I'm not into black girls in general but I think this is a great sheet for any man who is. +1
Gaming black women as a white guy
I'm a black guy in ATL and white dudes definitely have a chance since black women are so tired of us. The "niggas aint shit" phenomena pretty much rolls out the red carpet for yall. Like he said, the defenses have been up since puberty cause my brothers come super sideways with the uber aggressive "holla holla holla". None of that Day Bang style feigned chance meeting shit.
I went to a major HBCU (black college) and all the unmarried female classmates I have are realizing that Denzel, Idris Elba, Future, TI, and the NBA Western Conference All Star team isn't coming to sweep them off their feet. I encourage my non black comrades to hop on em bc I've been mixing colors since my second sex partner in high school showed me the world is a melting pot.
They will automatically give you more cooperation bc they have zero negative associations about dating you. Think about that. You can do no wrong. Knock her fucking teeth in, at least you aren't a lying ass, cheating ass, no good black man.
I went to a major HBCU (black college) and all the unmarried female classmates I have are realizing that Denzel, Idris Elba, Future, TI, and the NBA Western Conference All Star team isn't coming to sweep them off their feet. I encourage my non black comrades to hop on em bc I've been mixing colors since my second sex partner in high school showed me the world is a melting pot.
They will automatically give you more cooperation bc they have zero negative associations about dating you. Think about that. You can do no wrong. Knock her fucking teeth in, at least you aren't a lying ass, cheating ass, no good black man.
A lot of good stuff here. I will not dive into the early game part as a lot of guys had it covered, whether you are trying to get a one night stand or get the number. Once you have the number and you have a first date, though , here are some tips.
Caribbeans - Get a few drinks at a cool lounge or bar - these girls come from a culture where the respectable women do not drink much at all, so you will be showing her a new experience. Get her to the dance floor ASAP where she can wine and grind that big booty. The good ones will blow your mind. If you want to keep her around for longer you will need beta provider game as these girls come from a more conservative culture.
Americans - A lot of these girls can be treated like white American girls, especially if they were raised in a white or mixed community. If they have some braids or natural hair they will love to tell you all about it.
In general, in my experience they have a lower level of inhibitions even if they are a church girl who has never had a drink. So do not hesitate to escalate fast. Get her to the bedroom and escalate fast. They like a sense of danger and like it rough, so be aggressive.
Beta provider game - for most Caribbeans and some Americans - Is she looking for white guys because she has been burned by too many black guys? You hint that you are the confident and assertive guy who she is naturally attracted to, but with a soft spot that hints that you are interested in something longer-term.
Hoodrats - take them to McDonald's and then to a nearby public park and escalate real fast and direct in the playground. In my experience the swingset is a good prop, as well as the slide and the bench. Stay away from the monkey bars as injuries are bound to happen. Watch out for used needles and condoms if it is a particularly sketchy park. It is probably best to carry a weapon that can be used in self-defense if need be. If you like the girl give her the rest of the fries from your McDonald's meal.
Caribbeans - Get a few drinks at a cool lounge or bar - these girls come from a culture where the respectable women do not drink much at all, so you will be showing her a new experience. Get her to the dance floor ASAP where she can wine and grind that big booty. The good ones will blow your mind. If you want to keep her around for longer you will need beta provider game as these girls come from a more conservative culture.
Americans - A lot of these girls can be treated like white American girls, especially if they were raised in a white or mixed community. If they have some braids or natural hair they will love to tell you all about it.
In general, in my experience they have a lower level of inhibitions even if they are a church girl who has never had a drink. So do not hesitate to escalate fast. Get her to the bedroom and escalate fast. They like a sense of danger and like it rough, so be aggressive.
Beta provider game - for most Caribbeans and some Americans - Is she looking for white guys because she has been burned by too many black guys? You hint that you are the confident and assertive guy who she is naturally attracted to, but with a soft spot that hints that you are interested in something longer-term.
Hoodrats - take them to McDonald's and then to a nearby public park and escalate real fast and direct in the playground. In my experience the swingset is a good prop, as well as the slide and the bench. Stay away from the monkey bars as injuries are bound to happen. Watch out for used needles and condoms if it is a particularly sketchy park. It is probably best to carry a weapon that can be used in self-defense if need be. If you like the girl give her the rest of the fries from your McDonald's meal.
I've had good experience with black women with dance clubs. I can appreciate a good booty to grind against for a few hours. Even if she is hot, it seems like she gets approached less because guys are usually are into black girls or not.
I've also seen that some wouldn't give me the time of day because they go mess with white guys or you get a lot of attitude from black guys if you're with a black girl.
You guys make a lot of good points though.
I've also seen that some wouldn't give me the time of day because they go mess with white guys or you get a lot of attitude from black guys if you're with a black girl.
You guys make a lot of good points though.
