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Advice on awkard silent girl
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Advice on awkard silent girl

I met this French girl. We both live abroad. Our common language is English and her English is prety below average to the point I have to repeat at least 1 sentence every 3 sentence I speak and most of the time she doesn't even understand basic words as "borrow" and I have to explain it like she is a 9 year old.

Actually I wouldn't have a problem doing this if there were no other problems. This girl is very hot and cold. One moment she is very nice and social and next moment she acts like I don't exist. I observed she is like this to everybody. When we first first met, she was very interested, asking a lot of questions and we even drank from the some beer bottle but the day after she became very shy. I think she is a virgin. She comes from a small town in France and doesn't have much experience dancing, socializing,etc. I gave her a lot of compliments but for some reason she doesn't get the hints. Any way, I got her facebook and I told her I know a good place to get food and we should go. She said ok and she even told me to show some places in town.

Now the problem is, I'm not an alpha guy myself and I get kind of self-doubting about my game when talking to her. We basically talked about everything. Where she is from, food she likes, where she likes to go, GALNUC, traveling, people she knows and much more. While she contributes to conversation she was after the first day. How do I deal with these silences? Although she has average face, I like her body and her accent. I give her 6.5. I don't want to date her, just hit it and leave.

In summary I have these questions
1. What do you talk about with a girl, if you already talked about everything? She is very silent.
2. It is very hard to read her signs. I think I made it clear I like her. I gave her compliments and said we should hang out. What is there more I can do?
3. We don't have phone numbers because we are both in foreign country. I have her on facebook. How does this facebook game work I heard about?
4. Do you think I should go on couple of "dates" with her before making my move. Or inviting her to my place directly?
5. How to deal with her?
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Advice on awkard silent girl

Sounds like too much hassle for the bang. Get her alone, get her drunk, get busy and then get out.
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Advice on awkard silent girl

1) Stop talking. She doesn't understand you. Use your body language. Sit next to her with you thighs touching hers. Put your arm around her. Look her in the eyes and kiss.

2) No, you did not make it clear. That's like the fat chick saying she likes your shoes and wants to grab a beer with you. See above to what you can do.

3) FB is simple. Message her to meet you somewhere (DO NOT ASK) and give her an incentive.

Wrong Way = "Do you want to hang out this Friday?"

Right Way= "Meet me at XOXOXO for some sick ass music and drinks. I got the first round."

4) Meet up, have fun, make an excuse to head back to your place.

"Let's watch this funny movie at my house."

5) LEAD & BE CONFIDENT IN YOUR ACTIONS AND DECISIONS. If you get a hunch to kiss her or touch her, act on those feelings. If you find yourself too nervous, just jump in the pool without a second thought.
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Advice on awkard silent girl

Quote: (09-30-2013 06:12 AM)Jeimuzu Wrote:  

Sounds like too much hassle for the bang. Get her alone, get her drunk, get busy and then get out.

Yes, probably I will get the beer she likes
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Advice on awkard silent girl

Quote: (09-30-2013 06:27 AM)Edmund Dantes Wrote:  

1) Stop talking. She doesn't understand you. Use your body language. Sit next to her with you thighs touching hers. Put your arm around her. Look her in the eyes and kiss.

2) No, you did not make it clear. That's like the fat chick saying she likes your shoes and wants to grab a beer with you. See above to what you can do.
I know how to escalate I was asking more in general sense. If you talked to a girl for 1 day, you know her story, what are good topics to talk about after second day after you already know everything about her? There are girls I can talk for days without being out of topics, but with some girls I tend to run out of conversation juice very quickly.

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3) FB is simple. Message her to meet you somewhere (DO NOT ASK) and give her an incentive.

Wrong Way = "Do you want to hang out this Friday?"

Right Way= "Meet me at XOXOXO for some sick ass music and drinks. I got the first round."
Thanks for that advice. Maybe other people can give me more pointers on facebook game?

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4) Meet up, have fun, make an excuse to head back to your place.

"Let's watch this funny movie at my house."
I don't have TV at my house but I get your point.

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5) LEAD & BE CONFIDENT IN YOUR ACTIONS AND DECISIONS. If you get a hunch to kiss her or touch her, act on those feelings. If you find yourself too nervous, just jump in the pool without a second thought.
Thanks, I'm kind of a rooky. This is the first time I'm living outside my parents house and I never invited girls to my parents house. There is also this other hot Polish girl I met. She is a solid 8.5. I don't really want to fuck this up. I don't want to escalate with the Polish girl too quick and scare her off. Probably I will first experiment with the French girl. But if I invite the Polish girl how should I approach it?(I want her for semi-long relationship because we will be in same city for just 5-6 months) Just hang out with beers and talk about stuff? How do you attach a girl to you?
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