[Rang off the Pipe]

Welp. I had a great experience with a girl last night, but then I realized I suck at using my mouth currently. I started out with the tongue and then just decided to say **** it and use my fingers. She was really reacting to the fingering and enjoyed that a ton, but I want to get better with my mouth. I figure some guys here could leave some advice on this since I want to diversify and improve my foreplay.

[Virtus]

Nina Hartley teaches you how to eat pussy like a champ

[delicioustacos]

Don't get too technical. Just move the flat part of your tongue on her clit and hit the G spot with two fingers using a "come hither" motion. If it's convenient, press down on the upper part of her pubes with a flat hand. Don't suck your saliva back. Let it flow out so she gets nice and slippery. Listen to her sounds. Pay attention to her hip movements. She'll help you out. A smart girl will even shift her cunt so you're hitting the right spot.

But also: don't worry about it too much. Enjoy yourself. Eat pussy so you can enjoy the smell and taste of young ovulating snatch. So you can have detailed memories of that twat to pull down from the high shelf of the Spank Bank in your old age. Get into it and have a good time. Eat pussy for you, not for her.

After all, what's the best blowjob you ever had? Some chick who dazzled you with techniques she learned in Cosmo? No. It was the crazy passionate cockhog who slurped down the pole like her life depended on it. A girl who just loved sucking dick. Eat pussy like a fattie sucks cock. You will have no complaints.

[Quintus Curtius]

Start out slow, tease, and work your mouth around the thighs and around the clit and vulva. The idea is to increase the sense of excitement and expectation. Do not go for the clit right away. It's sensitive and needs a few minutes to get warmed up. Then you can start in with the gentle licking, with the tongue darting around. All chicks are different and like different things. Some like fingers, some don't. Make sure your fingernails are well clipped if you're going to insert. If you do, start out by pressing your finger(s) slowly inside, and press down at the base of the vagina. This simulates a penis being inside. Only later can you vary it up a bit, and try to tickle the G spot at the top inside of the snatch. You're in total control, and you'll own it.
Variation is key. Mix it up with some gentle tapping or slapping of the clitoral hood...
Best video I've seen on this is below. Check it out, and incorporate what you want into your specific routine:

http://www.xvideos.com/video691510/how_to_eat_pussy

[AneroidOcean]

When a girl really starts moaning and getting into it you'll be tempted to SPEED UP or use more pressure. Only speed up, use more pressure if she's insisting on it (some women can take it). In most cases you need to just KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING when she starts moaning. Don't make big changes once you've got her really enjoying it.

delicioustacos is right, do it for you because you enjoy it, not just for her.

Don't be afraid to interrupt/tease her and make her suck your dick before going back at it. I'm also a big fan of 69 whether she's on top or you are (with her head just hanging off the side of the bed). Or for a fun change of pace, stand-up 69.

[eradicator]

(08-25-2013 08:14 PM)delicioustacos Wrote:  

Listen to her sounds. Pay attention to her hip movements. She'll help you out. A smart girl will even shift her cunt so you're hitting the right spot.



After all, what's the best blowjob you ever had? Some chick who dazzled you with techniques she learned in Cosmo? No. It was the crazy passionate cockhog who slurped down the pole like her life depended on it. A girl who just loved sucking dick. Eat pussy like a fattie sucks cock. You will have no complaints.

I agree with all of this, especially the part about listening to the sounds she is making: when you find the g spot and she really starts reacting, focus on that spot.

Women tend to have (at least) 2 g spots, one on their clit, one on the vag(feels like a sponge on that area),

When you find the g spots, just concentrate on them. It's fun to see the woman's reactions.

[scorpion]

Don't do it. That's my opinion. Makes you look way too eager to please. Basically clowning yourself to eat a girl's pussy right away. You're essentially saying, "I'm voluntarily going out of my way to lick this pussy, which might be dirty and diseased and possibly had some other dude's cock in it this afternoon for all I know, because I'm so excited to be naked with a girl and can't resist."

Reminds me of an 18 year old college freshman who drinks half a bottle of liquor in an hour because he's so eager to get drunk. Pace yourself. If you're going to eat pussy at all, only do it with a girl who is dedicated to you (and ONLY to you...or as sure as you can be of that, at least) and who has a really nice little snatch. Basically, only do it when the girl has proven her loyalty and earned your favor, AND you can't resist sticking your face in there.

