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09-23-2013, 01:10 AM
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So back to the topic...
How do you maintain your alpha?
You go to a party that a married couple is hosting. The hostess is giving you signs from the beginning but since you just met the group you have told yourself you aren't going for her. Like Mayweather's shoulder roll (classic/textbook/none better) you do your own thing, but this girl is still on you...what do you do?
Alpha would say take her down, but you know that can't happen. When this occurs you revert to beta and schmooze with the crowd, be submissive, etc. In your mind you KNOW that this is easy work, but due to circumstances you won't do it...how do you maintain your alpha?
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09-23-2013, 01:30 AM
"...it's the quiet cool...it's for someone who's been through the struggle and come out on the other side smelling like money and pussy."
"put her in the taxi, put her number in the trash can"
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09-23-2013, 05:04 AM
If you have to think and make efforts towards "maintaining your alpha" you're probably not alpha yet. "Alpha" is not about evaluating and being conscious of your actions but rather being, living and acting CONFIDENT and self assured, without making any effort - just naturally.
If you're doing certain actions just to "maintain your alpha", then you're just faking it.
Game is a necessary evil
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09-23-2013, 09:04 AM
I'm talking about making a decision to not game a girl due to social situations...call it what you want, but don't act like you don't evaluate/are conscious of your actions
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09-23-2013, 03:39 PM
Well, evaluating and being conscious of your actions is one thing, but doing so for the sake of "maintaining your alpha" defeats the purpose, IMO. Perhaps the so-called "alphadom" comes with age and experience for some guys, when you learn to not give a shit about your actions and just do whatever the fuck you want to without trying to please anyone, even if it's your projection of perfection. If you're miserable/conflicted while trying to attain/maintain alpha, you might appear so to the rest of the world but in actuality you're just deceiving yourself in the worst possible way.
I really don't mean to put you down, just trying to share my perspective.
Game is a necessary evil
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09-24-2013, 11:29 AM
The word you need to learn is magnanimous.
You always act like a leader and be magnanimous.
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09-24-2013, 11:49 AM
How to be alpha:
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09-24-2013, 01:03 PM
I thought about becoming alpha before I became alpha.
Was that beta?
"...it's the quiet cool...it's for someone who's been through the struggle and come out on the other side smelling like money and pussy."
"put her in the taxi, put her number in the trash can"
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09-25-2013, 03:46 PM
Great question...
Personally, for me, the best way to maintain my "alpha" is to fight. I don't mean street fighting, I mean controlled sparring (Boxing). Street fighting is too dangerous. Being dead is beta..
This keeps me in a very intense, violent, competitive mindset. I like this primal, animalistic mindframe.
I like to test myself against other guys. I want to see who is tougher. I want to see who would win in a fight to the death. That sounds crude but for me, that is the essence of "alpha".
If there was no police to protect you -- Who would control the women and resources?
That is The Law of The Jungle, in my crazy opinion.
When I fight/spar, I am able to demonstrate and test my abilities in the real world. I don't have to guess or wonder about how tough I am. I can find out exactly where I stand.
I am an alpha or a beta? I can usually find out in a matter of minutes.
I know that 99% of guys are not doing this. So, that fact lets me know that I am already in the top 1% of guys.
Life is a game, a competition. I like to nurture a fiercely competitive mindset.
I want to out-compete other men. Isn't that what alpha is all about..?
Other things that help me maintain my alpha are:
1) Aggressively chasing girls and pushing hard for s*x with no shame.
2) Competing against other men in games of skill and wit.
3) Studying other alphas
4) Sports
5) Direct Sober Day Game. (Or, drunk)
6) Banging girls half my age
7) Cultivating my mind and trying to eliminate all fear while at the same time developing my abundance mentality and sense of superiority.
8) Nature
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09-28-2013, 03:33 PM
There's a difference between not gaming a girl because you don't have the balls vs not gaming a girl because
a) the logistics suck and you're looking for a notch that night
b) you won't gain any novel experience from doing it
c) you have a better chance of getting laid by her friends
You probably have a better chance of fucking the married woman if you don't bang her that night. Instead, build value with her then have her build value FOR you with her friends. If you bang one of her single friends, she will want to bang you more than she did before and eventually you will fuck her.
Theres nothing beta about friendzoning a girl if shes got a hot social circle.
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09-28-2013, 03:36 PM
There's a difference between not gaming a girl because you don't have the balls vs not gaming a girl because
a) the logistics suck and you're looking for a notch that night
b) you won't gain any novel experience from doing it
c) you have a better chance of getting laid by her friends
You probably have a better chance of fucking the married woman if you don't bang her that night. Instead, build value with her then have her build value FOR you with her friends. If you bang one of her single friends, she will want to bang you more than she did before and eventually you will fuck her.
Theres nothing beta about friendzoning a girl if shes got a hot social circle.
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06-07-2014, 12:41 AM
Been off the forum for a bit, thanks for everyone's thoughts!