Hi guys, I'm a new(virgin) gamer here, and while I've read just about everything Rooshv and Heartriste have ever written, I'm at a loss as to how to apply it in a small college (1800 ppl) environment.
I had some solid game going with a banging 9 at least in the preorientation week, and all the girls loved me. And the funny thing was I enjoyed every minute of it. I felt godlike. But in the couple of weeks as I got back to campus people thought I was "mysoginistic" and I said too much shit to girls. It got pretty bad and half the people in my dorm hated me so I went back to my old blue pill social mode. I enjoyed being a dickish asshole, but perhaps I went too far. I'm still looking for the charming asshole, but well liked medium in between.
I feel like my social circle game is near nil. I can't even get a drunk hookup and I'm really frustrated. I have a group of guys that I hang with a bunch, but we don't all chill together, its more like spaced out hang times with only a couple of them at a time. And I'm not regularly surrounded by beautiful women. I hope this doesn't make it seem like I'm socially awkward or anything because I'm not. I got elected class president by introducing myself to as many random people as I could. I really need your guys's help. I feel a little bit hopeless, as my plan to be the coolest motherfucker on the campus tanked pretty quickly. Any tips/thoughts on the matter and how to regain my state? If you guys want to ask any questions to clarify things, I'll do my best to answer.
I had some solid game going with a banging 9 at least in the preorientation week, and all the girls loved me. And the funny thing was I enjoyed every minute of it. I felt godlike. But in the couple of weeks as I got back to campus people thought I was "mysoginistic" and I said too much shit to girls. It got pretty bad and half the people in my dorm hated me so I went back to my old blue pill social mode. I enjoyed being a dickish asshole, but perhaps I went too far. I'm still looking for the charming asshole, but well liked medium in between.
I feel like my social circle game is near nil. I can't even get a drunk hookup and I'm really frustrated. I have a group of guys that I hang with a bunch, but we don't all chill together, its more like spaced out hang times with only a couple of them at a time. And I'm not regularly surrounded by beautiful women. I hope this doesn't make it seem like I'm socially awkward or anything because I'm not. I got elected class president by introducing myself to as many random people as I could. I really need your guys's help. I feel a little bit hopeless, as my plan to be the coolest motherfucker on the campus tanked pretty quickly. Any tips/thoughts on the matter and how to regain my state? If you guys want to ask any questions to clarify things, I'll do my best to answer.
