfriend freaked out on me because I had gone to help this hot blonde with physics. Alone. At her house. Nope, being beta doesn't work, she doesn't try to seduce you, she just kicks you out an hour earlier than expected so she can call a dude that will screw her over. Anyways. On with the story. This other girl invited me over for Halloween, 5 years ago or so, and I said meh, I'll go, and went out and chilled. Fast forward to 2am and we've had a few drinks, her parents are asleep, everyone else is asleep... I'm horny, and she's making all these confessions about how she likes me. I just started making out with her and she was like "Are you sure?" - "Yeah, but it's just this night". So she starts blowing me, she tries to ride me but it's way awkward so I just stick it in her missionary style. Took just a minute or so. Was totally done at that point, she wanted to go again, but I was like no, gotta get cleaned up, so we went to the bathroom. Her body looked a lot better in the dark. Got that outta the way.

Then I left and never spoke to her again, and the next girl I fucked was my girlfriend who arrived a few months later.

[Valhalla]

So it looks mostly everyone here got their first notch early.

Anyone here got it late?

[teh_skeeze]

I was 15, she was 16.

I was at my grandfather's house for the summer (long story). I met this kid whose grandparents lived across the street. I met his cousin (female obviously) who lived around the corner. After about a week she admits that she likes me. We hung out just about everyday that summer and I finally stuck it in towards the end of my stay. When I say stuck it in, I literally mean that. I popped the cherry and she got uncomfortable and we stopped. There was blood, so I'm counting it.

I went to my dad's house once the school year started. It was my first year at that high school, but I wasn't a stranger as I went to elementary school with a lot of them. There was this chick who I liked and I thought she liked me. So I broke up with the first bang, and missed the branch with the second. I didn't get laid again until I was almost 19. I don't know what's worse, not getting laid until you are twenty, or getting it once or twice and not getting it again for almost 4 years.

[NYJ]

I got mine at 21, so yeah I was definitely late. People from Jersey will know what areas I'm talking about in my story.

It was a Tuesday night here at the shore during the winter(ie most places on a weekday are dead). I was going to Belmar to meet up at a spot with some girl I had been talking to ( who I would eventually end up fucking 3 days later). I get out to the spot and within a few minutes see the girl I was supposed to meet up with talking to another dude all alone. Being new to the game still I was like wtf and felt kinda dejected but I told myself to continue on. Walking to the back to meet my friends I see this older lady giving me the googly eyes. Just flat out staring at me. She was ok looking in the face but was chubby with some decent tits. In quest of my 1st notch I thought why not and approached her with the best stuff I had at the time.

She ate it up and within a few minutes she and I were grinding. I turned her around leaned in and we started making out, things were getting hot and heavy real fast. After going over to the bar to get drinks(which I didn't pay for) she hints at leaving by asking me how I got there. I told her I drove myself and I asked where she lived. She said some place in 30 mins south (Ortley Beach for my Jerseyans.) So I said sure and we along with her niece who had to be 300 lbs head out to my car. Up until this point I forgotten that my tank was almost on E. After realizing the situation I quickly got nervous and started saying to myself "Of course god is trying to intervene in this matter". So I did what I thought that every man would do in this situation to try to relax themself and I told her to whip her tits out.

To my amazement she actually complied and whipped them out on the spot. So here I am with a women right next to me with her tits out and her sleeping niece in the back as I'm driving down Route 35. How no cop saw what was going on that night as that route is littered with them usually at night is beyond me.Miraculously, I get down to her place and sneak off into her room and do it twice with another time in the morning. Surprisingly I lasted over 15 mins each time. I even remembered the advice I once found on the internet saying that "The hole is lower than you think" I went and got gas the next morning and determined from how the gauge moved that I probably only would had last another minute or so longer at best. And that my story. The best part was me fucking the other girl 3 days later which could had been the night after had a buddy of mine wouldn't had insisted I drive him home. 2 lays in 1 week after going the previous 1122 weeks without any. Whenever I feel down in the game or find myself in a dry spell I remember that week and I instantly snap out of whatever funk I'm in.

[Sombro]

Just graduated high school.

Early at a party I was playing a gig at, some chick wanted to make a run to the liquor store. Before going back we parked in front of her house and just did it there in the front seat of one of these:



Almost missed the gig.

P.S. No, she didn't look like Mrs. Brady. She was about a 6 or 6.5 though.

[DLZ]

You know how most tract housing has little "alleyways" between houses that lead to the backyard? There's usually the power meter there, sometime's it's fenced in, sometimes the ground is covered with red pebbles, sometimes it's grassy...

I got my first notch in one of those little pathways -- to a girl who had quite the reputation at my school. I was 13 and she was 14. (Was this beta?). It was late at night and she invited me over to fuck pretty much, but her parents got home before I got there. I don't even remember how I talked her into it (or maybe she did the talking) but we ended up making out against the side of her house. One thing leads to another and she's on top of me. Probably rode me for a good 10-15 minutes before I pulled out and she swallowed everything.

