[2Wycked]

All:

I would like to hear your stories about self-absorped women, particularly sexually and romantically.

Interesting conversations, peculiar habits and particular back-and-forths would be great. How did they seduce you? How did they drain you?

Still, any encounters with women who have psychological issues is welcome.

2Wycked

[JimNortonFan]

This has happened to me at work several times:

Woman who isn't good at anything approaches all smiles and earnestness and kindness and enthusiasm. Compliments me on intellect and calls me cute etc.

I ignore, hoping it goes away. They persist, escalate, figure out that I'm not clueless, just disinterested. They decide they hate my guts.

They create hostile environment for me, I have no legal recourse because I'm a man.

Luckily, I have a new job where we only hire the top people in the field. I don't deal with losers any more.


On campus but not for work:

Primly dressed petite Asian-American cutie approaches in library, her voice goes up 2 octaves until it's Dr. Drew's dreaded little girl voice. She's all smiles, earnestness, kindness, and enthusiasm. Our dates are all about her trying to please me. Later, the following things occur:

Her older brother arranges to catch us in the act, hoping to see his little sister getting railed (he got there 2-5 minutes too early)
She tells me her parents ended up together because her father raped her mother
She tells me she likes to go to conferences and take guys to her hotel room and fellate them 5 minutes after meeting them
She comes from fellatio (with me and probably the others too)
I find a scrapbook with pictures of 2 or 3 dozen dudes in it, mine at the end
She tells me one of the biggest problems in our relationship is that the first names she has chosen for her kids sound bad when combined with my last name
4.0 GPA at Top 5 university but a dumb person
Calls me "The Babymaker"
Can't take a compliment, especially on her body (which had some nice features)


If they're all about making you happy they're either foreign, redneck, or a narcissist.

[Days of Broken Arrows]

(08-23-2013 09:10 AM)JimNortonFan Wrote:  

This has happened to me at work several times:

Woman who isn't good at anything approaches all smiles and earnestness and kindness and enthusiasm. Compliments me on intellect and calls me cute etc.

I ignore, hoping it goes away. They persist, escalate, figure out that I'm not clueless, just disinterested. They decide they hate my guts.

They create hostile environment for me, I have no legal recourse because I'm a man.

Luckily, I have a new job where we only hire the top people in the field. I don't deal with losers any more.


On campus but not for work:

Primly dressed petite Asian-American cutie approaches in library, her voice goes up 2 octaves until it's Dr. Drew's dreaded little girl voice. She's all smiles, earnestness, kindness, and enthusiasm. Our dates are all about her trying to please me. Later, the following things occur:

Her older brother arranges to catch us in the act, hoping to see his little sister getting railed (he got there 2-5 minutes too early)
She tells me her parents ended up together because her father raped her mother
She tells me she likes to go to conferences and take guys to her hotel room and fellate them 5 minutes after meeting them
She comes from fellatio (with me and probably the others too)
I find a scrapbook with pictures of 2 or 3 dozen dudes in it, mine at the end
She tells me one of the biggest problems in our relationship is that the first names she has chosen for her kids sound bad when combined with my last name
4.0 GPA at Top 5 university but a dumb person
Calls me "The Babymaker"
Can't take a compliment, especially on her body (which had some nice features)


If they're all about making you happy they're either foreign, redneck, or a narcissist.

"They persist, escalate, figure out that I'm not clueless, just disinterested. They decide they hate my guts."

My God, this just happened to me! A longtime friend/occasional sex buddy is "aging out." Suddenly she decides she "wants us to date." WTF?! Is this a decree from the fucking Queen? There is no WAY I would ever commit to this nutjob - but I do like her body and she can be fun.

So I friend-zoned her in the nicest possible way. Monday I get one email saying I did the right thing but with weird caveats. Three hours later she writes a long, rambling screed saying she never wants to speak to me again! Her reasoning? Me telling her the reasons I didn't want to date her constituted "abuse of her" and was an "attack" and I was "cruel" and heartless, etc.

IMO this is privileged middle class white-woman-insanity. If you tell a group of people in school and in the media they're FANTASTIC 24/7, when someone rejects them they can't handle it. It's important at times like these to remember that American women have a magazine called SELF and no one questions that as perverse and insane. Can you imagine a mag with a name like that for men?

[JimNortonFan]

They should call the magazine "Hamster".

[KingJamesXXIII]

My experience would take up 100 pages. Just 1 experience.

[MikeCF]

I was going through an especially trying time in my life. I was at a low point, totally fucked up, had the rug swept out from under me.