Quote: (09-15-2013 10:11 PM)crunkpopeye Wrote:
I'm a black guy in ATL and white dudes definitely have a chance since black women are so tired of us. The "niggas aint shit" phenomena pretty much rolls out the red carpet for yall. Like he said, the defenses have been up since puberty cause my brothers come super sideways with the uber aggressive "holla holla holla". None of that Day Bang style feigned chance meeting shit.
I went to a major HBCU (black college) and all the unmarried female classmates I have are realizing that Denzel, Idris Elba, Future, TI, and the NBA Western Conference All Star team isn't coming to sweep them off their feet. I encourage my non black comrades to hop on em bc I've been mixing colors since my second sex partner in high school showed me the world is a melting pot.
They will automatically give you more cooperation bc they have zero negative associations about dating you. Think about that. You can do no wrong. Knock her fucking teeth in, at least you aren't a lying ass, cheating ass, no good black man.
My black friends say the same things, but dude you are hilarious! Being a blank slate helps a lot, you're right. But, the cons of dating black girls are ultimately dealing with her family members who hate white guys and dealing with dudes on the street. I used to live with a girl in East Harlem and another in Bushwick, and visited girls all over the hoods of Brooklyn and the Bronx. Right now I'm seeing someone from Jamaica, Queens. I get into beef all the time with jealous ass dudes hating on me. The good thing is standing up for yourself makes you look like you're not a corny white guy and actually adds to your game.
Also as I said before, white girls are obsessed with being part of a subculture (hipsters, raver, guido, punk, etc). Black girls don't care and view most of the people who take it seriously as corny. They value independence and someone who does their own thing. I switch up my style all the time, I like different music, I hang at different types of venues. I have nerdy qualities but I'm also a G with a lot of crazy stories and friends. My past gives me that rep they like. I'm like the conformed bad boy who is smart and doing his thing. They eat that shit up because it gives me sex appeal but also gives me hubby credibility.
I love how half the world's women think that white men are the "non-cheating" race.
Quote: (09-16-2013 06:15 AM)Que enspastic Wrote:
I love how half the world's women think that white men are the "non-cheating" race.
We're just smarter about it. Well, the 10% with enough game to cheat. The vast majority are so thirsty they are afraid to stray. That's why it's good to have so many simps out there. We are the wolves among the flock.
Quote: (09-14-2013 02:37 AM)liveandlearn7 Wrote:
she'll think you're trying to cross out "Fuck black girl" on your bucket list.
Yeh. I've been asked point-blank if I was doing that.
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4) Name drop...old school r&b like Jodeci, Groove Theory, Bobby Caldwell, Raphael Saadiq... It shows you're a "white guy with soul"
Nah. If you're actually into that shit, sure, but don't do it on the assumption that she likes it. She could easily be all about 80s pop or indie rock or whatever.
I've found it ten times easier with Caribbean, African, and black Hispanic women in the USA than with African-Americans.
I always thought it was because of all that slavemaster stuff from Roots and other movies like Django Unchained, Thomas Jefferson and Sally Hemings, etc. Created a block, like fucking a white guy was some kind of race treason.
Maybe you could turn that around, say "We might be related, my great-great-great granddaddy owned a plantation."
I always thought it was because of all that slavemaster stuff from Roots and other movies like Django Unchained, Thomas Jefferson and Sally Hemings, etc. Created a block, like fucking a white guy was some kind of race treason.
Maybe you could turn that around, say "We might be related, my great-great-great granddaddy owned a plantation."
Quote: (09-16-2013 12:27 PM)Chapped3rdEye Wrote:
Quote: (09-14-2013 02:37 AM)liveandlearn7 Wrote:
she'll think you're trying to cross out "Fuck black girl" on your bucket list.
Yeh. I've been asked point-blank if I was doing that.
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4) Name drop...old school r&b like Jodeci, Groove Theory, Bobby Caldwell, Raphael Saadiq... It shows you're a "white guy with soul"
Nah. If you're actually into that shit, sure, but don't do it on the assumption that she likes it. She could easily be all about 80s pop or indie rock or whatever.
That's why you judge the situation by asking her first what shes into.
The last one was the result of day game. Super sweet girl, Bajan. We had some nice dates and banged a few times so far, still in rotation but trailing off. Just cant get over how amazing their bodies are.
What about Latinos gaming black women? Only black girl I approached was at a bar. She was very cooperative and gave me her number without me asking her for it. She later called me but I turned her off with the way I talked. I later found out that she never responded because I talked "too white".
Are black girls in general receptive to Mexican cats?
Are black girls in general receptive to Mexican cats?
Quote: (09-16-2013 10:42 PM)MidWest Wrote:
What about Latinos gaming black women? Only black girl I approached was at a bar. She was very cooperative and gave me her number without me asking her for it. She later called me but I turned her off with the way I talked. I later found out that she never responded because I talked "too white".
Are black girls in general receptive to Mexican cats?
They're receptive to anyone. But being Latino doesn't give you as much of a gimmick advantage as being white or Asian.