[Checkmat]

You lasted 15 minutes your first time? Impressive...Most impressive.

[Teddykgb]

I was 17 and on a teen Spanish surf camp in Costa Rica that my parents had sent me on. It consisted of about 40 kids from the usa aged 14-17.

Anyway these kids were party animals doing coke and getting totally drunk and I was just an innocent 17 year old in shock and awe. Anyway this other 17 year girl apparently was into me and told some of my new friends that she wanted to hang out with me so later that night we were hanging out with some other people and she started sitting next to me and talking to me. One thing led to another and she said "You should come back to my room." and I was like "Ok what are we going to do?" and she was like "I don't know you tell me."

We went up to her room and I smashed for all of about 3 minutes and then we took a shower together.

I didn't talk to her for the next 2 weeks while on the trip but as the bus pulled away when they were picking us up when it was time to head back to the USA we exchanged little waves as her bus pulled away.

The only things I can remember about her was her name was Alex and she was from Virginia and she liked the color green and Italian food.

[scotian]

Mine was kind of similar to Soup's, I was 16 and at a summer camp in Normandy, France, I banged a Finnish girl on a football field, drunk as fuck on the rum. That was a pivotal moment in my life, I lived for a year there and decided I like foreign women way more than Canadian ones, I've been chasing foreign tail around the world since.

[Col. Tigh]

Had turned 16 years old a month prior, and attained my driver's license and a set of wheels. Went to a science-and-tech magnet school in Northern Virginia, full of geeks and horny bisexual girls. Started giving this skinny dirty blond 15-year-old girl a ride home each day. She suggested that I could "hang out" with her watching TV and eating Domino's pizza on her father's dime after school. Tickling contests on her futon in front of her TV turned into boob-feels and, eventually, I suggested having sex--which she eagerly accepted. Raw-dogged her once a night for the next forty nights until I grew bored of her and moved on to an Asian chick. Once her father (in the next room) nearly caught us; looking back, I'm sure he realized what we were doing, but for some reason he didn't kill me with an axe.

For the record, I'd have killed me with an axe if I were her father.

[Blaze Frazier]

I was a junior in college and had been dating this chick for a while. Hung out in my dorm room one night playing strip Mario Kart 64 and one thing led to another.

[Brez]

My buddy splashed out for a hooker when i was 16. She was a fat mess

[Avarence]

I, too, was late. 18.

After my friend's graduation party, I gave some Asian girl a ride home. Got the number though, and ended up picking her back up, making out in the car, and eventually banging her in my basement - with my extended family staying overnight upstairs and my friend passed out from too much weed on the couch. I was relatively good for 0 notches back then, just social anxiety... it was like an on/off switch.

Took about four hours from meet to bang. Got head from her once again months later.

[Baldwin81]

Background:

I’m a freshman at a big state school. Prior to college I went to an all-boys high school (PS: Never send your kids to single-sex school). I took my decision to go to this university late and, instead of the dorms, lived in an on-campus apartment with three seniors who were all in the same fraternity. Normally kids who stay on campus for all four years are either huge dorks or big-man-on-campus athletes, but these guys were like the character Stiffler from American Pie: former high school athletes that couldn’t play D-1, but still had that ex-football player confidence.

I was decent-looking and in good shape, but nervous around girls due in large part to a lack of exposure. Still, I could hold my own verbally with these guys who seemed like grown ass men to me. We got along and they took me on as a little brother of sorts.

We (read: my roommates) threw some rockin’ parties at our apartment. We’d have multiple kegs, herb, music, dancing, and, last but not least, good looking girls. Shooting fish in a barrel, as it were, and despite my lack of game I got a blower in the first month of school.

Story:

A couple months into the year we threw a big bash. One of my roommates befriended a local vagrant and - compensating him for his time with beer and herb - we rented the gentleman a tuxedo. The vagrant served as a greeter/crowd control.

Unfortunately, an hour-or-so into the party this guy was faded (surprise, surprise) and the place got crowded. Some girl passed out in front of our door, someone called an ambulance, and then the campus cops showed up.

Since it was the campus cops and not the real cops, all the judicial proceedings were handled at the school. The night of our hearing, one of the girls had to recuse herself because we were in the same class. This prompted my roommates to tease me in front of everyone about being some sort of stealth player. It was all kind of funny until the sentences were handed down. Everyone received community service or probation except for me. Odd, I thought, until a couple days later I got an IM from one of the girls I didn’t know from this “jury of my peers.”

Now on this jury there were two girls who stayed-on for the hearing. One was really fat and the other was of “black Irish”-extraction complete with tits, booty, small waist, etc. In my haste (thirst) I agreed to a meet-up at our place a couple days later.

I was terrified that it would be the fat girl. I couldn’t remember either girl’s name and this was before social media so there was no way to do any reconnaissance. A couple nights later, when she buzzed the door I was pleasantly surprised to see the black Irish, non-fat waiting outside. Fortunately, my roommates were at a chapter meeting for their fraternity and I asked if she wanted to smoke a joint, or was she really a straight-laced student juror?

