First post (take it easy on me)
Just got this text from girl ABC:
" Do you thunk it's the best idea to go out, with you and XYZ hanging out like that again?"
Background: Met girl ABC through mutual friends, led her on with hopes of a relationship, got some bangs, cant stand her personality even long enough to bang. Tell her we can be friends, but i dont want anything with her. Shes alittle pissed and gives me the silent treatment for a couple of weeks and then comes around with texts and a lunch (she picks me up from work and we split the tab).
She texts me a few days later with this line that her boss wants her to take a friend to this super nice restaurant (where they have an account just to keep up appearances) and asks if I want to go. Always wanted to go there, not to mention on her company's tab! So i say sure why not. She follows up with so are you going planning on going back home after or would you stay at my place (this would save me an hour of driving that night and 30 more mins in the morning.....plausible deniability for her) i reply "not sure, we'll see", but im definitely planning on staying the night.
Date is all set about a week in advance. Today rolls around and the date is tomorrow, i get the text above. Yesterday some pics hit facebook from a party at a bar in town and me and an ex (XYZ) are in 3-4 of them. Nothing incriminating but enough to get ABC thinking.
Whats a good reply here without backtracking and being beta (though I am). I want to display that im not doing anything wrong and you have to put up with this to get with me. Im always up front with these chicks if Im hanging out with another chick i dont hide it, but never go into detail either.
Here is all i can come up with "That's up to you. Idk why hanging out with XYZ on Saturday matters."
Teach me the ways, any help appreciated!
Just got this text from girl ABC:
" Do you thunk it's the best idea to go out, with you and XYZ hanging out like that again?"
Background: Met girl ABC through mutual friends, led her on with hopes of a relationship, got some bangs, cant stand her personality even long enough to bang. Tell her we can be friends, but i dont want anything with her. Shes alittle pissed and gives me the silent treatment for a couple of weeks and then comes around with texts and a lunch (she picks me up from work and we split the tab).
She texts me a few days later with this line that her boss wants her to take a friend to this super nice restaurant (where they have an account just to keep up appearances) and asks if I want to go. Always wanted to go there, not to mention on her company's tab! So i say sure why not. She follows up with so are you going planning on going back home after or would you stay at my place (this would save me an hour of driving that night and 30 more mins in the morning.....plausible deniability for her) i reply "not sure, we'll see", but im definitely planning on staying the night.
Date is all set about a week in advance. Today rolls around and the date is tomorrow, i get the text above. Yesterday some pics hit facebook from a party at a bar in town and me and an ex (XYZ) are in 3-4 of them. Nothing incriminating but enough to get ABC thinking.
Whats a good reply here without backtracking and being beta (though I am). I want to display that im not doing anything wrong and you have to put up with this to get with me. Im always up front with these chicks if Im hanging out with another chick i dont hide it, but never go into detail either.
Here is all i can come up with "That's up to you. Idk why hanging out with XYZ on Saturday matters."
Teach me the ways, any help appreciated!