Quote: (09-16-2013 09:34 PM)puckman Wrote:
The last one was the result of day game. Super sweet girl, Bajan. We had some nice dates and banged a few times so far, still in rotation but trailing off. Just cant get over how amazing their bodies are.
had to add a bit more here. Out of all of my bangs lately, she is probably the one I would most LTR with. Highly(if not overly) educated, a principle of a school, long and lean body but still curvy, easy 8, dressed up a 9. Super sweet to me on dates, we have had some epic times together. She really likes me and I can tell she is really disappointed I am not taking it further. Have had some of the best times together and get along together really well. Dont want an LTR or GF, so I always look at her as one who got away, by my own decisions to not take it further, and I feel kind of let down by it. High quality, one of my highest so far.
Also, thanks to the show Scandal black chicks are preprogrammed to give you a shot. A show about a black chick being a black dudes side box would get no play. But make him a powerful white man and now you have some buzz. The amount of love that show gets is staggering. All you white guys have to do is run some decent game and you're good to go.
"Feminism is a trade union for ugly women"- Peregrine
Where I do my regular rounds, there are always a couple of black girls searching for white guys the same way I am searching for white girls.
Shooting fish in a barrel
Shooting fish in a barrel
Quote: (09-17-2013 06:36 PM)vinman Wrote:
Also, thanks to the show Scandal black chicks are preprogrammed to give you a shot. A show about a black chick being a black dudes side box would get no play. But make him a powerful white man and now you have some buzz. The amount of love that show gets is staggering. All you white guys have to do is run some decent game and you're good to go.
"I have refused to wear a condom all of my life, for a simple reason – if I’m going to masturbate into a balloon why would I need a woman?"
I've never heard of Scandal until I read this thread but it sounds like just a typical soap opera, which all women love, with the interracial thing just being a bit of extra spice.
I don't agree with Sotomayor that most black women would rather be a white guys side piece than be with a black man-most black women aren't all that much into white guys
But- a minority of black women are very much into white guys-I've dated a couple that only dated white guys
And there's a somewhat larger group that like to bang white guys occasionally on the down low, so that their friends and family don't find out
The best style is tight game with dominance but without the over the top aggressiveness that a lot of black guys engage in
BTW if you're a white Southerner that's actually an advantage with some non-Southern black chicks- you're sort of the exotic, forbidden bad boy that they're curious about
I don't agree with Sotomayor that most black women would rather be a white guys side piece than be with a black man-most black women aren't all that much into white guys
But- a minority of black women are very much into white guys-I've dated a couple that only dated white guys
And there's a somewhat larger group that like to bang white guys occasionally on the down low, so that their friends and family don't find out
The best style is tight game with dominance but without the over the top aggressiveness that a lot of black guys engage in
BTW if you're a white Southerner that's actually an advantage with some non-Southern black chicks- you're sort of the exotic, forbidden bad boy that they're curious about
"If anything's gonna happen, it's gonna happen out there!- Captain Ron
Interesting thread but very American perspective so far. Has anyone experiences with gaming black chicks in European countries like the UK or France so far? Are they different than in the US? In Germany, there is unfortunately only a small black community, mostly refugees from Africa or black GI kids, and they seem to stick to their own kind.
Also, since I'm planning on a new US trip for the next year, I wonder if being white with a European accent and without the former-slavemaster-burden actually makes a difference to black American girls or if it's all the same to them.
Also, since I'm planning on a new US trip for the next year, I wonder if being white with a European accent and without the former-slavemaster-burden actually makes a difference to black American girls or if it's all the same to them.
Quote: (09-18-2013 05:01 AM)Flint Wrote:
Interesting thread but very American perspective so far. Has anyone experiences with gaming black chicks in European countries like the UK or France so far? Are they different than in the US? In Germany, there is unfortunately only a small black community, mostly refugees from Africa or black GI kids, and they seem to stick to their own kind.
Also, since I'm planning on a new US trip for the next year, I wonder if being white with a European accent and without the former-slavemaster-burden actually makes a difference to black American girls or if it's all the same to them.
From what I have seen. American Black Chicks traveling to Europe. They lowkey are looking for an "experience" with an European man. So they can brag to their friends about all of the European men that love Black women.
I will say that in this day and age. It has never been easier for a white guy to hook up with a Black chick. Especially since it is so supported by the media.
Go for it.
In the first paragraph, I actually meant black British or black French girls.
When I was living in Berlin, I used to hang out with many American exchange students and expats but none of them was black. Seems like even African Americans who can afford it don't travel as much abroad as their compatriots.
When I was living in Berlin, I used to hang out with many American exchange students and expats but none of them was black. Seems like even African Americans who can afford it don't travel as much abroad as their compatriots.
There aren't many black American woman that travel to Europe that I know of. Most of them consider going to the Caribbean or places like Costa Rica.
If they do go to Europe they are usually 35+
If they do go to Europe they are usually 35+
A man is only as faithful as his options-Chris Rock
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