Quote: (08-14-2013 02:06 PM)el duderino Wrote:
Any body have anecdotes or success using the silent treatment on a gf/fiance/wife/dirty hooker? Specifically, if they are complaining or bitching at you for supposed wrongs you have committed. In my experience, engaging them briefly in the beginning to acknowledge their gripe and then sitting quietly while doing other things or driving works best. It usually takes them a few minutes of yappinh before they realize they are being ignored. I have had my woman do this...then realize i am not listening. We sit in silence for hours sometimes if we are driving somewhere. Then 45 min later she will go..."sooo are we just not talking anymore then?"
Every single time it is all i can do not to start laughing.
The tried and true, "are you finished?" is always a good one too.
It always surprises me how the elementary basics of game are extremely powerful in seeming "bigger" situations.
I like to think of certain game concepts as compound lifts (squats, bench, deadlifts, etc). They are fundamental. They apply whether you're approaching a girl for the first time or after years of a relationship. Some of them apply at the workplace, in coercing peers, superiors, and drones to follow your lead or bestow favor upon you. Want to know which one I'm talking about?
Agree and amplify.
There is no single greater power move than agree and amplify.
Girl in a bar: "Do you say that to all the girls?"
You: "Yes, especially girls with snaggle-teeth like you. It's a fetish of mine" (She'll be offended. Initiate push-pull with humor)
Your girlfriend of 4 years: "Am I getting fat?"
You: "Your hips have definitely gotten bigger. You know how much I love them wide birthing hips." (She'll be offended and grossed out. Girls in LTRs love abuse and cruelty. Most of them also don't want kids and consider childbirth gross or creepy)
Your coworkers: "We've gotten complaints that you're behavior comes across as arrogant."
You: "I absolutely agree. It's clear that there's a shortage of people here that give a shit."
Girls bitching at you for "supposed wrongs you have committed", as you put it: shit testing 101.
Silence is okay. It's a little more old-school. It's what your grandpa would have done to let his woman know that he's angry and not to fuck with him. These days though, it still gives women the upper hand. Same with, "Are you done?" That's something a woman would say to a man she's trying to belittle. Female tactics.
What you really want is boldness, something where after you say your piece, she's sitting there with her eyebrows raised, thinking, "Shit. I was NOT expecting that."
"Did you clean up like I asked you to?"
"Of course not. I'm the king of the castle and you're my wench."
"Did you remember our double dinner date with so-and-so on Friday night?"
"Yes, that's why I scheduled a Scotch tasting with my friends. Let me know how dinner goes."
She'll react to a lot of these with anger, and you can't be pulling stuff this bold if you've been a pussy up to this point. Takes a transition period. But even with her ensuing anger, you keep your frame and then work in some humor and affection into it.
While telling her she's your wench and you're the king of the castle, you go up to her and start grabbing her ass. You pin her against the wall and rub her pussy, and then walk away leaving her confused.