[svenski7]

So recently I added a peacoat and riding cap to my wardrobe that I often get complimented on. It feels great getting opened by other people (man or woman) and makes meeting people easy. I even use clothing openers (Are those from Nordstrom?) so that I can get the chick into the fashion mentality -- she usually compliments me back.

Here's the newbie problem. First, I'm not good at receiving these compliments because until about two years ago, I had no clothing style and never received any compliments. What's the best way to go beyond "Thanks" to make it a set opener?

The other issue is when the clothes become a prop for the wrong people. Case in point, the drunk bitch that you wouldn't fuck with a stolen cock comes up and TAKES your hat, puts it on her head and walks around the bar for 5-10 minutes. She gave it back, she didn't talk shit and it did raise others' awareness to me in a positive way. On the other hand...I already wrote this bitch off two bars ago..."get the fuck away from me!!!"

All in all its a beautiful thing but let's talk about how I can make it better...

[aphelion]

Just say 'thanks' with a confident aura, and move on from there. I mean, that's the best way. The more you harp on it after the fact, the less used to getting complimented you are. My black blazer gets 2-3 compliments a day when I'm out, and it's got a bigass hole in the elbow.

When goofy stuff like the hat thing happens, play along like you don't care and have a good time with it.

[Capitán Peligroso]

Thank you... what do you like the most about it?

[Hades]

Confident people accept compliments without getting ruffled about it at all.

If you want to come across as confident, treat a compliment like it happens a hundred times a day from all women you come across, say thanks, and move on.

Though, being black pill confident would have you fucking sick of compliments, like a hot girl getting macked on by losers. Some girl says "Nice jacket" and you put up your "bitch shields" and go "Why the fuck does everybody say that to me? Is that all they can say? What ever happened to conversationalism? Tell me a story about life or goddamn high school. Jesus Christ, I need a drink."

If you want to alienate all "normal" women from a thousand miles and attract all the bdsm submissives who love punishment and are just plain fucked in the head, do something like this. That kind of hot chick role reversal just blows their minds.

[horn]

'Thank you.'

[WestIndianArchie]

2 compliment questions in 1 day.

Practical side

Hats are an Achilles heel.

It's usually fat/drunk/ugly chicks that want attention and will steal your attention getter, and there's very little that you can do about it. Their sense of entitlement is enough to make your blood boil. You can't put your hands on her w/o the white knight brigade and the law coming after you.

At best when she returns it to you, you can refuse it, and insult her.

But even then, you're not winning.

At best, you can have a bunch of the same cheap hat and just take it as a loss.

Back in the day when game was more about technique and tactics, a player would have props that he could give away. Costume jewelry, necklaces, bracelets, et cetera , so if the interaction was going well, but not perfectly, he could end on a different note - "When I see you again, you can give it to me".

Sometimes it would result in a bang, but most of it was for his own ego, his inner game...the attitude of abundance.

Mindset Side.

A compliment is an approach, a common, and invitation to chat with her.

What you say isn't as important as how you respond.

Everyone wants to be witty and have the perfect chess move answer for everything a girl says.

That's not the game. You will obsess over the ideal response for x number of situations you may encounter. The male hamster will spin his wheel.

Every once in a while you can dazzle a chick with your wit and intellect - but getting a "you're so smart and funny" isn't necessarily getting you closer to taking her back to the Hyundai for a little hide the salami.

What everyone expects

1) Her - "Oh I like your coat"
You - "Thanks"
interaction ends

2) Her - "Oh I like you cat"
You - "Hey baby, blah blah blah"
interaction ends

These chicks aren't rocket scientists, but they're experts of conversation because that's what they do ALL DAY. There is a pattern how people talk.

If you want to do verbal game and use your words and actions to paint pictures, to draw her emotions, you have to break her out of the pattern that she expects.

So next time a girl is loving your peacoat,

Get her to walk over to you, and tell her to feel it.

Then feel her. (start touching a chick as early as feasible! Get her used to what your warm hands feel like)

Then you take her on a journey with what you say.

"I've got a feeling about you"

Then

Maybe it's how the coat feels, and how it makes her feel.
Maybe it's a story on how you got the coat (and the story involves a girl)

That's how you turn that into an opener.
You break the pattern that she's setting up.

She's never going to expect some shit like that. Cause most of her days she spends talking to other social robots that react the same way to the same stimuli.

But her subconscious desperately wants something new, something novel, something different. Different in a way she might not be able to appreciate, or even articulate.

So many people think the game is played by what you wear, how tall you are, how much of your muscle tone shows, where you live, the kind of money you make, how many smooth lines and routines you can trot out on a moment's notice.

They think sex is about hammering a chick for 75 minutes with 14 inch dick.

It's not.

The magic is happening within her skull, with what you say, what you do, and how you make her feel.

That's why our primary weapons are our words, our touch. Our secondary weapons are movement - be it dancing, twirling her around. The alcohol if necessary and logistics when favorable - help her to act on her sexual impulses - but those aren't necessary.

A girl can drive 6 hours to see you based on what you say to her.

And that's where you play the game.

Everything else you do outside of getting into a chick's mind, that's primarily for you.
That's to make you feel comfortable.

WIA