[Hades]

Howdy RVF, I got off my ass and brought a girl home last night. I met her at the bar and thought she was a quality chick (takes care of herself, thin) but she wouldn't shut up about her exes and whatever, so I figured "pump and dump", no big deal. I don't have tons of experience with women but I know what I'm doing for the most part. She was definitely into me.

But here was the issue. Logistics are awful. I live at home in dad's basement and though my family situation is complicated we are all under the same roof. It's a big house on a large rural property (hundreds of acres) and we have all kinds of machinery and shit around.

If a girl walked around and did a mental inventory of how much shit was worth (what the hell do they know?) she'd think all that crap is worth millions of dollars. This girl I brought home last night saw my dad's heavy earthmoving equipment and I could swear she got a little wet.

Now herein lies the problem. I live in a redneck town and don't have prospects to move out for a while. People in general are dirt-poor white trash. It's like that Tariq Nasheed guy said, none of these girls here are platinum quality, they're all chickenheaded hoes.

How can I defuse this *(looking like swimming in potentially inherited money and assets) so I don't take a girl home for a one-night stand, use protection, drive her back, then she calls up her ex and raw-dogs it for a week and I get slapped with a paternity suit? I'm paranoid as hell about this shit because I know girls are 100x more devious than men.

And what happens even if I get slapped with a paternity suit? I hope you guys can help me with this so I can mitigate my anxiety about this shit. I need some suggestions or something. I dunno.

Also, is there a way to make my dad's cool demolition business an advantage?

I know I'm overanalyzing this. I've always been a little insane/territorial about my family's business and it's only somewhat recently that I've spotted women as a potential threat.

At college it was easy to be a broke ass motherfucker who dressed badly and drank too much, and didn't lead girls on into the notion that you're marriage quality, but it's not as easy here since everyone else is even more broke-ass, up to their armpits in debt and foreclosure notices and fucking Walmart jobs. Apparently doing some intermittent contract work for private/government businesses and not just doing a 9 to 5 at Jerkoffs, Inc. makes you hot shit.

[WestIndianArchie]

Just cause you're paranoid, doesn't mean you're wrong.

The over-arching solution is to tighten up your game, your hold over a chick, and your ability to stoke her fires.

1) A poor solution is to fuck chicks in motels. That may or may not be a logistical issue in a small town.

2) Alternative fuck spots, like the woods, the park, the beach, the car, = make sense if you're young as shit, not if you're older than 22.

3) So the only place you can really fuck on a regular basis and protect your interests, is HER PLACE.

Weaseling your way into her place, especially if you just met the broad the first night, is a test of your game.

So that means you've got to figure out her logistics EARLY in the evening.
- where does she live (far as fuck?)
- who does she live with (by herself? dorm? 1 roomie, roommates?, parents?)
- who did she come with (prolly with her friends)
- how did she arrive there (in her car, in their car, public transportation?)

And then you've got to plant the seeds of your bounce location, closer to where she lives, than you live.

And then after the bounce, you head back to her place.

This typically means you've got 2 cars that you've got to deal with, and there's always a fear that if she drives, the defenses will kick in, and she'll call the whole thing off.

So this is where your game is being tested.
Can you keep a chick in an eager to fuck mindset as you head back to her house for her own fucking?

In a lot of cases, you can
- suggest an after hours party at her spot
- see her home to make sure she gets there alright, and then use the bathroom, or some other weasel move

But overall you're pushing to get her to her house, and then giving her enough plausible deniability to do what needs to be done.

WIA

[OGNorCal707]

(09-29-2013 11:14 PM)Hades Wrote:  

How can I defuse this *(looking like swimming in potentially inherited money and assets) so I don't take a girl home for a one-night stand, use protection, drive her back, then she calls up her ex and raw-dogs it for a week and I get slapped with a paternity suit? I'm paranoid as hell about this shit because I know girls are 100x more devious than men.

And what happens even if I get slapped with a paternity suit? I hope you guys can help me with this so I can mitigate my anxiety about this shit. I need some suggestions or something. I dunno.

Also, is there a way to make my dad's cool demolition business an advantage?

I know I'm overanalyzing this. I've always been a little insane/territorial about my family's business and it's only somewhat recently that I've spotted women as a potential threat.

I think you are overanalyzing this and a little too paranoid. It's good to be aware of potential outcomes and possibilities, but I wouldn't jump to conclusions that every random chick you bang is going to try to rob you or get pregnant.

Use your best judgment, a lot of really scandelous hoes have the tell tale signs, bunch of tats, piercings, dress like club skanks, are always at the local bar 4 nights a week, etc. Sure there are those chicks who present themselves as classy, but are truly shady, fucked up bitches, I've experienced that first hand, but usually they exhibit red flags once you've spent enough time with them.

As far as getting girls pregnant, just wrap up your tool every time, if you're that worried about it. As long as the condom doesn't break, and you don't take it off, and flush it down the toilet when you're done, there's no way you're getting a chick preggo.

Finally, like you seem to imply yourself most girls are dumb and probably will have no idea how much your Dad's "heavy machinery" and tools are worth. If you are that worried about it, try to always go back to their place as the first option, or maybe consider getting a hotel room in town wherever that may be. If you have the means why don't you try to build a cheap little one room cabin to use as your fuck spot. If not, consider something more outside the box like setting up a fat teepee, or yurt, it could be pretty cool.

[DVY]

This is a case (very selfdom) that I always lie.

If you are in a poor area, you lie and say its your uncle's house and that you work for him and pay him rent (aka b-tch dont start screaming during sex and dont get any good ideas afterwards!)

The charade will end on day 3 or 4 of banging, but thats a risk you take w/any girl. Wrap it every-time. Most girls wont get pregnant to "enslave you". Giving birth aint pleasant.

Another course of action is to imply that you are renting this spot. "Don't be screaming. I have room-mates." <--- This is what I usually do, but I live in LA.