Quote: (11-02-2013 12:29 PM)hardman Wrote:
Quote: (11-02-2013 11:18 AM)JayJuanGee Wrote:
Quote: (11-02-2013 10:51 AM)hardman Wrote:
In general, I prefer dating women with 6-12 year age difference, and have had lots of success in that range over the years.
Hardman:
I like your description of your relationship with the young hottie.
I do have some concerns about the practicality of your 6-12 year age difference preference, especially if you are moving into your mid-to-late 40s.
Thanks! I enjoyed remembering her!
Regarding the practicality of dating in that age range when one crosses into 40s, I said it was my preference, not that it was getting easier! But it's not impossible for me to find much younger women and sleep with them. The 23 year old I mentioned saw me as a fantasy figure... I could provide everything she wanted in life. In the beginning of the relationship, she was far more concerned that I would find her too young and uninteresting than I was concerned about being too old for her.
I don't even pay attention to most women older than mid 30s, for various reasons. Most of them are simply too difficult to be around personality wise, come with too much baggage & drama, and with the rare exception, are not that interesting naked.
Good discussion here. Point taken and well made about AMERICAN women in their 30's generally not being worth the trouble. The dating market in the U.S. is generally pretty skewed against men for a number of reasons. One of the things I enjoyed about Brazil is that women of all ages seemed to enjoy and desire my company, that my age (early 40's) was an asset and anyone looking down on me for wanting to date women in their mid to late 20's was an exception and not the rule. Also this:
Quote:Quote:I suspect this dynamic would be the exception and not the rule as well, though I didn't have enough time there to confirm it. Bottom line is, for me, Brazil has much more of the kind of relationships that I want available to me. American women of any quality really aren't on the dating market long, the ones who are just aren't worth the hassle. I had my fun banging American bar sluts; it doesn't do that much for me anymore. I would much rather bang Brazilian bar sluts; they're much more fun to be around, in my experience.
In the beginning of the relationship, she was far more concerned that I would find her too young and uninteresting than I was concerned about being too old for her.