I think it's funny that a bunch of players are so resistant to the idea of virgins existing. As for them going to raves, why not? Being a virgin doesn't make them any less human than any other woman on the planet. They just a) either have far more self control than most women or b) have really built it up in their mind, both on a rational and mental level, that it's the right thing to do.
Maybe dad did his job. Maybe she comes from a religious background. Maybe a personal idea she latched onto after something she read around puberty. But whatever the reason it doesn't mean she doesn't like to go out with friends and have a good time.
I compare the mentality to the kind of girl (or guy) that doesn't drink or do drugs but goes to big parties like this to dance and have a good time. They exist. And raving is huge for youngsters these days, so avoiding the scene completely would cut off a lot of her social opportunities.
Also, the fact that she's going to events like this could be just part of her process of coming out of her shell. Starts with socializing and partying more and then eventually giving up the vag, preferably to some guy she likes. From there she may become further disillusioned and eventually become just like any other young urban woman, laughing at the former her that held onto virginity for so long.
Anyways, it's rare but there are definitely women even in their early 20s who are still virgins. Even in the United Sluts of America.
Quote: (09-12-2013 05:43 PM)modernist Wrote:
I won't push more for it, I'm just telling her she should enjoy while it lasts, that nothing in life is forever, and that she should be happy we met and could have this time together, not sad that I leave.
I think you made the right decision.
Beyond All Seas
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling
