I really only started having this problem about a year or so ago. I hit up bars or clubs twice a week to go out and be social, and to bring girls back home. However, there have been quite a few instances where girls just completely shut down on me while talking. Or, girls eye fuck me from a distance and when I approach they become ice cold and difficult to hold conversation. I sometimes ask what their deal is and they always say that I'm really intimidating. What?
Guess I have a real physical presence. I'm 6'6 235lbs and I try to wear good fitting shirts so they complement my body type. Never thought this would actually hurt my chances with women, thought it would help.
Always have a smile on my face so I try to make myself approachable and friendly, but there's still that intimidation factor. Just trying to figure out what I need to work on so this doesn't happen on such a frequent basis. This all seems like some gigantic shit test.
Any of you gents experience this? Advice would be greatly appreciated.
Guess I have a real physical presence. I'm 6'6 235lbs and I try to wear good fitting shirts so they complement my body type. Never thought this would actually hurt my chances with women, thought it would help.
Always have a smile on my face so I try to make myself approachable and friendly, but there's still that intimidation factor. Just trying to figure out what I need to work on so this doesn't happen on such a frequent basis. This all seems like some gigantic shit test.
Any of you gents experience this? Advice would be greatly appreciated.
Reporter: What keeps you awake at night?
General James "Mad Dog" Mattis: Nothing, I keep other people awake at night.
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