Because eating pussy is a DLV. It's putting the girl's pleasure before your own. The moment you realize a woman's pleasure doesn't even matter during sex is like a fucking lightning bolt hitting you.

You're a man, not a walking vibrator. If you feel the need to rely on your pussy eating skills to keep a woman around, you're doing it wrong.

[Quintus Curtius]

(08-27-2013 06:21 PM)scorpion Wrote:  

Don't do it. That's my opinion. Makes you look way too eager to please. Basically clowning yourself to eat a girl's pussy right away. You're essentially saying, "I'm voluntarily going out of my way to lick this pussy, which might be dirty and diseased and possibly had some other dude's cock in it this afternoon for all I know, because I'm so excited to be naked with a girl and can't resist."

Reminds me of an 18 year old college freshman who drinks half a bottle of liquor in an hour because he's so eager to get drunk. Pace yourself. If you're going to eat pussy at all, only do it with a girl who is dedicated to you (and ONLY to you...or as sure as you can be of that, at least) and who has a really nice little snatch. Basically, only do it when the girl has proven her loyalty and earned your favor, AND you can't resist sticking your face in there.

Because eating pussy is a DLV. It's putting the girl's pleasure before your own. The moment you realize a woman's pleasure doesn't even matter during sex is like a fucking lightning bolt hitting you.

You're a man, not a walking vibrator. If you feel the need to rely on your pussy eating skills to keep a woman around, you're doing it wrong.

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I hear you man, and point is well taken.
But let me explain. We (or at least I) don't just dive in with any bitch and start munching. That goes without saying, man. And I don't really do it because they like it, I do it because I like it. I'm an enthusiast of sex, and like all the varieties of it, in all its different forms. In the same way a gourmand likes to enjoy varieties of food. That's all. Nothing wrong with liking it, and nothing wrong with not liking it. Just a matter of taste and style. But there is a whole different level of control you can get from doing certain things, if she's deserving of your attentions.....

[Rang off the Pipe]

I guess I like women's reactions too much. This topic has been very useful.

[AneroidOcean]

(08-27-2013 06:21 PM)scorpion Wrote:  

Because eating pussy is a DLV.

Can someone explain the logic behind this? Being too eager to please is one thing, but all oral sex being a DLV is quite another.

[not-a-pua]

Bullshit. You are a man and you do as you please. If you fell like eating that pussy, you do it. I do a quick smell test. Nothing worse than a tuna plant down there.

[scorpion]

If you legitimately enjoy eating pussy, then by all means go for it. Don't let some guy posting on the internet keep you from doing something you enjoy. My post was aimed at new guys who think they have to eat pussy to keep a girl satisfied, or that if a girl sucks their dick, they have an obligation to reciprocate by eating pussy. Both of those are false assumptions.

I still say though, that in all cases, if you are going to eat pussy, don't do it right away, because I think it makes you look like a clown and is pretty gross to be munching down on a strange pussy you know nothing about. Just my opinion though.

[reaper23]

everything is how you frame it and how your frame is

if is say, girl get over here and let daddy get a taste - you think that is DLV?

sometimes the game i have to run on girls is pure comfort game because my alpha frame is so strong, they need reassurance only from me.

its all about how you are, not what you are doing.

[RXB]

I like eating pussy and often go down on one night stands. It's what I enjoy doing.

Is this beta?

[Quintus Curtius]

(08-28-2013 09:40 PM)RXB Wrote:  

I like eating pussy and often go down on one night stands. It's what I enjoy doing.

Is this beta?

Not in itself, no. Not if you do it for you. Every man's got his own sexual style...

[RougeNoir]

(08-28-2013 09:40 PM)RXB Wrote:  

I like eating pussy and often go down on one night stands. It's what I enjoy doing.

Is this beta?

Hahaha. Are you in a black frat?

[lskdfjldsf]

Don't do it unless you know the girl very well and know she's clean beyond a reasonable doubt.

When I first moved to Europe I assumed it was a prerequisite. First chance I had, I jumped down but she rejected it (alot of girls are insecure when they aren't "fresh"). About a week later my dick caught on fire and I tested positive for chlamydia.

Thank god for her insecurity.

[Architekt]