I don't agonize when bad shit happens. I try getting at peace with it, to accept what cannot be changed and change what can be changed.

We would fight because she needed to talk about HER feelings about the matter.

I was the one facing a life or death situation.

If I lost this fight, my life would be over. She'd be able to move on eventually.

Rather than respect that talking about problems just puts me in a bad place, we would then fight because she needed to talk about how she felt about the situation.

As you know, with a narcissist, they need "fed" constantly. Sure, let's talk about my situation. Let's not talk about it EVERY day though, ya know?

So the most fucked up situation in my life was made worse because she couldn't just let me "put it to the side" and live my life.

[Mentavious]

I've had big problems ignoring woman at work.

Sometimes I don't feel like talking, sometimes I'm tired, maybe I'm busy, etc.

When this happens they think it's all about them. Like I am specifically targeting them. I've had one yell at me for being a dick and another one tell my manager.

I'm just glad I currently work in an environment where there aren't many females.

[T and A Man]

I reckon up until I got into the manosphere and taking the red-pill, I must the the type of personality that enabled narcissism.

What ALWAYS ended up with women was them continuously escalating their emotional demands, via drama, fights, whatever.

I'd try to be noble and meet their needs, but eventually the scale was consuming all my time.

I'd spend so much time placating them, that I would never have enough time to focus on myself and maintain mental and emotional health.

It becoems unhealthy when you're unaware because you put in greater and greater effort, only for it to be a 'failed' outcome.

Our fem-centric society doesn't even consider the narrative it's because she is broken... it has to be you are doing something wrong.

[AnonymousBosch]

I know the people involved, so - unfortunately - it's not bullshit, although the whole story makes *no fucking sense to me whatsoever*, but this is, apparently, the chain of events that has happened:

- Nasty divorce when the wife decided she was a lesbian, and shacks up with your older clichéd bull dyke into power tools and home renovations, resulting in shared custody of the 3 year old boy.

- At a party with other kids and adults, the boy decides to show the other kids the game his 'new mommy' plays with him, involving repeatedly inserting things in and out of his butt. (I guess the bull dyke lesbian is trying to make him gay so he won't rape women or something). The adults are horrified, and report this to the police.

- Police say they can't do anything unless the kid makes an on-record statement in front of a child services case worker.

- Kid does so... then tells the story again in front of multiple witness and is videotaped doing this... and nothing happens. Police say it's a child services issue and can only arrest her or register her as a sex offender after they sign off that the child has definitely been abused.

- Ex-wife is horrified and leaves the lesbian. But the lesbian still demands visitation rights (!) and gets it from the politically-correct court system, that I assume is terrified of being considered homophobic - despite the fact that the birth mother and father both don't want her having access to the child, and the child has been shown in supervised visitations by a social worker to be ambivalent to her presence. The lesbian herself seems indifferent to the child, but is focused on hurting her ex.

- After 11 months of legal fighting - high court and all - father wants to know why the lesbian hasn't been arrested, and rings the child services case worker, who makes excuses. In frustration, he tells her to get off her 'fat arse' and do something.

- She loses her shit over this, and has repeatedly refused to do anything else on this case, but won't pass it on to someone else, unless she gets a formal apology. That was six months ago

The Social Worker's vanity is more important to her than whether or not a child is being anally-violated.

Narcissistic women are evil.

The fact that any feminist reading this story would dismiss it as being made up depresses me further.

[Christian McQueen]

Where do I start...

I tend to be the 'taker' with girls though so if I spot these qualities right away I eject.

Girls were made to enhance MY life; not the other way arround.

The best decision you can make as a player is to live your life for YOU and not drive yourself crazy trying to fees a girl's ego or constant 'needs'. It's pointless because them being emotional creatures, they will become energy vampires and suck your soul out of you.

[pheonix500000]

(11-04-2013 09:52 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  

I was going through an especially trying time in my life. I was at a low point, totally fucked up, had the rug swept out from under me.

I don't agonize when bad shit happens. I try getting at peace with it, to accept what cannot be changed and change what can be changed.

We would fight because she needed to talk about HER feelings about the matter.

I was the one facing a life or death situation.

If I lost this fight, my life would be over. She'd be able to move on eventually.

Rather than respect that talking about problems just puts me in a bad place, we would then fight because she needed to talk about how she felt about the situation.

As you know, with a narcissist, they need "fed" constantly. Sure, let's talk about my situation. Let's not talk about it EVERY day though, ya know?

So the most fucked up situation in my life was made worse because she couldn't just let me "put it to the side" and live my life.

i remembered you once said that you had to go to the dead sea to sort something out, how did it turn out?