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10-23-2013, 01:16 PM
I have a few well educated female friends, one who I have some interest in and who is an interesting, entertaining women to boot, for the most part.
But being German, this particular girl has been exposed to a couple of decades worth of female centred social conditioning.
And so, when I pointed out a few home truths to her in a recent conversation, she was having none of it, and came out with the standard feministic type responses, accusing me of being anti-women, yadda yadda, etc.
This would be water off a duck's back normally, but this chick is pretty attractive and I would not say no to a roll in the hay with her, or two rolls in the hay even.
I feel I may have damaged my chances since our recent tete-a-tete.
But who knows, perhaps it could go the other way, and now that I've challenged her, and inadvertently insulted her too, I might just have started those gina tingles.
I'm thinking the former though.
She's also a bit of a slut (she knows it but cannot face the fact and perish the thought of any man suggesting to her that she is), which is why she's perfect 'roll in the hay' material, but nightmare relationship materal
Anyone been in similar situations?
And if so, what were the outcomes? good/bad?
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10-23-2013, 01:20 PM
Quote: (10-23-2013 01:16 PM)amity Wrote:
I have a few well educated female friends, one who I have some interest in and who is an interesting, entertaining women to boot, for the most part.
But being German, this particular girl has been exposed to a couple of decades worth of female centred social conditioning.
And so, when I pointed out a few home truths to her in a recent conversation, she was having none of it, and came out with the standard feministic type responses, accusing me of being anti-women, yadda yadda, etc.
This would be water off a duck's back normally, but this chick is pretty attractive and I would not say no to a roll in the hay with her, or two rolls in the hay even.
I feel I may have damaged my chances since our recent tete-a-tete.
But who knows, perhaps it could go the other way, and now that I've challenged her, and inadvertently insulted her too, I might just have started those gina tingles.
I'm thinking the former though.
She's also a bit of a slut (she knows it but cannot face the fact and perish the thought of any man suggesting to her that she is), which is why she's perfect 'roll in the hay' material, but nightmare relationship materal
Anyone been in similar situations?
And if so, what were the outcomes? good/bad?
I would ask yourself what are you trying to achieve? if its a "roll in hay"as you stated, then are these conversations conducive to that? I think you already know the answer.
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Is it worth it to discuss/argue about the nature of women with a woman you're into?
10-23-2013, 01:25 PM
Think of a magician.
The power comes from displaying the illusion of magic, not from the technical details that enable the trick.
It's the same with game and understanding the true nature of women.
You gain nothing by sitting down and explaining a woman's true nature to her. To begin with, she won't believe you, and secondly, she will resent you for it.
You're much better off keeping this knowledge to yourself and applying it practically to control your relationship with her. Show her the magic, don't explain how you do the trick.
[size=8pt]"For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.”[/size] [size=7pt] - Romans 8:18[/size]
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10-23-2013, 01:49 PM
I'm going to assume when you say "discuss/argue" that debate is a reasonable word to describe what you mean. Women are horrible at debate, especially when it's not an abstract subject (not pertaining to them), so no, you shouldn't try to debate with them in the first place, much less if it's a woman you're into.
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10-23-2013, 01:59 PM
Its rare anyway to change the other persons mind, and also imagine if the situation was reversed and a woman told you about the "true nature of males" you'd automatically tell her she doesn't have a clue what shes on about.
So my point being theres literally no point in telling woman the "true nature of women"
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10-28-2013, 05:40 AM
As I thought, I've offended her and she's pissed with me, but not in a "go fuck yourself asshole" way
Moreso in a '"I'll show him, I'll counterchallenge him and prove he's wrong!"
To paraphrase Heartiste, her pretty lies are perishing, on the altar of reason and logic
She ain't happy, but she is intrigued....
I've dared to prick that bubble of unreality she (and almost all other women) inhabits, and that's sticking in her mind
I kind of don't care how it goes now, cos I'm in her head now, I don't think she's met a guy who's challenged her in this way before
The dance begins...
