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AMA - Asian Dating Coaches
10-12-2013, 08:22 PM
Here is an AMA that is currently running.
http://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/1o..._anything/
It speaks for itself - Ask questions about anything you wanna know about Asia, living there, gaming the girls and whatever else.
If me somehow posting this is against the rules then please just delete it, it's before lunch time and being up/awake this early is painful.
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AMA - Asian Dating Coaches
10-15-2013, 06:30 PM
Lots of very accurate information regarding Asian culture and dating. I knew a lot of this instinctually, mostly culled from observation and talking w/locals, but these guys flesh it out well.
"Asians spend a lot of time on their appearance, so that's important. They don't have the philosophy that it's only what's on the inside that counts.
So, first off, good grooming. Secondly, they tend to take really good care of their clothes and won't go out in a raggedy shirt just because it's their favorite shirt from high school.
As for raising your dating game, you really need to get more experience with women. And you need to find people who know more than you that you can learn from.
I think having a good crew of guys to roll with that are all trying to do better is super key to your success long term. It's easy to have a bit of success and rest on your laurels until things get bad and miserable.
To get the most benefit out of your experience and hanging out with guys you can learn from though you really need to have an open mind an understand that Japanese have a different culture and a different way of thinking.
You need to be open enough to understand those things to push through the uncomfortableness of new behaviors that are optimal for dating success in Asia.
As one example, my first Japanese girlfriend and I broke up when she moved to a different city for work. We still liked each other but didn't want to do the long distance thing and once when I went to visit her she asked me straight up if I was seeing anyone else.
As a westerner who believed in honesty, I told her I was and she started crying and told me that if I really cared about her, I would have lied.
This threw my head for a loop for a long time, but now I understand why she felt that way. You'll have a lot of these kinds of moments."
WIA- For most of men, our time being masters of our own fate, kings in our own castles is short. Even those of us in the game will eventually succumb to ease of servitude rather than deal with the malaise of solitude
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AMA - Asian Dating Coaches
10-16-2013, 03:30 PM
Thanks man, we put a lot of effort into it.
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10-16-2013, 07:06 PM
I've actually met Redpole Q in Tokyo a few times. That guy does have game, on top of being one of the most Chill people I have met.
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AMA - Asian Dating Coaches
10-30-2013, 03:15 PM
Quote: (10-16-2013 07:06 PM)CJ_W Wrote:
I've actually met Redpole Q in Tokyo a few times. That guy does have game, on top of being one of the most Chill people I have met.
Haha yea, he is great at that.
When did you meet him?
I will meet him in China in a few weeks, should be fun, i'll tool him into gaming a fatty.
