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Going Indirect With Direct Delivery
10-25-2013, 02:18 PM
recently I been hearing that it doesn't matter if you go direct or indirect.
You can use some ultra indirect opener such as where is the restroom, but it'll still be direct as long as your body language was direct.
who has a lot of experience with this, and is there validity to the idea
It's worth noting that the advocates of this idea rarely ever truly go direct
, letting a girl know you want her as the opener
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Going Indirect With Direct Delivery
10-25-2013, 06:54 PM
From my perspective Direct vs. Indirect has the same effect. When I CHOOSE to interact with a girl based on the boner test or any other measurement system, I will communicate all she needs to know about my intentions with my eyes AND body language. Come across confident and strong and basically don't lose frame and she will be putty in your hands and most likely will start being flirty and silly in a sense that you should be able to pick up on and it's your game to lose from there. Smiling & laughing but also being stoic and stern has very good effects for them(roller coaster emotions) than one would imagine.
Actually had this happen with a worker @ Armani Exchange today and number pulled using very strong eye contact and in her face confidence. Had them linguini legs after 10 minutes of trying on clothes. If you "light up" for every single girl then it won't seem genuine when you really want to snag a certain girl. "Light up" for the right one and you and she will know all the intentions you're vibe is putting out.