[PompeyChris]

I have had a cracking summer where I have had regular sex off multiple new additions for the last 3 months or so. Rarely going more than 2 days without sex.

I am currently in a position where I am struggling to maintain an erection. I recently got into a position with a young, attractive virgin. All I had to do was put the condom on, as soon as I would go down. Obviously this pissed me off and I began searching the manosphere for answers. Came across she begged me to fuck her but I could not get it up and ended up purchasing horny goat weed, L-Arginine and Korean Ginseng.

I hae gone from being able to get a hard on easily and being able to have sex 3-4 times a day to, needing the female to stimulate my dick to get a hard on, to not even being able to maintain a hard on when the pussy is on the plate. I even feel that my libido has fallen.

What annoys me most is that even at the amount of sex I was getting I should still be able to get and maintain a strong rod.

In regards to my lifestyle:

- 19
- supplement with zinc
- lots of fat in my diet (eggs, milk, etc)
- workout heavy 4 times a week
- eat good food
- occasionaly fast
- currently eating more calories than needed
- never had a problem with my T levels, although Dad has in the past.

I am curious to know whether anyone has had too much sex and tired there dick out? Recovery tips etc.

Chris

[kinjutsu]

Moderation in everything my friend.

You're burning yourself out mentally.

Can you get it up to watch porn? If so then it's a mental thing. If not go visit your doctor.

I had a similar issue a few years ago. I just took a break and played video games and did stuff with my friends and put less energy into chasing pussy.

Most likely your libido has fallen because sex doesn't excite you like it used to.

Possibly you may need to change the way you view women as far as being sexual objects for your pleasure.

A few years ago i had a cross-fit junkie with DD's as my main girl. After 3 months i wasn't to excited about fucking her anymore and i'd lose my hard-on during sex.
Eventually i started hunting for strange and that kinda fixed it.

[bachelor tax]

Sounds like you are fairly health conscious... have you started a keto diet recently? My libido bottoms out when I don't eat carbs.

[PompeyChris]

(09-19-2013 02:08 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  

Moderation in everything my friend.

You're burning yourself out mentally.

Can you get it up to watch porn? If so then it's a mental thing. If not go visit your doctor.

I had a similar issue a few years ago. I just took a break and played video games and did stuff with my friends and put less energy into chasing pussy.

Most likely your libido has fallen because sex doesn't excite you like it used to.

Possibly you may need to change the way you view women as far as being sexual objects for your pleasure.

A few years ago i had a cross-fit junkie with DD's as my main girl. After 3 months i wasn't to excited about fucking her anymore and i'd lose my hard-on during sex.
Eventually i started hunting for strange and that kinda fixed it.

Yeah I do think I need to take an extended break from shooting off, I just dont want to haha. But needs must.

I just cant understand how a stunnign virgin is not appealing to me? Seeing her today - haven't touched my dick in days. Lets see how this goes.

(09-19-2013 02:17 PM)bachelor tax Wrote:  

Sounds like you are fairly health conscious... have you started a keto diet recently? My libido bottoms out when I don't eat carbs.

I have done a keto diet, but that was before summer. So I am 100% sure that isn't the cause.

[VincentVinturi]

Quote:

I just cant understand how a stunnign virgin is not appealing to me?

Yes I've been in this situation.

Just because a girl is appealing visually (and on an ego level), doesn't mean you're going to want to bang her on a core, primal level.

Visual attraction and chemistry are two totally separate things. I'm learning to listen to chemistry more and more as I get older.

My take is that nature has its own intelligence about who should have sex with whom.

In other words, the boner test.

[PompeyChris]

(09-20-2013 08:42 AM)VincentVinturi Wrote:  

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I just cant understand how a stunnign virgin is not appealing to me?

Yes I've been in this situation.

Just because a girl is appealing visually (and on an ego level), doesn't mean you're going to want to bang her on a core, primal level.

Visual attraction and chemistry are two totally separate things. I'm learning to listen to chemistry more and more as I get older.

My take is that nature has its own intelligence about who should have sex with whom.

In other words, the boner test.

I get this, however it has been a steady decline in quality of my hard-on the more girls, and more often I have over a relatively short time period.

I dont believe the boner test is the perfect tool for me yet. I am 19 and should be at a state where attractive girls do it for me.

While I do agree that chemistry is important, I have only found it to be important for multiple bangs.

[VincentVinturi]

(09-20-2013 08:46 AM)PompeyChris Wrote:  

I get this, however it has been a steady decline in quality of my hard-on the more girls, and more often I have over a relatively short time period.

I dont believe the boner test is the perfect tool for me yet. I am 19 and should be at a state where attractive girls do it for me.

While I do agree that chemistry is important, I have only found it to be important for multiple bangs.

I see. You might be banging too much. Take a week off?

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I am 19 and should be at a state where attractive girls do it for me.

You should? Says who? Just because you're 19 doesn't mean your body will react chemically to every girl that you find attractive visually.

I'm 27 and my sex drive is way better now than it was at 19. That's one.

Secondly, it sounds like you want to bang an attractive girl so you can have the gratification of having banged an attractive girl. Or because you mistakenly believe the notion that you should be a non-stop sex machine with a perma-boner. Even though your body is telling you "no, I'm not interested."

Again, I've been there, even recently. It's confusing. There's a hot girl in front of you and your dick is out for a cup of coffee. Could be any number of things. But one thing is certain: you don't want to fuck at this particular moment.

[teh_skeeze]

There is such a thing as too much sex. In monogamous relationships, people tend to bang constantly for about the first 3-6 months. After that the body's chemistry changes and while you still have sex on the regular, it's not multiple times a day, though that still happens on occasion. There may even be times where you go several days that you go without sex. It's not even a conscious decision. You just don't necessarily feel like having sex. Despite the fact that you have been banging different chicks on the regular, your body just can't handle getting jacked up on adrenaline and hormones constantly. I'd say give it a week and go from there.

[neanderthal]

I went once three months having sex nearly every day. My libido was always good but mentally I was exhauted.

Even though I was normally only having sex with girl in my harem, setting up the bangs, picking up and all that other shit made me tire.

Take a week off. You need it champ.

[Khalifa_Black]

maybe your dating the same women.

I recommend you start from scratch.

[jariel]

Stop busting every time you have sex.

[CaliforniaSupreme]

If all fails, go to the lab and have your hormone levels checked.

[PompeyChris]

Took a week + a bit off. Back to regular now. Getting my T levels checked anyway as I have family history of low T.

Weird.