Hi there Rooshies,
My first post as I have tried to read through the forum but couldn't find answer to my predicament.
I (35, a 5, with a good corporate job) recently moved to Singapore from Europe, and have had some success with Asian (Singaporean/Chinese/Taiwanese/Mongolian) chicks. But my success rate with European chicks is zero - and it was very low back in Europe too. So I wonder if there is something I am systematically doing wrong?
An example: I met this girl (30 yo British, nurse, an 8, an inch taller than me) who recently moved from the UK a few weeks ago in a social gathering. We exchanged numbers, and a few days later, I texted her to set up a date. She kept on refusing on pretext of being busy / new to work / new country etc, but eventually relented when I proposed a dinner at my place. She also happily brought a bottle of red.
I cooked for us past Sat, and we had a 'nice' time, but nothing physical. Forget bang, there was no kissing either. Here is a run down:
1. Comes slightly late, apologizing profusely. Dressed very sexy - short skirt
2. I show her my place; while walking around, my house-mate comes out and I introduce the two. Light interaction and he excuses himself
3. We have the three course candle-lit dinner in my balcony- which is accessed through my bed room, and finish 1.5 bottles of red wine. Things were flowing smoothly, although there was not much physical except a pat here or there. She didn't return my advances, but I kept on doing nevertheless- partially encouraged by the advice on this forum. We mainly talked about Singapore, social stuff here, travels around South East Asia along with a bit about our past and current weekend etc
4. I put on some nice Salsa music and try to pull her to dance, and she stubbornly refused. After this, I felt a distinct change in the mood. She started to talk about going home, asking for taxi etc. We then moved into the bed room to have some ice cream, but she just kept on looking at her watch. I knew the date was over then. I, probably wrongly, tried to extend by 10 odd minutes, but then just gave in.
Overall, what do you think I did wrong, and how to recover/retrieve?
BTW, haven't got any text from her yet (Sun afternoon now), so should I text / how long should I wait?
Thanks a lot!
Biker
Edit: Just got the text, in essence saying 'delicious food and great company'. I didn't text her, and haven't replied yet
My first post as I have tried to read through the forum but couldn't find answer to my predicament.
I (35, a 5, with a good corporate job) recently moved to Singapore from Europe, and have had some success with Asian (Singaporean/Chinese/Taiwanese/Mongolian) chicks. But my success rate with European chicks is zero - and it was very low back in Europe too. So I wonder if there is something I am systematically doing wrong?
An example: I met this girl (30 yo British, nurse, an 8, an inch taller than me) who recently moved from the UK a few weeks ago in a social gathering. We exchanged numbers, and a few days later, I texted her to set up a date. She kept on refusing on pretext of being busy / new to work / new country etc, but eventually relented when I proposed a dinner at my place. She also happily brought a bottle of red.
I cooked for us past Sat, and we had a 'nice' time, but nothing physical. Forget bang, there was no kissing either. Here is a run down:
1. Comes slightly late, apologizing profusely. Dressed very sexy - short skirt
2. I show her my place; while walking around, my house-mate comes out and I introduce the two. Light interaction and he excuses himself
3. We have the three course candle-lit dinner in my balcony- which is accessed through my bed room, and finish 1.5 bottles of red wine. Things were flowing smoothly, although there was not much physical except a pat here or there. She didn't return my advances, but I kept on doing nevertheless- partially encouraged by the advice on this forum. We mainly talked about Singapore, social stuff here, travels around South East Asia along with a bit about our past and current weekend etc
4. I put on some nice Salsa music and try to pull her to dance, and she stubbornly refused. After this, I felt a distinct change in the mood. She started to talk about going home, asking for taxi etc. We then moved into the bed room to have some ice cream, but she just kept on looking at her watch. I knew the date was over then. I, probably wrongly, tried to extend by 10 odd minutes, but then just gave in.
Overall, what do you think I did wrong, and how to recover/retrieve?
BTW, haven't got any text from her yet (Sun afternoon now), so should I text / how long should I wait?
Thanks a lot!
Biker
Edit: Just got the text, in essence saying 'delicious food and great company'. I didn't text her, and haven't replied yet