We smoked. We went back to my room and things got hot and heavy until….

No condom.

Surprisingly (at least, surprising to me back then), she said we didn’t need to use one. I wasn’t having that and I knew my roommate kept a stash in his drawer. He’d mentioned as much before one of our parties if I was ever in need. So I left, found a rubber, and came back. I don’t quite remember how long I lasted, but thanks to the herb it was longer than five seconds (probably more like 10). Afterwards we were giggly stoned, talking, and then I made some excuse to get her to leave.

On her way out, we ran into the roommates coming home. “Ooooh, I see how you got out of community service,” they said. She turned red and beat a hasty retreat. After she left I told my roommates I’d never seen her until the night of our hearing and that she’d IMed me. Responses ranged from, “You little fucker,” to, “Sleeping with the enemy,” to, “Good for you man…”

Before the end of the night, I told my roommate that I took a rubber from his drawer. “The top drawer?” he asked.

I nodded.

“Oh damn, those condoms are old as hell, I used like one from the pack but hated them. I knew I should’ve thrown those out. I’m gonna throw them out now. I use the ones in the bottom drawer. Shit bro, you didn’t pull out, did you?”

Me, terrified, “No.”

“Ouch, you might be alright, but I’d have her take a pregnancy test.”

Before the end of the night I took to IM to tell her the news. She said something to the effect of we’ll have to see and that if she’s pregnant that the decision hers to make. Damn, damn, damn!

I waited in a tortured state for the next few days. I made plans for her to come over and take the pregnancy test at my place on a Sunday when my roommates were at a football game. She took the test and the results came back negative. By this time I’d procured my own condoms. We smoked and banged again to celebrate.

My roommates returned later that evening. The girl was gone and I told them the good news. I’ll never forget them all looking at each other for a moment and busting out laughing. The roommate with the top-drawer condoms said, “Yeah man, those condoms weren’t old. I just wanted to mess with you since you got out of trouble and banged one of the jurors.”

I wasn’t even mad, just glad that I didn’t get her pregnant. That last sentence, for different reasons, has remained a theme throughout my adult life.

[AneroidOcean]

TL;DR (at the bottom)

A quick rundown of my situation is here on my blog if you want to know more, the below includes my first gf and my 2nd gf (who I actually had "sex" with):

Took me until my early/mid twenties to actually have sex. Didn't have a gf until AFTER high school (18) and because she was younger (started dating her a week before she turned 16 and it lasted better part of a couple years) we never had sex. That pretty much fell in my lap as I was completely inexperienced with asking a girl out or asking for a number.

Lots and lots of oral fun (which virgin me was in no way unhappy with...she tasted like strawberries...no joke, strawberries every time...and gave great oral). Before I had my own place I'd pick her up and we'd do date type stuff and/or just find a dark parking lot to get down in. Really, really fun, fucked that up, still probably one of the hotter girls I've dated. My only regret is that towards the end she let me slide my dick along her vag while she laid facedown on my mattress and I never stuck it in, respecting what she "said" she didn't want to do (we all know the likely reality).

Was fucked up when that girl broke up with me as she headed off to college (and ended up banging some total mental case...like bipolar suicidal fag) so it took me maybe a year to recover from that. Still with no real experience getting a girl's number or asking a girl out I ended up having my friend from high school set me up with her best friend (who went to my high school briefly so I knew her) that lived with her and her mom at the time. It was a movie night setup, fingered her that first night under the blanket after the girl who set me up and her boyfriend "went to bed."

Dated that girl for 2.5 years and finally drank for the first time and lost my virginity separately somewhere in my early to mid twenties. Took me a while to lose my virginity, a lot of blow jobs and such until I finally did it. I can't even remember if she was a virgin or not (she was pretty inexperienced) but she finally was begging for it one day so I grabbed a condom and said fuck it and got it over with. It wasn't a bad experience at all, but she wasn't really that great at it, it was more hot at the time because she was my first. I guess lots and lots of BJ's will do that to you. I've had much better sex since then, especially since she hurt her back and we couldn't really do all positions comfortably for her.

I like banging for sure, but give me a girl that wants to give me good head a lot and I'm totally fine being lazy and just sitting back and enjoying it. I am DEFINITELY not a virgin any more, and I've definitely turned down sex before, but I'm nowhere near in the upper third of even this board from what I can tell. I'm getting better and improving. Finally figuring out women and having great sex has been a WELCOME addition to my life. I wish I had started earlier as this board made me feel like the 40 year old virgin at times, but I'm fortunate to be where I am and am really enjoying learning about the true extent of my potential with women.

TL;DR - Ended up in my mid twenties only having had 2 gf's (that fell in my lap) and only losing my virginity more towards the end of that time period. Then I moved to the beach and started learning to actually ask women for phone numbers/ask women out.