[Videl]

I have pretty good small talk skills in day game and places where there it is quite. In disco it is another story. I know Roosh provides list of topics you can talk about such as surrounding, people, club/disco, etc.. but because nature of disco, you can't have very long discussions. I was wondering if people could provide an example of regular conversation during approach.

Another thing, all girls like to dance, and I'm not good at dancing. Now I could just stay at the corner sipping my beer but that would come off as akward and not outgoing. How do you guys deal with dancing? I know regular moves, but after a while my moves get repetitive and then there is also dancing with a girl. I have seen one arm on girls waist, I have seen other moves. It is so hard to learn if you haven't got it naturally.

[chexmix]

There is no conversation when the music is booming so loud you can hear the vibrations in your skull. Learn to dance and use your body aggressively or fail. If you want to talk, pull the girl for a smoke/fresh air for a song or two.

disco=nightclub
Some countries call them discos such as Italy for anybody thinking this guy stepped through time from the 80's.

This guy has alright basic dancing stuff.

[Videl]

But what are the things you can say to just have small chat? When I see a girl checking me out I usually walk over say how are you doing and introduce myself but after that I always fall into boring topics

[Cattle Rustler]

Perhaps you should read Bang and Day Bang, it explains some of the stuff pretty well.

Ask them if they like the music. If they have a lighter. Do they come here (the disco) a lot.

[mr_lucky]

I recall in Bang, alternatively to do they come here a lot, 'I think I've seen you here before' ...also this thread could help you sir: http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-14130.html

[Videl]

(09-18-2013 04:02 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

Perhaps you should read Bang and Day Bang, it explains some of the stuff pretty well.

Ask them if they like the music. If they have a lighter. Do they come here (the disco) a lot.

I think in daybang nothing is been said about night game, club game, etc. Maybe in Bang these things are discussed. I think I need to reread bang.

[Videl]

Yesterday night I had the same problems. I iniate contact. Ask her how she is doing, what she is studying, where she is at, after some chit chat, conversation dies. Is it because they are not interested or is it that I do something wrong?

[reino341]

(09-20-2013 09:10 AM)Videl Wrote:  

Yesterday night I had the same problems. I iniate contact. Ask her how she is doing, what she is studying, where she is at, after some chit chat, conversation dies. Is it because they are not interested or is it that I do something wrong?

Sounds like you're asking boring ass questions without letting her experience your personality. Imagine you go to a job interview and all the other person does is ask mundane, fact-based questions one after another. You'd have no idea what he's like in reality and you don't get to know the person.

That doesn't mean you can't ask questions, it just means you need to relate to her answers somehow, and not use questions as a means to keep the conversation going (except for in emergency when you're totally drawing blank).

Highly recommend RSD instructors' videos and products (some of which you can get free online pretty easily)

[Videl]

That was a good intructional video. but he didn't say any possible topics I can talk about in clubs. He says I should focus n motivations, emotions and personal characteristics but how does this work in practise?

[chexmix]

http://www.rooshv.com/night-game-energy-levels